46. Divorce peacefully

On January 8, 1971, Zhao Jinju gave birth to a girl named Dongmei. The plum blossoms that bloom in winter, the plum blossoms of the wax moon bloom according to the snow, the weather is cold, the wind and snow are blowing, and they still bloom, and the vitality is strong! Regarding what the surname is, Zhao Jinju said that her surname is Zhao, and the children in the township have their father's surname, and their mother's surname is not good! But Director Jiang said that it doesn't matter, if the daughter is not passed on, it doesn't matter what the surname is. Jiang Zhongliu said that it is better to have the surname Jiang, regardless of whether he is his biological father or not, since Zhao Jinju married him, the child must be surnamed Jiang, or it will be difficult to explain to the outside world. Zhao Jinju agreed with him, the girl's surname is Jiang, and her name is Jiang Dongmei.

According to the customs in the township, Sun Erniang became a grandmother, and being a grandmother means going to her daughter's house to take care of her daughter's confinement. Forty days of confinement, taken care of by the biological mother, knowing the cold and the heat, intimate and close to the lungs, even if there is something missing, it is okay. The mother is not a mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law is separated by a layer. In the old society, the mother-in-law was in charge of the daughter-in-law, and she could be picky about the daughter-in-law, and even beat and scolded; The new society is reversed, and it is the daughter-in-law who manages the mother-in-law. Of course, Zhao Jinju is not such a daughter-in-law. Jiang's mother is not a mother-in-law in the old society. Their relationship is good! Sun Erniang can also be a person, she knows how many catties and taels she has, she is good to her daughter, and she also respects Jiang's mother, Jiang's mother is good to Zhao Jinju, and she is also polite to Sun Erniang.

In order to take better care of Jiang Dongmei, Jiang Zhongliu took the initiative to move out and give way to his mother-in-law. Sun Erniang, Zhao Jinju, and Jiang Dongmei were in the same room, and they were safe.

On the fourth day after giving birth, Zhang Ping'an and his wife came to visit Zhao Jinju, but Cheng Fengjiao was reluctant to come, she thought it had nothing to do with her. You gave birth to your child, I, Cheng Fengjiao, and you are neither relatives nor classmates, what do you do? But I was afraid that Zhang Ping'an would be unhappy. She must be Zhang Ping'an's friend, her husband's friend, that is, her own friend. What's more, she came to their house to congratulate, and she can be regarded as a friend, so she came with Zhang Ping'an.

Zhang Ping'an saw Jiang Dongmei, the small cloth was big, and it had only been three or four days since she came to the world, so she knew that she had opened her eyes. Isn't it because they can't tell me, he likes it very much, and reaches out to hug him. Sun Erniang stopped him, saying that the child was too young, she was going to sleep, don't alarm her. Cheng Fengjiao felt very embarrassed, holding a child, liking children is a woman's duty, but she didn't dare to stretch out her hand, seeing Zhang Ping'an's embarrassed appearance, it was also very uncomfortable, if only she had a child!

But Cheng Fengjiao's stomach is still on the wrong side.

On February 8, Jiang Dongmei was full moon, held a full moon wine, and invited Zhang Ping'an and his wife. Zhang Ping'an went to two banquets in just two months, both to congratulate others, and when he came back, he still decocted Chinese medicine and continued to treat Cheng Fengjiao. But Cheng Fengjiao's stomach is still on the sidelines.

Zhang Ping'an is okay, he still patiently decoctions the medicine, but Cheng Fengjiao can't stand it, the kind of medicine he drinks every day smells bad, and he has to import it! She said to Zhang Ping'an: "Since it's useless, don't eat it, I'll go to Nanchang during the winter vacation!" ”

If you don't eat it, you won't eat it! I've been eating it intermittently for a few months, don't say that Cheng Fengjiao is bored, Zhang Ping'an feels tired. When the teachers asked, it was difficult to explain. I had to lie and say that I had a bad stomach. It is a medicine that is poisonous, and if you are not sick, you will get sick. It is true that Cheng Fengjiao's stomach feels uncomfortable. The school has an infirmary, and teachers can be reimbursed for their medical visits, but the doctors in the infirmary are clear. The reimbursement has to be managed by the doctor, and the fact that Cheng Fengjiao can't give birth to cubs is gradually known by the teachers, most of them are sympathetic, and some are sneering: "Why is Teacher Cheng a chicken who doesn't lay eggs?" ”

People are people, not chickens! didn't meet him in person, and if he met Cheng Fengjiao, he would really quarrel with him.

Cheng Fengjiao's pressure mainly comes from the Zhang family, and the culprit is the second sister Zhang Pingxin. As long as Cheng Fengjiao goes back, she will accuse Sang and scold Huai and make irresponsible remarks. Zhang's mother is okay on the surface, but she just said that the Zhang family is unlucky, and the loss of children and grandchildren should happen in her hands, and it is Zhang's mother who has a hard life!

Cheng Fengjiao had the idea of leaving Zhang Ping'an.

But Zhang Ping'an is okay, he is not as verbose as a woman, he must be a classmate and a wife, and he comforts him from time to time. Cheng Fengjiao also increased her affection for Zhang Ping'an, perhaps because of the traditional Chinese medicine she ate, Cheng Fengjiao's sexual needs are getting more and more. Zhang Ping'an was in good health, but since she had a request, the frequency of the two of them doing that thing became higher and higher, Zhang Ping'an's sex life was richer, not only did he not complain, but he also cared more about her. For example, he promised to accompany her to Nanchang during the winter vacation, and he said that the disease would definitely be cured.

Faith gives them hope and action. At the beginning of the winter vacation, the two of them went to Nanchang.

Nanchang, the capital of Jiangxi Province, is the political and cultural center of the province, and it is also the place with the best medical level. If you don't see a good disease in the local area, you generally go to Nanchang. The Provincial People's Hospital is a better hospital, and the two of them found a hotel near the hospital to stay, and went to register for a doctor early the next morning. There are a lot of people who see a doctor, and when it is their turn, it is already more than eleven o'clock, and the numbers in front of them are probably queued up in the middle of the night. At least earlier than them, the hospital briefly asked about the condition and the diagnosis of the local hospital, and then the doctor said that he would be hospitalized for a detailed examination, but there were no beds for the hospital.

To be honest, even if there is a bed, it is not her turn, on the surface she is a good person, and there are many seriously ill people waiting in line for a bed. The two of them in Nanchang still can't tell if there are any classmates who can help. I usually don't burn incense, and it's useless to cram Buddha's feet temporarily. Besides, classmates may not be able to help? Then I have to wait, I can only wait. It's okay to wait for one day, it's okay to wait for two days, but if you wait any longer, it's going to be the New Year. The beds will always be empty during the Chinese New Year, but the doctors will take a holiday, wait for the hospital to work, and then start school again. It seems that the winter vacation is not good, and after discussing it, the two should go back and go to Shanghai next summer.

So I went to Nanchang, which was a short-term trip and purchased goods for a few years to return to Leping.

Due to time constraints, they did not return to Huai'an this year. Cheng Fengjiao's letter arrived, Cheng's father and Cheng's mother heard that their daughter was sick, and they were also very anxious, but they couldn't come to visit, and they only wrote to express their concern!

If you can't go back for the New Year, there is no way, Cheng Fengjiao is unwilling to spend the New Year in Zhang's house! I especially don't want to see my second sister Zhang Pingxin, but everyone comes back for the New Year, can we not meet? You can't not go back for the New Year because you're afraid of meeting, that's too much.

The Chinese New Year is the happiest thing for children, not only to have delicious food, new clothes to wear, but also New Year's money. The eldest sister Zhang Pingping has a son and a daughter, and the second sister Pingxin has a son, but unfortunately they are not surnamed Zhang. Children are called grandparents. Father, grandfather, mother-in-law is also grandfather. However, the word "outside" has been added to the front. No matter how many nephews there are, they don't have the surname Zhang. If it is surnamed Zhang, even if it is a nephew, it can also be said to be a descendant of the Zhang family. New Year's money is to be paid. Grandparents send it to their nephews. Uncle and aunt sent it to the nephews. The aunt sent it to her nephew. The aunt sent it to her nephew. Just send it, adults are happy, and children are even happier.

Zhang Pingxin said to Zhang Ping'an: "Brother Ping, my nephew's New Year's money, I will save it for you first, and then the principal and interest will be paid together!" ”

It was a happy thing for everyone, this sentence was cold, can Cheng Fengjiao be comfortable listening to it? What to do if you feel uncomfortable? It's the New Year, and she didn't say anything. After eating the reunion dinner (the fourth day of the first lunar month), he excused himself by saying that he would give the house to the eldest sister to live in, and dragged Zhang Ping'an back to school.

Zhang Ping'an can't say how the second sister is, and there is nothing wrong with the second sister! can't say that you won't let the room be given to the eldest sister to live in, it's a reality that the eldest sister's family of four has a room that is not enough to live in (the second sister's mother-in-law's house goes back to sleep at night in the town), let alone Cheng Fengjiao, his wife is angry and can't afford to provoke her, isn't she allowed to hide out? So Zhang Ping'an had to go back to school with Cheng Fengjiao. Ten miles away, the two adults walked sullenly, and it didn't take an hour to arrive.

During the Spring Festival in 1971, Zhang Ping'an and Cheng Fengjiao lived with two people (they spent it at Zhang's house before the fourth day of the new year). After the seventh day of the first lunar month, the New Year has passed and the Spring Festival holiday is over. Zhang Ping'an said that he must go back to accompany his parents, it is always bad like this, but Cheng Fengjiao disagrees, her reason is very simple, her parents are in Huai'an, she didn't go to accompany her, and it's okay not to go back. She said that this is fair, this reason is a bit too much, the Zhang family is close in front of you, Huai'an is thousands of miles away, how can you talk about the same day! Aren't the two of them of one heart and one mind, and they have evolved into fighting in the same room, can they still share weal and woe? Since we can't help each other in the same boat, we must be in the same bed and have different dreams. Of course, Zhang Ping'an didn't "" and moved, so he had to go back by himself!

Zhang Ping'an went back, Cheng Fengjiao didn't come, it was Zhang Pingxin's opportunity to sow discord, and Zhang's mother's side drum made Zhang Ping'an confused. Yes, filial piety comes first, and no second is great. If you don't listen to your parents, can you say that you have filial piety? There are no children, and it is a big deal to cut off the incense of the Zhang family. What is a classmate? What is a husband and wife? Isn't there a "husband and wife are originally birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes"? Let's go our separate ways!

Zhang Ping'an has since had the idea of separating from Cheng Fengjiao.

One has the idea of leaving him, and the other has the idea of separating from her, which is not the same as the hero's vision, but the same as if it coincides.

During the Spring Festival, Cheng Fengjiao never went back, and Zhang Ping'an did not go back to school. The Cold War began, and Cheng Fengjiao could not go to Zhang's house, but it was impossible for Zhang Ping'an not to go back to school.

Zhang Ping'an has returned to school, Cheng Fengjiao has not shown enthusiasm, can she still be enthusiastic? In the evening, Zhang Ping'an still asked Cheng Fengjiao to do that. After five or six days, the food at home was good again during the Chinese New Year, and Zhang Ping'an couldn't hold it back. Cheng Fengjiao thought so, it must be that the husband and wife did not quarrel, it was normal to make a request after so many days, and she also needed to be moisturized, so she agreed, but her enthusiasm was not high, and she was the same as coping with errands.

Zhang Ping'an said that he was really sorry for Cheng Fengjiao, and due to family pressure, he had to propose to break up, return all his property to Cheng Fengjiao, and leave the house by himself.

Cheng Fengjiao said: It's not that you Zhang Ping'an is bad, it's that I'm Cheng Fengjiao's body is not angry, I hope you will find someone who will give birth to cubs in the future and give birth to a few more successors for the Zhang family.

The next day, the two went to the civil affairs department to apply for divorce on the grounds that their feelings were incompatible and their personalities were not harmonious. According to the provisions of the Marriage Law, two people can marry freely of their own volition, and they can also divorce freely, of course, the divorce must be justified, which is reasonable and legal, and the civil affairs department will give them a piece of paper: divorce certificate (paper in the style of an award certificate).

In the evening, Zhang Ping'an invited Cheng Fengjiao to a small restaurant in the county town for a separate meal, both of them drank wine, husband and wife, and said a lot of sad words, until Zhang Ping'an was drunk and did not come back. Zhang Ping'an has nowhere to go tonight, and it is not possible to go back to Zhang's house, and the road is long in the dark. I haven't negotiated to sleep in another dormitory. Cheng Fengjiao said, then go back to "me" to sleep!

So Zhang Ping'an and Cheng Fengjiao returned to the room they shared. Cheng Fengjiao took the initiative to ask Zhang Ping'an to do that with her, saying that this was the last time to keep a good memory.

The two of them completed the activity of doing that on the last night, and the next day Zhang Ping'an moved to another single dormitory to sleep, and since then the two of them have resumed the relationship of pure classmates.