Before I Grow Old + Yokogawa Three Moves (continued) Big and Small Animals (14)
I went to pick up my cousin after work, it happened to be the evening rush hour, the traffic was not smooth, like suffering from coronary atherosclerosis, Xiao Song happened to say something private. She asked Yao Dongzhi, did her uncle and aunt let her come?
Yao Dongzhi knew the meaning of his cousin's words as soon as he heard it, put his hands together, put his fingertips on his chin, and said: "Uncle and aunt don't know anything, I came to Surabaya City to relax, I didn't tell them in advance, they only thought I was still in Yangcheng." ”
Xiao Song put his mind at ease, and said half-jokingly and half-seriously: "Is it just to scatter your heart?" ”
"Take a break and take a look at my cousin-in-law by the way. To be honest, a little curious, and a little relieved. ”
Xiao Song smiled dumbly, "I'm afraid that I will be deceived by a scumbag?" ”
Yao Dongzhi was a little embarrassed, scratched his smooth forehead, and was speechless. Xiao Song turned his head to look at her and whispered, "Thank you for caring about me." He's just my ...... boyfriend, not some cousin-in-law. Bystander Qing, can you help me see how good he is......"
Xiao Song's family is very good, her uncle and aunt are experts specially appointed by the Ministry of Water Resources, their incomes are very high, and there are also senior officials at the department and ministerial level among their relatives, why is Gu Hengchuan unwilling to marry her? Yao Dongzhi was puzzled, and asked a few words on the side, Xiao Song was also afraid that she would say the wrong thing later, and said: "I didn't tell him much about the family, he was with me because he got along with me, not because he valued anything else." We walk together, we have a common life, we have our own lives, and we don't want anyone else to join us. Marriage is never a matter of two people, once we get married, our feelings take a back seat, and many things have to be forced to be compromised. ”
Yao Dongzhi blinked, listening a little confused.
Xiao Song continued: "We are weekend couples, we usually work in the same unit, make an appointment to have a meal at noon, and go home separately in the evening to enjoy the time alone. He doesn't like children, and he doesn't like to eat and chat with his elders, and I just don't like it either, so I never force him. In him, I saw another self, the only difference is that everything he has is earned by his hands, while I rely on my parents. Everything he earned with his own hands, no matter what, he will not give up easily, he is very satisfied with his current life, going to work, raising a cat, reading books, spending weekends with me, he does not want to change. ”
Yao Dongzhi finally interjected: "Even if it's for you?" ”
Xiao Song did not answer directly, she said: "We are both rational people who are more emotional than emotional, at first we approached cautiously, cautiously tested, and confirmed that the other party would not affect our lives, and then we came together." It was because I didn't ask him to change that he accepted me, and vice versa. ”
Yao Dongzhi was shocked, the choice of her cousin and cousin-in-law shook her values, she blurted out: "I can understand if I don't like to eat and chat with my elders, why don't I like children?" ”
Xiao Song said while waiting for the red light: "I also asked him this question, he said that he is a rational person, if you ask yourself in advance, what is the purpose to achieve?" Can it be achieved? At what cost? He never does anything senseless. The child is emotional, does not talk about the pros and cons, and is blindly willful, so he stays away and does not need to ask for trouble. ”
Yao Dongzhi shook his head and said, "How can a child be compared to an adult!" ”
Xiao Song said: "Yes, so we don't like children. ”
Yao Dongzhi said: "You all value your own lives, especially cousin, don't be angry, isn't it a bit ...... Selfish? ”
Xiao Song smiled and asked her, "Is it selfish to be a weekend couple?" Is it selfish not to get married? Is it selfish not to have children? ”
Yao Dongzhi opened his mouth and stammered, unable to refute.
Xiao Song said: "It is necessary to know that unevenness and polymorphism are the source of happiness. It is our natural right to follow our own will and choose the way we live, it is not selfishness. Anyone who imposes his own opinions on us is selfish. ”
Yao Dongzhi always felt that something was wrong, but he couldn't even convince himself, so how could he convince his cousin? She fell silent.
The atmosphere of the dinner was very good, with Shiba sushi takeaway, sake, and talking and laughing. What made Xiao Song relieved was that Gu Hengchuan was not restrained by the arrival of Yao Dongzhi, and simply greeted a few words, he should eat, drink, and talk, neither humble nor arrogant, just like treating an ordinary colleague.
Yao Dongzhi didn't care about "looking at her cousin-in-law", she was completely attracted to Schrödinger, in her words, "my heart is about to melt". She asked Gu Hengchuan if she could feed it salmon, and after receiving an affirmative answer, she gave Schrödinger her share. Xiao Song smiled and watched her tease the cat, replaced the wine with tea, clinked glasses with Gu Hengchuan, and whispered: "Schrödinger is really powerful, everyone loves him, and the flowers bloom!" ”
Gu Hengchuan said: "If it eats a bad mouth, if it doesn't eat non-salmon in the future, I can't afford to raise it." ”
Xiao Song smiled and said, "I can keep it!" ”
Yao Dongzhi raised his head and interjected: "Such a spirited cat, you should give it salmon!" Right? She reached out to hug Schrödinger, Schrödinger dodged the salmon in his mouth, slipped to Gu Hengchuan's feet, and swallowed the fatty fish meat in two bites.
Yao Dongzhi was a little embarrassed, and Xiao Song said: "Schrödinger is a little recognizant, and he is not close to people, so he stays better for a long time." She teased it with a piece of fish, and when Schrödinger came closer, she took it in her arms and scratched its jaw, and Schrödinger narrowed his eyes in comfort.
Yao Dongzhi tentatively stretched out his hand and gently stroked Schrödinger, perhaps because he had fed a lot of salmon, but this time Schrödinger was very cooperative.
After petting the cat, Yao Dongzhi couldn't help but ask Gu Hengchuan: "How did you raise Schrödinger?" The coat color is so good, so spirited! ”
Gu Hengchuan said: "Good congenital genes, raise them casually, and eat whatever you want." ”
Xiao Song said: "I have also seen it eat sparrows and voles. ”
"Whew-" Yao Dongzhi dragged out his voice to express dissatisfaction, "How can the little fairy eat those things!" ”
Gu Hengchuan said: "It's a little male cat. ”
Yao Dongzhi rolled his eyes, feeling that this sentence was very slight, and at the same time felt a little regretful in his heart, Schrödinger would be so good if it was a female cat!