Chapter 29: In Cold Blood (2)
Liu Yifu thought that the Xie family was so anxious to stand on the field and pull the flag so urgently, maybe there was pressure from reality, such as the Yuan family was ready to leave him, but if you consider her status as a high-ranking scholar, especially the daughter of the Xie family, Liu Yifu felt that she was most likely a green tea behavior.
This is the case with the scholars, marriage pays attention to a "benefit", the essence of the right family, in addition to the two to make the gap between the status of the two newcomers close, there is also the fact that the two families can take what they need equally when they marry as in-laws, which is the marriage of the scholar family.
What's more, if you really want to count the power, the status of the Chenjun Xie clan is much higher than that of the Chenjun Yuan clan, not to mention that the Xie clan has also assisted Yuan Zhan, and Yuan Zhan really can't afford to straighten up this waist pole and give the other party a break.
The strength of the mother-in-law's family is a great help to the quality of life of the wife who wants to live in the husband's house for a long time, and the strength of the mother's family is reflected in the fact that when the husband divorces his wife, he should take into account the small emotions of the mother's family.
Speaking of the surname Yuan, it has also been brilliant, once the Yuan family held the bull's ear, and the brilliant Runan Yuan family has long been gray, well, it is Yuan Shao and Yuan Shu who compete with his wife Cao for the world......
Therefore, personal marriage is always based on the interests of the family. In ancient times, marriage pursued the principle of getting on the bus first and then making up the ticket, and if you get along well, you will have some feelings. When encountering Qin Se and Ming, a pair of people who are in love with each other is even rarer.
However, as a husband and wife of the noble clan, no matter how affectionate they are, when they encounter a conflict of interest with the family, the family will force you to give way. Wang Xianzhi and Xi Daomao are living examples. As the son of Wang Xizhi, handsome and chic, extraordinary bearing, and his father in the calligraphy world and called the "two kings", but also a talented and beautiful son.
What's even more rare is that Wang Xi and the two are very affectionate, but just like the fairy tale sings, if the prince and the princess want to live in peace, they must defeat the evil dragon that is in the way. Wang Xianzhi also soon met Sima Daofu, the princess of Xin'an, who was the "evil dragon", as the emperor's daughter to be forced to marry, Wang Xianzhi fought against the evil dragon, and it was useless to be forced to self-harm.
In the end, the emperor wrote an edict, and Wang Xianzhi, who had mutilated himself into a lame, was finally forced to divorce Xi Daomao, and then married Princess Xin'an. Wang Xianzhi was also quite helpless, he fought by himself, and finally ended up depressed with Xi Daomao......
And this is just a microcosm of this marriage, marriage pays attention to the right family, interests first, feelings second, "a family of adopted daughters and a hundred families begging" is asking for a fair lady, asking for a tossing and turning dream shadow, and there is the interest of seeking......
Not to mention that even after 1,600 years of development, there are still tragedies like Xun Ge'er and Zhu An in the so-called Republic of China; Even in later generations, the sky-high bride price is not uncommon, and there is no dowry......
Hey, that's it, Liu Yifu, despite all the discomfort, I still have to learn and adapt to these rules as soon as possible.
Or that sentence, how much ability to do many things, Liu Yifu is not wishful thinking that the "advanced" ideas in his mind must be advanced, some ideas, leaping one step is called the progress of human civilization, crossing two steps is shocking, crossing three steps will be regarded as a madman, no matter how big the step is, it will be easy to pull Dan, then it is not shocking, but will be burned at the stake as a heretic, well, if it really comes to that step, then Copernicus is my half-brother, Xiao Liu Tongshoe thought......