Chapter 175: One is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer
Every time he looked at the gentleness on his uncle's face, he turned over the medicinal herbs in his hands, and from time to time he unconsciously smiled at the corners of his mouth, even if the tench knew that he was humiliated by the little grass girl outside, but he didn't care about it, and the tench even saw the persistence that he could rarely see in his eyes. This is rare, probably because of his childhood encounters, he didn't dare to insist on anything, so this rare insistence made him can't bear to break it.
What's more, there is such a thing as feelings, one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer. The brother-in-law wants to marry someone else's daughter, and it was supposed to be a little difficult, but she will only complain about her brother-in-law as a man. If she thinks on the woman's side, she may also object to finding such a troublesome and unstable man.
Think about it from another perspective, if Erni finds such a partner today and stands in the position of the eldest sister, Ding Yu will also oppose it. Every time I think about tench like this, I can't get angry.
Therefore, she has always been a cold observer of this matter, and has been telling herself in her heart that let them go with the flow, and she can't interfere.
And what makes the tench really atmosphere is the attitude of the grass.
Why Chen Shenzhong has always insisted that Xiaocao is not suitable for his uncle, because he has always been inseparable from his uncle, and he knows best what his uncle has experienced. Every time my uncle was insulted by Xiao Caoniang, he was angry, and then he came back and kept saying to the tench that the two were not suitable, and when he asked him, he refused to tell the truth, these tench fish were not clear once, and they could be fooled twice, and she was a fool if she had more times?
She is such a person who runs out every day, and people who don't care about the gossip in the village can know that Xiaocao can't be clear in the village all day long?
Anyone who catches the wind and shadows must have heard of it!
However, her behavior in the past few days has made the tench feel cold.
It's shaken! After all, her blind date is really a good condition that can't be found in ten miles and eight villages, and everyone wants to live a good life, which is human nature, but Xiaocao shouldn't be shaken first at this time, but she still blames the weakness of this hazy relationship on her brother-in-law's weakness.
Ding Yu didn't want to face this person, she was afraid that she would not be able to help but slap her, she used the wrong person for this kind of green tea behavior.
"Do you dare to say that I haven't seen me once or twice when I've been around your house these days? Don't tell me that you are so sad that you don't want to see our family, but I see you happily welcoming your future in-laws, without a little reluctance, such you, one is a resolute and decisive type, and quickly cut through the chaos and say goodbye to the past; Second, get rid of the trouble of my brother-in-law, you can easily run towards your beautiful future days, which one do you belong to? ”
The tench turned his head to stare at the man with his head hanging down.
Although the person with his head could not see her face clearly, his face was pale on both sides, and his hands trembled, but he still did not say a word.
The tench couldn't wait for her answer for a long time, and then looked at her whitish hands, and his eyes were cold.
"Xiaocao, to be honest, I appreciate that you know that your parents are patriarchal, and they may not give you too much dowry, and even greedy for your future dowry, you will not give up on yourself, or resolutely fight with your parents, but rely on yourself to fight for face in the future life of your in-laws, which is not something that ordinary little girls can do, and even at such a young age.
It's not that I help you sell medicinal herbs, but because you choose to be with your uncle, but because of your rare transparency. Relying on heaven and earth to rely on parents, it is better to rely on yourself, it is a rare girl with an independent personality, I like this kind of character before I help you, and I was very optimistic about you and my uncle at the beginning. He has a weak personality, and you just complement each other, and you are sure to live happily together.
I never doubted that you were sincere to your uncle. However, this sincerity will also regress in the face of reality, right? ”
That's the reality of life for brutal adults!
"It's you, Sister Dani, what will you choose?"
Xiaocao, who had been keeping her head down, finally raised her head and asked the tench who was standing with her back to her.
The tench sighed, "I might choose the same as you." "If I didn't know the future, if I didn't have the ability to do it reluctantly. The tench said in his heart.
Ding Yu was not poisoned and stupid by the TV series of her previous life, not to mention the current era, that is, decades after her, in the face of bread and love, I believe that 90% of girls will choose bread, and the one who can choose love is either the love brain or the family has a family capacity inheritance, so that she can eat and drink without worry.
So, is it to blame the grass? Not to blame! Because it's human nature.
However, "I don't blame you for abandoning your uncle and choosing a better one, after all, everyone has the right to choose a good life." But," Ding Yu turned to stare at the girl, "But, you shouldn't let my brother-in-law bear all the fault!" ”
"From the day you went to the movies on the first day of the new year and were caught by your mother, and then came to my house to make trouble, you were locked up at home by your mother. At that time, your mother should have started to tell you about your good marriage. When you are swaying from side to side, my uncle is worried that you will be beaten by your parents, and he even stays awake all night to guard outside the wall of your house, so that he can appear in time to protect you when you are beaten.
And since you came to your eighth year of junior high school, you looked at each other, and your uncle stopped coming at night, but he didn't smile on his face, and I didn't sleep all night to watch me, a niece, was very unbearable. So, even though I never intended to meddle, I came to you several times, and even deliberately showed my face outside your house, which you can't fail to see. And since you deliberately turned a blind eye, I have the bottom in my heart, but you shouldn't have been, the balance in your heart has obviously tilted, and you have to go to my uncle again, and then for you to feel good, all the fault will be attributed to my uncle.
Obviously, you prepared a way out for yourself from the beginning, and you didn't plan to hide these from the beginning, so I didn't plan to interfere, and my uncle fell into it regardless of it, which is what he should bear.
But Xiaocao, I still say the same thing, you have the right to choose to live a good life, but you shouldn't do despicable acts! ”
From the beginning, they told them that they really had nothing to do with their uncle and didn't force it, this is when Ding Yu knew about the two of them at the beginning, and then Xiao Cao asked Ding Yu to help sell herbs, Xiao Cao understood and made it clear to her. This can't be blamed, the tench is angry from beginning to end, but Xiaocao still wants to have another place in the uncle's heart in the end, this kind of green tea behavior The uncle can't see it clearly, but the tench woman can see it clearly.
She was so angry that she didn't close her eyes all night that night, and her uncle's tossing and turning added fuel to the fire. If it weren't for the fact that there have always been people in Xiaocao's family these days, but if the tench found Xiaocao the next day, what she said would definitely be even more difficult to hear than today.