After Liu Yifu deeply realized the painful lesson of not planting flags indiscriminately, and made a profound review, he then thought of the classic flag-planting: After this battle, we will go home and get married......

Comrade Xiao Liu sighed silently in his heart, bah, bah, the poisonous milk Liu quickly retreated.

Zhang didn't care about his son's strange attitude, and continued to speak:

"Your father told me before leaving, but soon they went to the north, Zuo Changshi also went to the front line, not at home, only a group of family members stayed in Jiankang, tomorrow I will go to visit your aunt and sister, I heard that she has been miserable all these years."

Good guy, my aunt is starting to call it, and Liu Yifu also knows that his aunt is just talking about it, and she definitely can't call it that way in front of others.

Of course, as a prospective mother-in-law, I will also go together, so to speak, Zhang just asked Liu Yifu to be psychologically prepared, don't run around tomorrow, don't pigeon people, don't be like today, run around like crazy, and can't find anyone when you want to find someone when something happens.

Then her mother slowly introduced some of the background of this quasi-"in-law":

"Zuo Changshi's family is from the Yuan family of Chen County, and they are from the Gaomen clan, but the other party is married to a concubine, so let's not talk about it."

In view of the fact that Liu Yifu has been dizzy from the engagement information, he continues to be blinded, and he can only hear his mother babbling in his ear, talking about the origin of the other party, what kind of physical suffering, and talking a lot.

Now Liu Yifu has realized what is the situation of the words of the ancients' parents, free love, free marriage? It doesn't exist, as long as both parents are satisfied, especially the attitude of the father, and this marriage ...... It was Liu Yu who made the decision.

Your parents are still alive, and you can't make your own decisions about marriage, especially the main house, otherwise how did the idiom of finger marriage come about? It was in this era that the marriage concept of China's more than 2,000 years, including some customs, was formed here...... In a word, the words of parents in marriage are comparable to the law.

Marriage is not only about marrying a daughter-in-law, many times the interests of the family are mixed in the marriage, in the family of Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties, the interests of the family need to be compromised, just like this time, his father Liu Yu did not have the intention of deeply binding the Chen Jun Yuan family through marriage.

What? Do you want to say Chenjun Xie? Well, people don't look down on you for the time being, even if Liu Yu is about to become a very popular minister, he is still a nouveau riche in the eyes of others, I can't afford to mess with you Liu Yu, but I just don't want to bird you......

Speaking of the Chen Jun Xie family, I will interject another one, this time the Yuan family discussed, marrying the daughter of the Wang family of the side room, the mother family has no status in Jiangzuo, and the background is not complicated, but Yuan Zhan's wife is big, and it is Taifu Xie An who is the matchmaker and lets him marry himself...... The daughter of her nephew Xie Xuan.

Xie Xuan is what I mentioned before, in the face of the former Qin in the north, he took precautions to rebuild the Beifu soldiers, and then beat Fu Jian's ruthless people, who were all soldiers, and directly beat the "Qin Dynasty" that had been unified in the north and fell back to the "Spring and Autumn Warring States", well, to some extent, if Yingzheng failed, the end would not be much better than Fu Jian......

In this way, it seems that a surname Yuan and a surname Xie Baganzi can't be together, where does it matter? But they are indeed relatives, and the blood relationship is still very close: Xie Xuan is Xie An's nephew, Yuan Zhan is Xie An's grandson (Xie An's brother's grandson), and his own wife is Xie Xuan's daughter.

It can only be said that the two big families of Chen County are intertwined, in addition to sighing that a sentence of astringency will be astringent, and your circle is really chaotic, in fact, you can also get a glimpse of the so-called family between the two families, one is prosperous, one is lost, well, "Dream of Red Mansions" does not deceive me......

In fact, since the pre-Qin period, China has made it clear that it does not support the marriage of close relatives, but there are differences in the concept of close relatives in ancient and modern times, at this time, the division of blood is not as scientific and professional as that of later generations, and ancient marriage believes in the same surname and no intermarriage, which means that as long as you marry someone who is not the same surname, then you are not close relatives......

His own mother chattered a lot, Liu Yifu was selectively deaf, most of the words were left ear in and out of the right ear, well, well, some things were still listened to, Liu Yifu then learned that this Yuan family, who had never met before, was not born to his mother, but because she was the daughter of the concubine, she lost a lot of favor.

His cheap uncle Yuan Zhan, Yuan Shishen was born in the Yuan family of Chen County, and his family is very high, but he lives as simple as a hermit, and he never eats and takes cards as an official, so he relies on a meager salary to support his family, and the entire family of the Yuan family is very poor, and the living conditions have not been very good.

The husbands of the main family are living so hard haha, not to mention a concubine, not to mention that the Wang family, as a concubine, is still pulling a girl who is a few years old, and even this girl was not welcomed at first, and the hardships of the mother and daughter during this period can be imagined.

"Oh, by the way, now it's just the matchmaking stage, Yuan's daughter is not a wife when she marries......" Zhang added at the end.

Comrade Xiao Liu was simply dumbfounded, what the hell, even if you get engaged, you will marry a little wife first? Liu Yifu looked blinded, and muttered secretly in his heart, it couldn't be that his old mother blew the pillow wind on his father before, and why is the mouth so strict, I haven't heard of it.

If the Zhang family knew what Liu Yifu was thinking, he was afraid that his blood would surge, and he would shoot this unfilial son to death as soon as possible, how could he respond to his wife like this......