Looking at the people who were busy in and out of the courtyard, Xia Ning, who had nothing to do, was a little bored.

Because the wedding will be held tomorrow, everyone will not allow her to be busy with work today, and even the village committee will let her rest at home for a few days.

Isn't this a disguised way to let her take marriage leave?

For everyone's kindness and enthusiasm, Xia Ning had no choice but to accept it happily.

But the family didn't want her to interfere in the work, so she had to sit by the window boredly and watch everyone busy.

"Second sister-in-law, I made a pot of milk tea, do you want a cup?"

Song Yunxi walked in with a tray with a pot of freshly brewed fragrant milk tea, which was taught to her by her second sister-in-law.

This time happened to be the time for afternoon tea, and she saw that her second sister-in-law was bored when she was alone, so she deliberately cooked a pot of hot milk tea.

Not to mention, in such a cold weather, drinking a cup of hot and sweet milk tea is really a happy thing.

"Okay, thank you Yunxi." Xia Ning turned around and smiled and thanked her, she really hadn't drunk milk tea in a while.

"You're welcome, this is still the method you taught me."

Song Yunxi said as she poured a cup of hot milk tea for Xia Ning, she didn't expect that she only needed some tea leaves and milk to make such a delicious milk tea.

"Second sister-in-law, do you drink it to see if it tastes right?"

Xia Ning took the cup and took a sip, "Well, it's delicious, it's just this taste, you have a good control of the proportions." ”

"That's good." Praised by his sister-in-law, Song Yunxi happily drank the cup.

So, the aunt and sister-in-law sat by the window, drinking milk tea and gossiping about homely things, which contrasted with the busyness in the yard.

"Sister-in-law, are you nervous?"

Xia Ning didn't react for a while, "Huh? Nervous about what? ”

Song Yunxi asked embarrassedly, "Tomorrow you and your second brother will get married, aren't you nervous?" I heard that the girl's family will be very nervous when they get married. ”

When she was in Kyoto before, when she went to send the boudoir sisters to get married, they were very nervous, either worried about this or that, and seemed to be afraid that something would go wrong at the wedding, and the whole person was restless and thinking a lot.

So when she saw her second sister-in-law looking so leisurely, she couldn't help but be a little curious.

Hearing this, Xia Ning thought for a while and said calmly, "It's okay, I don't feel nervous now, maybe it's because I've been living with you."

And tomorrow's wedding is just a ritual process, and I will eventually come back here, for me, I don't have the feeling of going to a strange place and getting along with someone I don't know. ”

After all, her situation is different from the local girls who are married, she has lived with her mother-in-law's family in advance before she gets married, and she also gets along with each other, and she has long been similar to a family.

She was already familiar with all of them, including the place where they were going to live in the future.

The most important thing is that she and Song Shaoqin are tied by a thousand miles of marriage, and what they are united by free love is not a marriage of blind marriage and dumb marriage by the order of their parents.

So she is not confused about her married life, nor is she afraid.

"That's right, now that I think about it, I find that it's really good to be like you and your second brother, you can have the opportunity to get along and understand each other before you get married, so there is a lot less strangeness and distance, and your life after marriage will inevitably be harmonious and beautiful."

Song Yunxi suddenly understood, and the whole person was even more envious, although the relationship between the eldest brother and sister-in-law was also very good, but she was even more envious of the friendship between the second brother and the second sister-in-law, and always felt that their relationship was a little different.

She can't describe this feeling, but it makes her very envious.

Seeing her with envy on her face, Xia Ning couldn't help but hold her hand and said, "You can too, haven't you and Wen Qingsong already settled down, although it is the marriage partner that the elders in the family helped you choose, you can also try to get along with him more."

On weekdays, when you have nothing to do, you can make an appointment to read a book or something together, don't be embarrassed to hide, girls should be reserved, but they can't be too passive, and it's okay to take the initiative once in a while.

What's more, he is your fiancé, the person you will stay with for the rest of your life in the future, there is nothing wrong with you taking the initiative with him, and the reason why you let you get along with him more is so that we can get to know him in advance.

If in the process of getting along, you find that each other's personalities or concepts are different, then there is still a chance to make a new choice, and you don't have to force them together, which is better than finding problems after marriage but not repenting, right?

Do you think, how long a life is, if the other party can't get along with you, how tormenting is living together? It's better to know more before marriage, in fact, this is the most responsible way for you and him. ”

Half a month ago, the Song and Wen families set up a family affair for Song Yunxi and Wen Qingsong, and the two of them are very compatible in all aspects, and the two elders are also very satisfied.

If Yunxi wants to pick a target, judging from the comprehensive conditions, there is indeed no more suitable candidate than Wen Qingsong in the entire base.

Perhaps there is another layer of consideration for the elders, if the two younger generations get married, it will undoubtedly further deepen the relationship between the Wen family and the Song family.

Of course, the Song family is not the kind of family that needs to rely on the marriage of children to stabilize the regime, and the main reason for choosing Wen Qingsong is that he is more prominent among his generation, and all the conditions are suitable for Yunxi.

And everyone has also asked Yunxi for her own opinion, and she herself is also satisfied with Wen Qingsong, so the two families have decided on a family affair for the two of them.

As for the wedding, it is scheduled for May next year, after all, this is the daughter-in-law of the Wen family, so it is natural to prepare well, so it is more than half a year.

"Is that so? Then I think about it. ”

After listening to the words of the second sister-in-law, Song Yunxi looked thoughtful, she originally came to accompany the second sister-in-law to relieve her boredom, but she didn't think about it, but listening to such a remark, she suddenly had a feeling of sudden realization.

In fact, the people of the base are much more enlightened than the capital, and the atmosphere is also very good, and there are not so many messy rules and constraints in the capital. She also felt that her temperament was too shy and a little too polite.

Maybe she should try to be brave and get to know him more?

Xia Ning encouraged, "Come on! You can, he will be your family in the future, you don't have to feel embarrassed, if you have anything to express, just say to him, the most important thing for two people to get along is to communicate, to communicate more. ”

Although she grew up in the 21st century and accepted the ideas of women in the new era, she lived in a feudal dynasty, so she could not measure everything with modern ideas.

For example, when the Song family chooses a husband for Yunxi, they have their standards for looking at people, and they also know better what kind of person Yunxi is and what kind of talent is suitable for her.

Because their set is more applicable to this era, can it be said that this method is completely wrong?

The only thing she can do is to impart some experience in getting along with men and women, so that she can get more happiness in this marriage.

Take the initiative in your happiness.

Good night~

(End of chapter)