Chapter 356: Mediation
Jin Cancan didn't say it, and her mother couldn't do anything about her.
But after all, there is only this one daughter, every time she calls and listens to her voice, she is angry and distressed, she has long wanted to ask Lin Baoyue about the situation.
But it is inconvenient to call the landline in the dormitory, and if you ask for Lin Baoyue's mobile phone number, Jin Cancan pushes three and four, and she does not give it several times.
In the end, she told her a lot of big truths, so she reluctantly gave her the number.
Lin Baoyue felt very embarrassed, your daughter had a conflict with others, you couldn't ask from her, and she came to ask me, what do you want me to say?
Or it's not that they can't ask, they already know it in their hearts, and then they run over to see what she thinks, and they don't know whether they want to reconcile or do something.
No matter what he does, Lin Baoyue doesn't really want to care.
She has so many things to do every day, and she has to squeeze time for an appointment, is it easy?
couldn't hear the sound on the phone, Jin Cancan's mother guessed Lin Baoyue's thoughts, and at the same time sighed in her heart, knowing that her daughter must have done something to make Lin Baoyue unhappy.
She is also a person who has lived in her forties, and she thinks that her vision of seeing people is not bad, when she met this child in the dormitory, she talked to her, and her daughter for more than a year praised Lin Baoyue in front of her from time to time. All kinds of performances can see the character and bearing of this child.
If her daughter is just a petty conflict with her roommate, with Lin Baoyue's character, she will definitely mediate in the middle.
But now she not only doesn't care, but also seems to be a little dissatisfied with her daughter, what does this mean?
It shows that either the conflict between the daughter is not ordinary, or the object of the conflict is. Shen Lanxin?
Yes, my daughter has mentioned it several times before that she is the poorest girl in their dormitory, she is very beautiful, but she has a weak personality and is not good at words.
And Lin Baoyue is exactly the kind of person who likes to protect the weak, so she protected Shen Lanxin behind her as soon as they met, and then not only thought about her in everything, but also gave her a stable job in her own café.
When her daughter told her this, she could hear the contempt for Shen Lanxin in her tone.
A rural child, there are no connections to make friends with, just look down on it, she doesn't care.
But if she offends Lin Baoyue because of her, it will really outweigh the losses.
After thinking about it, Jin Cancan's mother asked tentatively, "Did she bully Shen Lanxin?" ”
"Bullying Shen Lanxin?"
Lin Baoyue was confused, "No, it has nothing to do with Lan Xin." ”
Jin Cancan's mother was obviously relieved, "Baoyue, Auntie really doesn't know what happened to you before, Cancan's child's mouth is like a river mussel, no matter how you pry it, you can't pry it open." On the phone, I could obviously hear that the mood was not right, and a few times I cried directly on the phone. Auntie, please tell Auntie, who is she in conflict with? ”
It's true
Lin Baoyue let out a sigh of helplessness, "Okay, since you insist on asking me to talk about it, then I'll tell you about it." ”
Lin Baoyue didn't get involved in any feelings, she recounted the matter very plainly, and finally said, "I believe you will know what is wrong with the conflict between her and Zhu Hui, we didn't target her because of this incident, but she herself has been avoiding us since then." Still."
Lin Baoyue paused, raised his eyes and glanced at Shen Lanxin opposite, and said slowly, "You just guessed that Jin Cancan bullied Shen Lanxin, although not now, but there was before." ”
Then Lin Baoyue also told Shen Lanxin about the anger that Jin Cancan suffered from Gu Ziqian in his freshman year, since you want to inquire about the relationship between your daughter and her roommate, okay, say one thing, say two, just say both.
The most important thing is that they mediated from the middle at that time, otherwise how could they be safe?
"Auntie, Deng Weiwei has already talked to Jin Cancan twice before, and a few of us try to mediate in the middle, I hope that everyone who lives in a dormitory can coexist peacefully and unite and help each other, but, to say something that you may not be happy to hear, it was Jin Cancan's thing to pick up a few times, but she still didn't think so, as if it wasn't her who was wrong. Then there's nothing we can do, you can do whatever you like, after all, we're just classmates, and we'll be friends forever after getting along. After two years, everyone went their separate ways, and if they didn't see each other again, no one could affect anyone, did you say that I was right? ”
After Lin Baoyue finished speaking, she heard Jin Cancan's mother on the other side gasping heavily, so she stopped talking and waited for the other party to be quiet.
At this moment, Jin Cancan's mother was really angry in her heart, and she couldn't say a word for a while.
She thinks that she has spent a lot of effort on Jin Cancan, in order to let her get into a good university, she has been paying close attention to her studies from the first year of junior high school to the third year of high school, and she has personally taught her, but she didn't expect to teach how to teach her
has repeatedly reminded her that Beijing University is the best university in the country, and her current classmates are her future connections, and now she has a good relationship with her classmates, which is also the icing on the cake for her future career.
But she's good, not to mention other classmates, even the dormitory is about to offend her.
She didn't even know it.
Jin Cancan's mother and Lin Baoyue were polite before hanging up the phone, but there was still a touch of shame on her face, and the anger in her eyes did not dissipate, which frightened Jin Cancan's father, who had just come back.
"What's the matter? Who messed with you? ”
"Not your good daughter yet."
Jin Cancan's mother told her man what she had just heard on the phone, and Jin Cancan's father's face became more and more solemn when he heard it.
Both of them attach great importance to networking, and both know that college is the foundation of a person's career, and college classmates are the most important network in life.
Especially their daughter is still studying in the best university in the country, which means that the starting point of their daughter's network is the best.
I don't know how envious I will be if I put it there with others, but this girl
"When I was a child, I shouldn't have put her at your parents' house, I was used to having a small belly and chicken intestines, and I couldn't see others better than her."
When she was a child, her cousin dressed more beautifully than her, so she tried to splash ink on other people's clothes. Because this golden mother didn't clean her up, she didn't see her do this kind of thing again when she grew up, and I thought she had corrected it, and her temperament had changed.
I didn't know that I was exposed again when I entered the university.
Jin Cancan's mother doesn't know how many times she regretted letting her mother-in-law help take care of the children, saying that she was three years old and old, and she was not by her side in the years when she was the easiest to develop her character in her childhood.
Jin Cancan's father also regretted that his wife didn't understand his fucking nature, but he knew that the old lady would repay her little belly and chicken intestines, and she couldn't see that others were better than her if she had a good relationship, and her daughter was raised by her for a few years, and she really raised her with the same personality.
What's the use of just regretting it now?
He sighed lightly and said, "Let's think about how to solve it first, don't think about calling and scolding her, it's useless, maybe after you finish scolding with your front foot, she will go to someone else Lin Baoyue for trouble." ”
"She didn't dare."
Jin Cancan's mother sneered, "Just like your mother, she bullies people and picks dishes, who is Lin Baoyue?" Is it something she can bully? Maybe she wouldn't even dare to fart. Not to mention Lin Baoyue, even Deng Weiwei didn't dare. ”
Talking about her daughter like this, she is also very uncomfortable.
The couple discussed, and finally decided to go to Kyoto for a trip, and then talk to their daughter solemnly, maybe the personality is not easy to correct, but the outlook on life and how to deal with people still need to focus on teaching again.
Second, I invited the girls in their dormitory to dinner, and apologized to others, in short, I tried to help her mediate.
They may not have the ability to be parents, but when she can still help after she makes a mistake, she still has to help. Otherwise, if she goes to work in the future, she will not offend people to death.