14. Mother-daughter reflection

There are some things in the world that cannot be done according to common sense. For example, Zhao Jinju took the initiative to go to Zhangjiamen, which did not conform to local customs. Zhao Jinju is not stupid, she understands! The reason why he took the initiative to go to Zhang's house was because he felt that Zhang Ping'an was good to her, and he was kind. The first time I went to Shanghai, I denounced the smoking youth at the station and did justice to help her; Find a place in the car, and take care of her all the way to help her; When I was in Shanghai, I went to her school several times to ask her to play, buy bus tickets, eat, etc., and Zhang Ping'an paid for her to help her; said that she bought a ticket, and she also asked him to buy a train ticket, which can be regarded as helping her. He helped her like an older brother. He invited her to the house to play, and to have a meal or something. Didn't he eat two meals at her house? It's a friendship between friends, normal! As for boyfriends and girlfriends, I can't talk about it yet.

On the way back, Zhao Jinju thought: The Zhang family, especially the second sister, seems to be a little difficult for her. Look down on her family, look down on her parents. Asked some difficult questions. Daddy can't have another little brother, she asked grandma. She did not reply. For a young girl, how can you say that her father is incompetent! It can only be inferred that it is not clear. Daddy's leg crutches, Zhang Ping'an saw it. The grandparents have also seen it, and they asked if they were in good health, obviously looking down on them a little. To look down on them is to look down on me, to look down on me, what else to talk about? The loss was just an exchange of photos. It's just a graduation photo, and it's the same to send a souvenir to your classmates, nothing.

Zhao Jinju thought as she walked, and unconsciously arrived at her own tea pavilion. The tea pavilion stopped selling tea early, and what kind of tea was still sold on a cold day, but as soon as she saw the tea pavilion, she remembered the summer of three years ago (it was early autumn), and remembered the shot of the guy with a black face, who came up to the ridge, entered the tea pavilion, and drank the teacup in one gulp. It seems that Zhang Ping'an is a little domineering, or it can be said that he is a little stupid, how can he drink other people's tea without asking the price or saying hello? At least rude! Looking at it today, he doesn't seem to have an opinion. Listen to the questions of his mother and second sister. At first, I helped her reply, but then she was stunned! It's a bit of dementia.

In the evening, Sun Erniang came to her daughter's room early. Zhao Jinju knew her mother's purpose, so she took the initiative to pour beans from a bamboo tube and report the matter at Zhang's house to her mother. Sun Erniang didn't ask immediately, but thought for a while before saying, "Ju'er, this family business can't be done, let's not talk about it." ”

"Why?" Zhao Jinju is a little reluctant to talk about it, listen to her mother's meaning, and don't talk about it, she wants to listen to her mother's opinion.

Sun Erniang is a farmer and a housewife. But she has been selling tea for many years and has met many people. Passing by her teahouse were not only peasants, but also workers, students, intellectuals, state cadres, and so on. Although not getting acquainted with them. But she listened to their conversation when they rested at the tea pavilion, looked at their behavior, and probably had some experience in distinguishing a person. She thinks that Zhang Ping'an himself has nothing, which is okay. From her daughter's confession, she saw that his second sister was rude, and she disliked her family, whether she was poor or suspicious of many people, she couldn't say. To be honest, Erniang has thought about it a long time ago, poor life is easy to deal with, and she can endure hardships. But the two old people have to serve when they are old, especially when they are sick, it is not easy to serve. In addition, her husband is disabled and has no labor force, so the responsibility of taking care of the elderly falls on her shoulders alone. If you are old again and have another illness, who will take care of this family? used to count on his daughter to recruit Lang, but now he can't do it again, so he can only count on Zhao Jinju's daughter alone. Can she afford it? What to do when you get old? is a big problem. Today, it was proposed by others, but it has not been raised in person! But this is also a law of nature, it will happen sooner or later, Sun Erniang feels that Zhang Ping'an is unreliable. She already knew that Zhang Ping'an would not be around for work in the future. It's close to home, it's possible to come back and see, and it's impossible to let people serve by your side! So Sun Erniang said: "Ju'er, our family is poor, and we are not a good match for the Zhang family." There are many elderly people in our family, and it is impossible to expect others to serve us! It's not that he looks down on you, it's that his family looks down on ours! Erniang finally concluded: "This is the end of the matter!" Don't develop anymore, I guess his family is also the same conclusion! ”

"If you don't talk about it, don't talk about it! Mother! We just have a preliminary understanding, you think it's not suitable, I feel the same way, just don't move forward! Mother and daughter have the same thoughts, and Zhao Jinju will act according to the established policy.

The Zhang family is not without movement, it is going on quietly. The Zhang family used Zhang Ping'an's eldest sister Zhang Pingping. asked Zhang Pingping to go to Zhaozhuang to secretly investigate, and the local dialect was three words: "Investigate people's homes". Zhang Pingping, Zhao Jinju has never seen it, and he doesn't know it when he sees it. The secret investigation is quiet, and Sun Erniang's family doesn't know about it. According to the undercover report. The Zhang family agrees: it's better not to talk about it.

Only Zhang Ping'an reserved his opinion and said: "Let's talk about the future in the future!" "He is the one who fell in love with Zhao Jinju, much stronger than his classmate Cheng Fengjiao, and he is also a flower! However, he has a mathematical brain, knows how to calculate, and does not get carried away and does not listen to the opinions of his family.

The relationship between the two froze. Correspondence is still in contact, and it should only be handled as a friend who knows it. Everyone tacitly knows that no one will pierce this layer of paper.