Although the old lady of the Han family has no official position, and Han Zhen has also retired, this does not affect the old lady still has a position in Jincheng, she came forward to find Zhang Jianhui, undoubtedly worried that if Ye Tianmin went to the door by himself, Zhang Jianhui might refuse.

"Grandma'......"

Ye Tianmin was very grateful to the old lady for her open-mindedness, but from his own point of view, he really hadn't made up his mind yet.

"Tianmin, your children are here, my old woman is getting older, to be honest, I don't dare to hope that I can live as long as General Zhen. Even if it's for the four children left behind by Cher, you can't persuade me. ”

Mrs. Han stretched out her hand and beckoned to the four children, and several children walked over, calling "grandmother" one by one, stretching the wrinkles on the old lady's face with a smile.

Holding the youngest Ye Kang in her arms, the weight of the little fat man made the old lady a little difficult, but she also hugged it tightly, and the daughter-in-law on the side was so scared that she hurriedly wanted to come over to help, but the old lady refused.

"You're all here, and I'm not hiding it. I'm getting older, so I'll talk a little more today. ”

The old lady glanced at the people in the room, and then said, "Tianmin is a good boy and a good man. But not a good husband. ”

Mrs. Han's words made everyone in the room not think of it.

But no one answered, you must know that the old lady can say this in front of everyone, there must be a reason.

"Over the years, it is rare that you are all filial. Cher is gone with these ten redundant, I was thinking too. Was it right or wrong to let Han Zhen have only one child in the first place? ”

"Mom, this is also our own choice." Han Zhen's daughter-in-law hurriedly answered, and still picked up Ye Kang from the old lady's hand.

Maybe it was the weight of the little fat man that the old lady really couldn't bear, but this time she didn't refuse.

Letting go of Ye Kang, the old lady continued: "What Tianmin has done over the years, you have said a lot, and I probably understand a lot. It's complicated, but it's also simple to say. ”

Cher is gone, leaving a few children behind. Let you, as a husband and father, not want to think about it anymore. is an irresponsible father and husband, of course, it is not your own choice for Cher to marry you, but everyone does not mention it. Fortunately, over the years, you have also fulfilled your responsibilities as a husband, but this has not solved your problems. ”

"Even if Xue'er is still there, when these children grow up, I believe that one day they will face Jingyi and Zhang Qiong. How do you deal with it? ”

"This ......" Ye Tianmin found that he really hadn't thought about it, and he didn't seem to have considered this aspect of the child's problem.

"These troubles that appear now should not have appeared, Jingyi and Xue'er are all good children, Zhang Qiong, Momo, and the eldest sister are all liked. But it's because you don't have any decisiveness in your career that you have today's troubles. ”

The old lady's words made Ye Tianmin lower his head, and these were the things he had been avoiding.

I never wanted to be a scumbag, but in the end, I really became a scumbag.

Seeing that several women were about to open their mouths, the old lady interrupted again and said, "Don't speak for him either." Everything is lacking, this is what our ancestors have said a long time ago. Tianmin's lack of affection is his problem. Today's words are to let Hai'er and them understand that their father is not willing to be in today's situation, and they should not bring similar problems to themselves in the future. ”

"Since you have been passively choosing for decades, so today the old woman will take advantage of Xue'er to help you make this choice, and the matter between you and Zhang Qiong is decided."

Old Mrs. Han is such a shrewd person, of course, she knows the reason why Zhang Qiong brought Ye Fei to find Ye Tianmin in the first place, and she has seen a lot of things in Jincheng for decades.

Zhang Qiong and Ye Tianmin get married, Zhang Jianhui will no longer have any worries, this big family, especially a few children, will not be at a loss in the future. From the fact that Ye Tianmin asked Ye Nan to change his surname to go to school, she could see that Ye Tianmin had no better way to solve it.

Han Xue'er's death is sad for this family, but it also brings an opportunity to solve the problems that may arise in the future of this family, so that these children will not be estranged from Ye Tianmin in the future.

During Zhen Hai's first summer vacation, the Jiangdu Ye family began to have some changes.

Within a few days, Mrs. Han really took her daughter-in-law and son back to Jincheng.

Han Zhencai really understood the old lady's thoughts. If Ye Tianmin really wants to continue the strings, there is no doubt that Yang Momo and Sister Fang are the most suitable, these two sisters have always been by Ye Tianmin's side, and if they don't fight or grab, it will be very stable for this family, and it will not affect Ye Tianmin's attitude towards their children.

But Yang Momo and Eldest Sister Fang can't support this family, the eldest sister's body is still unknown, and Momo only has two words to obey. Even the old lady couldn't fault the two sisters.

However, what Ye Tianmin has been doing, including Han Xue'er's death, is because of what Ye Tianmin has done.

The experience of the old lady's life made her unable to understand what her grandson-in-law was doing, but it did not prevent her from perceiving a lot of things that could not be said.

The death of a granddaughter, although we know that it was just an accident, who can guarantee that there will not be a second time! Her physical condition is getting worse and worse, and it is all the survival pressure brought to her by the two generations of the Han family in the past few decades, and she must hold on.

Seeing that she has her great-grandchildren, she is worried that the stability of this family in the future will be due to changes between Ye Tianmin's four children, and she has to stand up for this grandson-in-law who has always been passive.

Zhen Jingyi doesn't know when she will be able to come back, the "Zhen family" seems to be scattered on the surface, but the emaciated camel is bigger than the horse, and no one dares Zhen to completely ignore the "Zhen family".

Four children and three mothers, when they grow up, no one can absolutely predict what will happen. Ye Tianmin is right to consider children's education, but this is only in the growth stage, what about adulthood?

Zhang Qiong's father will remain in a high position for at least ten years, and even if he retires, he will have enough status to shake the scene.

If Zhang Qiong and Ye Tianmin are combined, then the Ye family will have stable basic conditions for at least the next few decades.

You must know that Zhang Jianhui has always been very resistant to this sudden appearance of a grandson, and originally called Ye Tianmin to Jincheng to advise Zhang Qiong before returning to China, but he didn't expect this advice to come too late.

In the current situation, if there is no suitable name, according to Zhang Jianhui's identity and attitude, it may bring a bad future to the Ye family.

The old lady looks at the problem, after all, she sees a lot and thinks a lot. Who is the nominal mother of the children, this is very crucial, Yang Momo and Sister Fang can't give the Ye family stable conditions.

And the old lady can also see it clearly, even if these two sisters have no reputation, they will not change anything in their treatment of Ye Tianmin and several children.

Zhang Qiong's mother has come to see the child in the past 10 months, and she is very happy, and when she returned to Jincheng, she even went to visit Ye Yonggang and his wife.

Xue Yumeng was more happy and enthusiastic than Ye Yonggang and his wife, although Ye Tianjun may not necessarily return to the Ministry of Capital and Commerce in the future, but it is undoubtedly exciting to have a "relative" at the level of a minister of the State Council.

For her husband's eldest brother, she admires it completely. More than ten years ago, he "grasped" the future prospects, even if he is not successful in business, he will not be bad with this son.

These are all external factors, Ye Tianmin didn't expect it, and Han Zhen and his wife also didn't expect that the old lady could harden her heart decades ago, and the person who would rather the Han family have only one daughter than let Han Zhen and his wife have a second child is not so simple to look at the problem.

In the final analysis, Ye Xian'er and Ye Kang are her own great-grandchildren.

If Zhen Hai and Ye Fei were Ye Tianmin's illegitimate children after marriage, she wouldn't be worried. It was precisely because of the time of birth and the family background of these two children that she had to think more.

The old lady who returned to Jincheng didn't know that after Ye Tianmin sent them to the airport, she went directly to Jincheng on the next plane. Mrs. Han went in person, which surprised him, he had to meet the big guy first, some things were not said in front, and some were inappropriate.

When Mrs. Han returned to Jincheng, she did not go to Ye Tianmin's parents first, nor did she go directly to Zhang Jianhui, but rested for one night to visit General Zeng. After all, her husband and son are all from a military background, no matter what else, General Zeng will also come forward on this point.