twenty-six

Time will make people grow up and mature, and at the same time, it will also change a person's direction and destiny; It will also change a family. Sang Zixin took years, months, and days to figure out the facts and evidence, and then used them to measure the life of He Wei Daping, and came to the conclusion: in view of the facts and basis of the two people; In view of the success or failure of the family, Sang Zixin finally had an idea and determination.

For so many years, there has been no major conflict between her and Wei Daping, but their marriage has long existed in name only. Whether it's a happy past or a sad past...... Both of them had almost forgotten about it, and even mentioning it seemed to be a hurt. As a result, their marriage has come to an end. The former warm and harmonious life gradually faded out of their lives. As a caring person, are all moved by the past? Or is it nostalgia for the past? But the fact is the reason why they are about to separate. After so many years of separation, their rift has become irreparable, and while they have lost their common language and life, some of their ideas and practices have become redundant. At the same time, after repeated painful thinking, Sang Zixin still openly and honestly told Wei Daping what she thought and what was about to happen.

For so many years, Wei Daping has no other grievances except to be sorry for Sang Zixin. Although he knew how many pounds and taels he had, and he knew what to do to reduce the damage to her, he never had the courage to bring it up...... After the two worked hard to negotiate, they reached a divorce calmly.

So, Wei Daping entrusted Sang Zixin to consult and do a good job of the things to be done. After he arrived in Jiangcheng at 8 o'clock in the morning, he quickly went through the formalities. After everything was done smoothly, he took the train of the day (17:30) back to the city where he worked.

Sang Zixin informed Wei Daping after everything was done according to Wei Daping's plan. When Wei Daping finished the one-night journey and walked out of the station, Sang Zixin and his son came into view, and suddenly, Wei Daping felt a burst of pain. Wei Wei greeted him, "Dad, you're back." The son's casual greeting made Wei Daping a lot easier. He nodded and patted his son on the shoulder.

Sang Zixin muttered: "It's still like that, it hasn't changed much." Then she said, "Let's eat first." ”

"Let's go through the formalities first." Although Wei Daping didn't eat breakfast, he still hurriedly said.

Since Wei Daping came out to work, he no longer goes home, because he lived with Huilan not long after he came out.

Wei Daping went out to work is the desire of the people. The factory was shut down, production was suspended, workers were laid off, and Wei Daping was middle-aged and could not sit still at home. Perhaps, this is the inevitability of life, right? Wei Daping thought. For him, there was only one way to work, so he walked out without hesitation. Although Sang Zixin was a little reluctant, she had no good way but to follow the trend. However, Wei Daping, who had a lot of encounters, was "captured" by Huilan not long after he came out. At the beginning, when he and Huilan were together, the two of them spent their days in repentance. how many sleepless nights; how many different dreams in the same bed; How many tossed and turned. However, as time passed, Wei Daping gradually eased up, turned pressure and repentance into life and work, and his attitude towards Huilan also changed, and he gradually became attached to each other and worked together. When Huilan and Sang Zixuan divorced, Wei Daping fell into deep self-blame again, and the feeling of scratching his heart and lungs often accompanied him. At the same time, he thought again and again, how to solve the matter with Sang Zixin? And these things that couldn't find the right answer were repeatedly entangled in my mind, and I couldn't open my mouth to mention it to Sang Zixin anymore. In the end, he chose to wait; waiting for Sang Zixin's number and scolding; Waiting for her blame and resignation. However, the relentless torment made him bitter, even though he believed the facts; Trust that everything will be worked out properly. However, after years of separation, everything is drowned in the merciless years, and no matter how strong the love and friendly family are, they cannot withstand the long-term and long-term separation. And the things at home and the trivial things of life need to be taken care of and completed by husband and wife. However, once the family members are missing, they become incomplete "individuals", and the individual lacks ideas and has no strength. There are many things that cannot be done alone. As a result of the long separation, everything became obscure. After a long time, both parties have thoughts of disgust and relief, so the strong family begins to loosen, and love gradually fades and disappears. At first, everyone is silently suffering, but after a long time, in the face of real life, all memories and experiences will be worthless. And life itself is reality accompanied by cruelty, and you must have the energy to control it, otherwise it will be an ethereal floating cloud. And Sang Zixin and Wei Daping have been walking different paths, and on these two roads, they have their own gains? But it is clear that they have lost the focus of their lives. Changes in family, mindset and lifestyle forced them to consider separation. So when Sang Zixin looked back and thought about their affairs, while saying that the clear way was unclear, it was still time to make a break. She and Wei Daping finally negotiated.

Sang Zixin came to the relevant departments, and after implementing the matter, she set the time as soon as possible.

After Wei Daping received Sang Zixin's letter, he didn't know whether he was excited or ...... But his heart was still beating "suddenly". He took a leave of absence with his unit and set out on his way home. He lay on the sleeper, tossing and turning and unable to sleep. When his mind flashed through their past, he immediately admonished himself that those good lives; Good things are long gone. The past is no longer sweet, and the more I think about it, the more sad it becomes. He was flipping and confused on the sleeper...... It was dawn. He lifted the curtains and looked out, and in a moment he sat up, put on his shirt, got out of bed, and sat down on the table and stool in the aisle, looking out the window at the station that had been familiar and flashed by. With a call, the train stopped at Jiangcheng Station. Wei Daping got out of the car, carried a satchel in his hand, and walked out of the station. However, what he didn't expect was that when he walked out of the station, he saw Sang Zixin and his son. After he reacted embarrassedly, he still stretched out his hand to Sang Zixin. They held hands, and he choked up when his gaze turned to his son. Wei Wei grew taller and stronger than himself. He pulled his son and they got into a taxi. Sitting in the car, Wei Daping didn't care about the scenery outside the window, and his eyes never left his son. The car stopped in front of the Civil Affairs Bureau.

Wei Wei didn't go in, just waited outside.

The Civil Affairs Bureau has not yet opened, and Sang Zixin and Wei Daping are standing one after the other. The door opened, and they walked into the office hall. Wei Daping sat on the stool, and Sang Zixin went to the window to stand in line and wait for you. After going to work, they were warmly received by the two staff members. In accordance with the procedure, the staff inquired about the distribution of property; Disposal of immovable property. Wei Daping replied accurately that all the property and real estate were given to his son, and he went out of the house by himself. Soon they fulfilled the formalities and got the divorce certificate. Then, they drove to the government affairs hall and divided their household registration at the police station under their jurisdiction. After the matter was done, it was already noon, Sang Zixin and Wei Weiqiang kept Wei Daping, and the family of three had a casual meal.

They came to the hotel and entered the private room, and Wei Daping was attracted by the two paintings on the wall. Wei Wei looked at his father, "Dad, do you still paint?" ”

"It's been a long time since I stopped drawing." Wei Daping said regretfully. But he was still very interested in oil painting.

The original family, now sitting together in this way, must be deeply touched by their feelings? Perhaps, at this time, everyone does not feel at all, but they are all fulfilling their ...... As soon as they sat down, food and food came up. Wei Wei asked the waiter to serve a bottle of liquor. Wei Daping saw the wine and was puzzled, but he couldn't do anything that ruined the fun. Wei Wei is going to do things, he first fills Wei Daping, then pours it for his mother, and finally pours it himself. "The rest is yours." Wei Wei said, placing the bottle in front of his father.

"Try it." Sang Zixin said.

So they began to eat.

"Dad, don't you know your son drinks bars?" Wei Wei held the wine glass and said, "Come, take a sip." So the three cups came together. As the wine wore on, the awkward atmosphere gradually subsided.

"Can you really have a drink?" Wei Daping asked.

"I can drink it." Wei Wei said without scruples.

When living together, Wei Daping saw that his son was growing up, so he had a way to train his son, but Sang Zixin has always protected him. Then he thought: maybe she was right. However, on an occasion like today, he can only be happy for his son.

"Dad, don't you continue to give money?" Wei Wei still cares about his own business.

"Giving, insisting on giving." Wei Daping wanted to answer something, but then he picked up the conversation again, "...... In any case, our father and son will not change in this life and this life. ”

"Daddy is right." Wei Wei said happily: "Dad, drink it, you pour it, my mother is all that, I drink beer." ”

"Are you okay?" Wei Daping still said what was in his heart, and at the same time tested his son's drinking.

"Okay, the amount of alcohol is okay." Wei Wei replied simply.

Although Sang Zixin didn't say a few words, she listened carefully to the warm and interesting conversation between the father and son, and felt a burst of sadness, and the family dispersed inadvertently. She doesn't blame the direction of things, she can only blame the separation caused by the poor management of the two. However, the occurrence and development of events are not subject to human will. Well, everyone is happy, and if it's not good, they will be happy.

The taste of the restaurant continues to heat up after the refinement of this family. Sang Zixin and Wei Daping thought in their hearts: "This kind of ending can be regarded as a happy one." ”

"Waiter, check out." Wei Daping called the waiter.

Sang Zixin just pursed her lips and didn't squeak.

The waiter smiled and said, "The bill has been settled." ”

Wei Daping looked at Sang Zixin and handed the money he took out to his son.

Wei Wei happily took the money. "Thank you, Dad."

They walked out of the hotel, and Sang Zixin hurriedly said, "Let's rest at home." ”

"No, I'll buy a ticket." Wei Daping rejected Sang Zixin's kindness.

"The ticket has been bought, go to the ticket gate to get the ticket and get on the bus......" Sang Zixin arranged for Wei Daping. Wei Daping was very grateful in his heart, but he didn't say it.

"I'd better stop at the guest house." Wei Daping said.

"Let's go home." Sang Zixin kept it again and again.

"Dad, let's go home." Wei Wei said anxiously.

"It's not my home anymore." Wei Daping said a little pessimistically.

"There are our children......" Sang Zixin said emotionally.

So, the family of three walked home......