Chapter 5 She and his first love have different influences
At this time, Bai Yuwen thought that Song Lili's husband Xu Ming had the advantages of shining on him, and the person she liked, Park Zhenyu, also had it! And he is more loving than Xu Ming!
Park Jin-woo's dream when he was young was to start a school to nurture talents, and now he has successfully realized this dream. At present, the school has a very good reputation in country X, and its performance is also outstanding!
In fact, Bai Yuwen also had such a dream when she was young, but unfortunately due to the opposition of the Song family, her dream seems to never come true!
Park Zhenyu and Bai Yuwen were originally like-minded people, and they once reached the point of talking about marriage, because Park Zhenyu's family background was average at that time, so the Bai family, which was once prominent, naturally opposed them being together, and tried every means to break them up.
Bai Yuwen, who broke up with Park Zhenyu not long ago, suddenly found out that she was unexpectedly pregnant, and she wanted to get back together with her ex-boyfriend Park Zhenyu, but she was still strongly opposed by her father. The parents actually advised her to go to the hospital for an abortion, they thought that their daughter was still very young and should not marry a man with not very good economic conditions, otherwise she would definitely suffer and regret being with him in the future! As her parents, she didn't like her for a while, and successfully prevented her from being with Park Zhenyu, if she found a wishful husband with strong financial strength in the future, I believe she would be grateful for their hard work.
However, Bai Yuwen, who was young and vigorous at the time, would not obey others, even if they were her parents. In the end, Bai Yuwen chose to insist on giving birth to the child. Because his father is still bent on going his own way, he secretly lied that the child his daughter had just given birth to unfortunately died, but in fact, he secretly pushed the baby to Park Jin-woo, who lived in country X, to raise alone, and gave Park Jin-woo a considerable amount of money and a warning not to disturb his daughter from now on! At that time, Bai Yuwen, who had just given birth not long ago and was still very weak, was undoubtedly a bolt from the blue when she heard the news...... So she suffered from postpartum depression and was bedridden, and she was seriously ill.
After almost two years, Bai Yuwen slowly walked out of the sad shadow brought by that relationship! Later, Bai Yuwen went abroad to study, and met Song Xiaofei on the university campus, and she fell in love with him for two years and naturally entered the palace of marriage.
Bai Yuwen and Song Xiaofei's marriage can be described as a good match, a wealthy marriage, so the elders of the two families are very satisfied with their marriage. Due to Song Xiaofei's career, they did not have children until three years after they got married, and Song Xiaofei was over thirty years old at that time and began to enter middle age.
Since Song Xiaofei is the third-generation eldest grandson of the Song family, he is the successor of the Song Group Company, and the competitive Bai Yuwen is naturally very proud of this...... After more than ten years of marriage, they have a son and a daughter, and they have put together a good word, their lives are rich and colorful, the relationship between the husband and wife is harmonious and happy, even Song Lili, who has always been afraid of marriage, also deeply felt their happiness infection, and finally mustered up the courage to bury the skylight with her boyfriend Xu Ming, who had been dragging for many years, and entered the life of marriage.
If it weren't for the sudden appearance of Song Xiaofei's former first girlfriend and making a stumbling block, and if it weren't for Bai Yuwen's chance encounter with Park Zhenyu at the wedding anniversary banquet of a friend the year before last, and then the appearance of Zhang Haibing later, maybe Song Xiaofei and Bai Yuwen, a middle-aged model couple, would have been happy with each other all the time.
Here, I need to introduce readers to Song Xiaofei's former first girlfriend Guo Qiqi. Guo Qiqi grew up in a single-parent family, her father died when she was very young, and her mother raised her alone.
Guo Qiqi was able to meet Song Xiaofei because of a classmate and friend of his, Ah Jian. At that time, Ah Kin liked Guo Qiqi very much, so he often waited for her to come home from school at the gate of the school where she studied, so that he could have the opportunity to meet and chat with her. But Guo Qiqi can't have a chemical reaction to the mediocre-looking Ah Jian, and she doesn't feel that way towards him at all, besides, she is a senior in high school, and her study tasks are tense and heavy, so Guo Qiqi has no intention of falling in love at all.
Later, Guo Qiqi was admitted to an ideal university as she wished, and Ah Jian was still chasing her at this time. Seeing that he was so infatuated with him, Guo Qiqi began to soften a little when she was in college, and she tried to give him a chance to see if she could slowly fall in love with him.
When Guo Qiqi fell in love with Ah Jian, he naturally met his friend Song Xiaofei through Ah Jian. When he was young, Song Xiaofei can be said to be born with a talent, his handsome face coupled with a tall and solid figure really directly compared Ah Jian, who was not tall! Besides, Song Xiaofei's family is still richer than Ah Jian's, so the slender lady Guo Qiqi gradually turned her admiration to Song Xiaofei.
As the saying goes, a friend's wife can't be bullied, this sentence believes that most people can understand its true meaning, which means that a friend's girlfriend or lover, or even a wife, as a good brother, can not take the love of others, nor can there be some non-divisive thoughts, and even can not cross the gap, once trampled, or the consequence is that the brotherly or friend relationship will be completely broken, and he will be morally condemned in his heart, thus becoming an unkind and unrighteous person. Therefore, Guo Qiqi's admiration for herself, Song Xiaofei always avoids it.
However, generally speaking, the temptation of women to men is very great, and men will often be unable to control it. As a part of the delicate group in society, women have many characteristics that will make men feel pity, and men, as a relatively large group in society, have a sense of pride, so many times men protect women.
But today's female group will not be as delicate as before, they will be particularly powerful, and the more such a woman wants to conquer the more possessive men are, which is also a kind of control desire of human nature itself.
Therefore, at this time, female friends must hold the most basic moral bottom line of being a good person, know what they should do and what they should not do, and contribute their own strength to the harmonious development of society.
However, the confused Guo Qiqi deliberately increased the chance of meeting with Song Xiaofei through the relationship with her boyfriend Ah Jian, as the number of them became more and more, her heart became more and more inclined to Song Xiaofei's side, and finally she couldn't even hold the most basic moral bottom line of being a person, at this time Guo Qiqi was even trapped by love and seemed to enter a state of madness, she actually played a trick to force Ah Jian to break up with her, and then began to use her beautiful face and gentle temperament to tempt the person she liked Song Xiaofei.
In the end, the young and vigorous Song Xiaofei still fell into her gentle township......
Song Xiaofei and Guo Qiqi, a pair of boys and girls, are in love for the first time and fall in love freely, which is human nature. However, in the eyes of some elders of the powerful Song family in City A, this Guo Qiqi, who came from an ordinary family, was naturally labeled as climbing high branches, and they thought that her purpose was obvious: she wanted to find a high-threshold in-law, marry beautifully, and marry without worrying about food and clothing. As the saying goes, "with the strength of the good wind, send me to the clouds", I don't rely on my strength to fight steadily, take a shortcut to achieve the goal I want.
Among these elders, Mrs. Song is the most active in breaking up them and walking together, she first used a beautiful male trick to make Guo Qiqi fall into another relationship whirlpool, and successfully sent her grandson Song Xiaofei out of the country to study.
After Guo Qiqi married the man, Mrs. Song quietly fired back again, and doubled the money she spent on these two people, and finally Guo Qiqi and her husband ended up bankrupt, and the only property they had left was a second-hand old building, which was also a birthday gift from her ex-boyfriend Song Xiaofei.
Due to being reduced to living a poor life, the relationship between Guo Qiqi and her husband has become more and more tense. Later, at a friend's birthday dinner, Guo Qiqi unexpectedly learned from that friend's mouth: The reason why her husband failed in business and ended up bankrupt was because someone deliberately set a trap for him to be deceived, and the person who did the trick was Mrs. Song, who was very deep in the city......
Since knowing this truth, Guo Qiqi has always remembered to take revenge on the Song family, but there is no suitable time. It wasn't until three years ago that Guo Qiqi unexpectedly met Song Xiaofei at a large-scale art exhibition held in City C.
It is said that men can only let go of their first love, but it is very likely that they will not forget their first love. Although I love my wife very much, the memory of my first love is still unforgettable.
The first love of "what you can't get is always in turmoil" represents what you don't have, and what you lose after you have it. That's why there is such a high status in the hearts of men. It's like a toy you really wanted when you were a kid, but your parents still won't buy it for you despite your noise. Every time you pass by that toy store, you always take a few more looks, and you think about it when you open and close your eyes.
Because Guo Qiqi was Song Xiaofei's first love, he was still suddenly touched in the depths of his heart at that time. In fact, for men, first love is the initial heartbeat, ignorance without impurities, regret of love but failure, and loss is the best. The first love is a thing of the past, but in the minds of boys, it is an irreplaceable object of innocence, forever staying in the memory and shining. Song Xiaofei still clearly remembers some sweet scenes when he was with Guo Qiqi, but his mind quickly cut into the warm pictures of him with his wife and children!
Although the first love is very beautiful, it must not be obsessed with the past and cannot get out. You must be worthy of the people who are with you now, and you can't turn missing out now into regrets. First love is just for nostalgia, and the person you love the most is the person next to you. In addition, with Song Xiaofei's current social status, he has met a lot of women of all kinds who always rush directly at him at work, and he thinks that he is just playing with them. The person he cherishes the most is still his wife, and the person he misses the most is his former first girlfriend.
What Song Xiaofei couldn't imagine was that he had lost contact with his first girlfriend for many years, and now he was reunited in an art exhibition.
In fact, Song Xiaofei's hobby of painting is rooted in his first love girlfriend Guo Qiqi.
When she was young, Guo Qiqi liked to draw very much, and Song Xiaofei, who was once her boyfriend, naturally worked hard to find resources for her in this regard, so that she could become famous in one fell swoop.
But at that time, Guo Qiqi just painted with enthusiasm, and she didn't do it seriously at all, so all her paintings still didn't become popular in the end, and she feels sorry and regretted for it to this day. At present, she occasionally participates in some art exhibitions, but Guo Qiqi still has no inspiration for painting in the past, so she never picks up a paintbrush again, just like her first love, which cannot be returned.
Song Xiaofei gradually fell in love with the art of painting in the process of helping her, and for more than 20 years, he has collected many famous paintings around the world, becoming a veritable collector of famous paintings.
"Long time no see, are you okay now?" The first to speak was Guo Qiqi. She had been staring at Song Xiaofei for a moment just now, and suddenly she had an idea, and she felt that the opportunity to take revenge on the Song family and turn herself over had finally come.
"I'm okay, what about you?" Song Xiaofei felt that he and Guo Qiqi were no longer young, and both of them had already entered the middle-aged period. However, Guo Qiqi's unique charm still exists, and her unique maturity and charm can still make men stop and stay for a while.
"Not good at all! My husband failed in business, so my life with my kids was really not easy...... I blamed me for being blind and didn't choose you to spend this life together! Guo Qiqi said sadly.
"If there's any place I can help with, you can come to me." When Song Xiaofei spit out this sentence, he suddenly felt that he had said the wrong thing, but he couldn't take back what he said.
Song Xiaofei glanced at Guo Qiqi's delicate makeup, and then he added: "Goodbye is also a friend!" My wife is a good woman who always does good deeds, and I believe that she will also support my actions to treat each of my friends kindly. ”
"I heard that Mrs. Song is a young lady of the plastic king, she is not only rich, but also loving, you are really blessed to be able to marry her!" In the end, Guo Qiqi's heart was about to explode, and her jealousy and hatred became more and more intense.
Song Xiaofei did not answer.
Just as Guo Qiqi continued the topic, Song Xiaofei's mobile phone rang at this time.
So, Song Xiaofei took the opportunity to leave the exhibition site quickly.
Looking at his departing back, Guo Qiqi's mood became very complicated, but one thing she was very clear about was that she had to find a way to take revenge on Mrs. Song. From that day on, Guo Qiqi paid attention to Song Xiaofei's movements, so she paid someone to stay in the vicinity of the Song Mansion and the Song Group Company, so that it was convenient to observe Song Xiaofei's every move.
Because his father Song Sheng strongly recommended his mistress Shan Jin to become a director of a subsidiary of the Song Group Company, Song Xiaofei had a big quarrel with his father Song Sheng in private, and when he returned home, he could not get the support and care of his wife, so Song Xiaofei stopped in a bar with a terrible mood and drank alone.
At this time, Guo Qiqi, who was dressed sexily, approached him affectionately......