How is social phobia generally formed?

The most common saying is that there is not enough sense of security in childhood, where does the child get his sense of security when he is a child? It can only be Mom and Dad.

When she stayed with Lin Xinyu, she didn't feel scared at all, she only had one feeling, even if the sky fell, he would stand on it, and this feeling was not just once, but every time.

In such a situation, it is a little difficult for the little girl to be afraid, all her thoughts are on how to resist his bullying, and she has no time to think about other things.

Lin Xinyu must also know that Bai Shihan will be afraid, but it is because he knows that he is happy to accompany her to do those things that he dare not do, and only after facing it will the girl understand that it is not terrible at all.

It's like calling now.

"Shihan, if you have time, let Xiaoyu take you to Auntie's place to play."

"Good ......"

There's nothing to be afraid of at all.

Before I did it, I was inevitably nervous, and when everything happened, I felt that it was not as terrible as I imagined.

Not only that, but he will think that he has successfully found a backer, if he dares to bully her in the future, tell his aunt directly, and let his aunt clean up.

Lin's father and Lin's mother are from here, and after hearing that their daughter-in-law promised to come over and have a look when they have time, they left the room and left the rest of the time for them to keep warm.

"Ah, Auntie?" Bai Shihan's voice was very small, obviously tempting.

Lin Xinyu also replied in a low voice: "They have already gone out, let me cultivate a relationship with you." ”

"Cai, there is no emotion, I, we are just good friends."

"I still remember you said, wait until I have the bride price ready, and then marry you home."

"Forget, forget ......"

How could she admit such a shameful thing, belonging to a harder mouth than a dead duck.

At the same time, I am very happy in my heart, and Lin Xinyu can give all the security that I want to have, which is something that every girl wants to have.

is different from some boys, who are still secretive when they fall in love, for fear of being known by relatives and friends, when they really like someone, such as Lin Xinyu, they can't wait to bring a small trumpet and let everyone all over the world know that Bai Shihan is his wife.

"Be obedient, wait for me to earn money to marry you home."

"It's going to be tiring......"

The little girl thinks differently from others, in her opinion, Lin Xinyu would not have been so tired, but now she will work so hard for her as she is now, her heart is full of guilt, and sometimes she even thinks, if he doesn't want to be with her, will it be much easier?

"What are you afraid of, boys are nothing more than making money, and then taking the girl they like around the world, and when they are tired of playing, they want to rest, then go back to their hometown and make a little Xiaohan that symbolizes love, this is the happiest thing in my life."

"Then, what would you do if you met a better girl, what if, I said if, if you do, you must tell me, we, we're just best friends now, no, it's okay."

Bai Shihan is very bold on the other end of the phone, she doesn't have to hide it at all, she has long wanted to say these words, or that girls in love will be the same as little girls, in fact, this is not vexatious at all, but they are really thinking seriously, and they really put the person they like in the first place, afraid of losing.

Lin Xinyu naturally knows that Bai Shihan's personality is easy to be cranky, and all she needs to do is stay by her side.

Sometimes liking is not meant to be expressed in words, and actions can be fully expressed.

"If you say this again, I'll ...... when we meet."

The boy pauses deliberately, often enough to make the other person tremble.

"You can't bully me!"

She was afraid of being bullied by him, and at the same time she was a little looking forward to being bullied by him, as if there were two thoughts in her heart, one was more restrained, and the other was unrestrained.

"Don't ask me what I should do if I meet a better girl in the future, there are a lot of shells on the beach, and there is no time to choose thousands of shapes, but I know that the one that belongs to me, and the rest of the rest, it doesn't matter what, all I can do is protect what belongs to me."

The law of the jungle is like this, there will always be a better person in the world, and the reason why both parties in love feel that the other party does not know each other will be exciting, is entirely because of the so-called reduced freshness, and there are often many people who choose to give up in this critical period, but everyone only has one freshness.

Learn to be good at discovering the good in each other.

For example, Bai Shihan doesn't have any shortcomings in Lin Xinyu's eyes at all, even if he does, he feels that he always bullies her, and does nothing without waiting for her to agree, it's really annoying!

On both sides of the phone, the boy listened quietly to the girl's gentle breathing, and so did the girl.

Even if you can't be around, as long as you can feel the other person's presence, it's easy to be satisfied.

"Have you missed me these days?"

"No ......"

"I'm missing you."

"Well, then I miss you a little bit too......"

He admitted that he missed her, and she naturally wouldn't let the other party suffer, but he was embarrassed to admit it boldly, and in the end he could only describe it with a little bit.

Lin Xinyu is used to Bai Shihan's way of expression, and because of this, he feels that the other party is cute, even though it may be a little difficult on her parents' side, but it is because of Bai Shihan that he has enough motivation.

Although he has a leading thinking that surpasses everyone else, it is obviously impossible to get rich overnight without start-up capital in hand.

The development of the Internet will only become more and more powerful with the replacement of smartphones, as does the ordering and errands he prepares.

Not to mention the rise of communication, short video, and shopping platforms, all of which can stand at the end, as long as it can be convenient for customer groups in advance, it will definitely be blown to the highest by the so-called tuyere.

It's because I don't know what Bai Shihan's family does, so this invisible pressure will be enough.

For a self-made man like him, he can only survive in the hands of capital by controlling the time of future business development and carefully planning.

Lin Xinyu took a deep breath: "Wait for me to marry you home, I, my best friend." ”

Bai Shihan on the other end of the phone was suddenly frightened by what he said without a beginning or an end, and he didn't know how to respond for a while, so he nodded subconsciously, and whispered a promise from his mouth in a confused voice.

"Hmmm......"

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