Chapter Eighty-Three: Gains and Losses

The class reunion is still going on.

At this time, the students' words are no longer so explicit; No more ostentatious, or modest, or contemptible, or sympathetic.

Instead, they turned to whispering private chats between people.

Some apologized for borrowing an eraser when they were in school and didn't return it;

Some ask for forgiveness for a late excuse;

Some of them also said thank you before they had time to say it.

Some exchange the experience of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law getting along, and some of them have the love of husband and wife;

Some narrate the experiences of life; Some gods talk about the bittersweet of entrepreneurship.

Of course, there are also people who seem to have seen through life and begin to be cynical;

Some people are self-decadent, disdain this and that reason, and just do what they want to be happy.

Some people are still hesitating, or looking for the other half of their lives, or waiting for the white horse in their hearts.

Some want to be detached, some want to indulge.

In the past few years and the experience of life, everyone has taken off their immaturity and youthfulness.

Everyone's mindset has changed differently.

The class reunion is like an almighty mirror, what is reflected by the demon is the demon, and what is reflected by the person is the person;

Whether it is ugly or beautiful, good or evil, it will be exposed here.

Of course, there are also people who are very good at hiding their emotions, they are low-key and kind, and no matter what others say, whether it is right or wrong, they often smile and do not say anything.

No attitude, no opinion, you are good to you and everyone is good.

Hehe, just no temper, I'm a good listener.

I don't know if I really drank too much wine, or on purpose, some students used the power of alcohol to let out bursts of emotion.

I sigh that in the same four years of college, why are the trajectories of life so different?

Ling Nan wanted to stand up and say something, but was stopped.

Zhao Ling stood up, and she told a story with deep affection.

Students, I have just heard the feelings of many students, some envy others, and some have low self-esteem.

Actually, none of this is true. In any case, we should be thankful that we grew up in a good era.

At least everyone now has no worries about food and clothing, guaranteed housing, stable income, and full spirit.

Nowadays, once many people get together, they like to compare and show off, and often suffer from gains and losses, which is a stupid vice, a vulgar vice!

Everyone's life path is different, and it is inevitable that there will be differences of one kind or another.

Everyone lives for themselves, not for others, there is nothing comparable at all!

If you want to compare, compare with yourself, and see how much you have improved in your life and career compared to before, this is the real comparison.

Someone has a good face, what is face?

Nothing! Face is not given by others, but by oneself.

The real face is to change yourself, and only when you are good will you have face.

Why care about other people's eyes? Why can't you live your own life?

Some people envy the successful, but do you know what the good achievers have experienced? What price did they pay? Did you know?

I'll take Ling Nan as an example.

Initially, there was an accident in his family, he had just graduated, he was penniless, and he had no place to live, what should he do?

He did not ask anyone for help, but took the initiative to wander the streets and beg, enduring the humiliation of being despised, abused, and even beaten by many people; I have experienced many ugly, shameless, vicious, arrogant, and arrogant trampling.

He forced a smile in the midst of despicable helplessness and painful suffering, and begged for alms of one dime and two cents.

The bridge holes of the overpass, the cement pipes of the construction site, and the corridors of the community are the places where he spends every night, and he is hungry and full, and often can only eat one cold meal a day.

It was in such a difficult day that he saved up every cent of the funds for starting a business and began to collect rags. And by collecting the rags, the scrap collection station was opened, and it has grown step by step to today.

Behind the envy, it is condensed by bitterness, blood, tears and suffering! Have you ever had such an experience?

No, what do you envy?

You have low self-esteem, what is inferiority?

Haven't you experienced any of this? What reason do you have for low self-esteem?

No matter what state everyone has come to in life, it is a cause and effect.

We should be glad that we didn't experience the same misery as Ling Nan; There is no such pain; There is no such despair.

If you take 10,000 steps back and let you experience it once, can you endure it?

I dare say, you, can't!

In the most difficult time, Ling Nan didn't know how many times his spirit was almost broken, I don't know how many times he thought about saying goodbye to this world, but he endured it, gritted his teeth and persevered, and walked over with tears in his eyes.

I'm not using Ling Nan's example to inspire you.

Instead, I want to tell my classmates to cherish the present and take a long-term view.

We are still young, there is still time for struggle, instead of wasting time on wine and meat, entertainment or games, and nonsense, it is better to have a diligent experience.

Put down your frame, lose face, whether you are part-time, solo, or an intermediary or a stall, as long as you work hard, you can earn.

Zhao Ling's eloquent and moving narration and generous speech not only made the students feel heavy, but also lifted everyone's spirits.

Xiao Ya recalled the sad scenes of Ling Nan, as she felt the same way, and couldn't help but burst into tears from time to time.

Ling Nan, who was sitting, also had mixed feelings and couldn't bear to think.

Seeing that Zhao Ling finished speaking, Ling Nan stood up and said, Zhao Ling said about me, which made the classmates laugh. I would like to add a few more words here.

"The rarest thing in life is to live a sober self in the inspiration of others; If you live in the eyes of others, you will die in their mouths. ”

"I don't envy people who are richer than me, because I can't spend his money, I never look down on the poor, because he doesn't depend on me to live, and I disdain the smug and arrogant people, because he is difficult to see. Over the years, I have realized that there are only two kinds of people. One is the person who shares my weal and woe with me when I am in trouble and has nothing, and never leaves; the second is the one who helped me when I fell; Life is not long, there is no time to waste for those who work hard, people can not know how to count, but they must learn to know people. ”

"Suffering inspires wisdom, humiliation inspires fighting spirit, humble experience self-improvement, and experience creates success. This is my summary of myself, and I encourage my classmates. ”

"I know that everyone may not be happy until now, and after a while, everyone is finished eating, and after the exchange, I invite everyone to sing."

When the words fell, everyone was excited.

A party that many students disapproved, no one thought that it would be so meaningful.

Everyone felt a lot of emotion. More from Ling Nan's success story, I got a lot of inspiration.

And Ling Nan also provided them with a very rare opportunity to get rich.

The classmates who once looked down on Ling Nan had to secretly admire it in their hearts at this moment.

After the party banquet was over, everyone left one after another according to Ling Nan's arrangement.

....

Out of the hotel, it was still very bright. Ling Nan arranged for the driver to send Xiaoya home first.

The students basically don't have cars, only Ling Nan, Li Jun, Zhao Ling, Dawei, and Cui Dong have cars, and they can only pick up and drop off their classmates to the song hall three times.

Seeing Ling Nan's Rolls-Royce, many classmates talked about it with admiration. Some students said that Qin Xiaoya's BMW and Ling Nan's Rolls-Royce alone are worth nearly three million.

Many students were dumbfounded and felt unimaginable.

However, people like to envy the successful side of others, and deliberately selectively forget the difficult and tragic side of others.