Coming out of the obstetrics, Zhao Heng happened to meet Ruan Liuzheng.

At this time, Ruan Liuzheng was a little different from when he was in the center before, although he looked a little tired, but there were more determined eyes between his eyebrows, and he seemed to have found a way forward.

"Director."

Ruan Liuzheng first said hello to Zhao Heng, and looked at Zhao Heng's gaze, which was also different from before, and now it was almost purely looking at the eyes of the teacher and the senior doctor.

The rhythm of obstetrics is very tight, since she came to obstetrics, almost all of her time has been occupied by work, and every day is thinking about how to keep up with the progress and then learn more things.

But the good thing is that now Ruan Liuzheng is with Zhou Hong, it can be said that in terms of obstetrics and gynecology, Zhou Hong is one of the best among the obstetricians and gynecologists in the entire North City.

Being able to follow Zhou Hong can be regarded as the creation of Ruan Liuzheng.

"How's it going?"

Zhao Heng looked at Ruan Liuzheng, who was already different from the previous in the center, and asked casually.

"It's a bit tight here, but I'm confident I'll be able to adapt to it."

Ruan Liuzheng said with a firm look in his eyes.

Although it is also good to follow Zhao Heng, it is obvious that obstetrics and Ruan Liuzheng themselves are more adaptable.

"Well, Director Zhou said, you have adapted very well."

Zhao Heng nodded and said.

The current medical industry is too volatile, it is necessary to have excellent ability and solid foundation, and it is necessary to work hard.

Ruan Liuzheng naturally hopes to become such an elite who can eat well with his own ability.

There is a good saying that everything is better than oneself, and this has been the case since ancient times.

Anyone who thinks about relying on others will end up eating themselves, but to a different extent.

"Well, work hard to stay in obstetrics."

After a pause, Zhao Heng said encouragingly.

"I will, Director."

Ruan Liuzheng nodded, and at this moment she had a very strange feeling in her heart, whether it was to prove herself, seize this opportunity, or to stand in the same position as Zhao Heng in the future, she had to redouble her efforts.

came out of the obstetrics, looked at the time, it was already time to get off work, picked up Xu Manni, and the two got off work together and returned to the house in Beishi No. 1 Hospital.

As soon as he entered the door, Zhao Heng saw Xu Hongdou wearing a vest and shorts, showing two white lotus-like calves coolly, lying on the sofa, eating snacks and chasing the drama without any image.

Seeing Xu Hongdou so casual and relaxed, Zhao Heng was a little envious in his heart, recently, he felt that he was too rushed, and he had a full schedule of time every day, although it was fulfilling, but it was also a little too fulfilling.

In addition to work, there is life in life, if you only care about work, you will inevitably ignore life, especially the people around you, when you can cherish it, you must cherish it, how many couples and couples, that are all want to meet every day but can't, life is such a reality.

"Aren't you busy with cultural and creative things? That's how you lay at home and grow fat? ”

Xu Manni changed her slippers, sat on the sofa, looked at Xu Hongdou helplessly and said.

Maybe it's because this person is a little idle, and he doesn't want to be busy anymore, this Xu Hongdou has been idle at home as a rice worm since he did the treatment and said that he wanted to nourish his body.

Although Xu Hongdou has the conditions to be a rice worm, if it goes on like this, it will always make people idle.

Xu Hongdou's parents are both engaged in scientific research, and they are doing very well, so they left Xu Hongdou two houses in Beishi, and said that these two houses are very good, according to the current market price, just selling these two houses is enough for Xu Hongdou to be a rice worm for a lifetime.

"Sister, don't say it, I don't know this trip, I just found out when I was lying down at the beginning, the more I lay down, the more comfortable I became, and I couldn't stop directly. If you think I'm too idle, then give birth to a little nephew and niece early, and I'll take care of the child for you. ”

Xu Hongdou leaned on the sofa, smiled, and said to Xu Manni without caring at all.

In life, or pleasure first, so what do you try to do?

Even if you work so hard, how much do you get in the end?

So, why don't you lie down sooner?

"I can't help you, you can lie down if you want."

Xu Manni took a sip of the water cup on the coffee table and said helplessly.

She is such a sister, if she wants to lie flat, lie flat, it's a big deal to raise her for a lifetime, it's nothing.

"Sister, look, the lazy sofa I bought is very comfortable to lie on."

Xu Hongdou pointed to a small sofa next to the sofa and said.

Why do young people now have lazy sofas at home?

Because the lazy sofa is really comfortable to lie on, I am so tired from working during the day, and the pressure is great, and when I come home from work and lie on the lazy sofa, the feeling of heaviness in my body is immediately removed.

On the lazy sofa, watching short videos and playing games is the best way for social animals to decompress.

"Net buy these useless things.

”

Xu Manni said this, but her body still stood up very honestly, walked to the lazy sofa, sat down, and her body suddenly sank into the sofa.

Call~

Xu Manni felt very relaxed at the moment, and couldn't help but take a long breath.

Recently, she has been under pressure, and the election of head nurse has reached the most critical juncture.

As the saying goes, a hundred miles of ninety is a half, a hundred miles, and ninety miles, in fact, it is only half of the walk, because the last ten miles are the most critical.

"You see, it's very comfortable to lie down, at least more comfortable than a sofa bed."

Xu Hongdou couldn't help but smile when he saw Xu Manni's upright appearance.

Her sister, who has a hard mouth, actually cares about and loves her the most in her heart, which she has known since she was a child.

"Sofa bed?"

Hearing this, Xu Manni looked at the sofa bed where Xu Hongdou was sitting, she didn't know what she thought, and she blushed slightly.

"Yes, I heard that you went to the branch today, how is the treatment over there?"

Xu Manni remembered again, this afternoon, Zhao Heng seemed to have gone to the branch, and over there, Xu Manni knew that they were all patients with severe mental disorders.

She didn't expect that Zhao Heng was now dabbling in such a wide range of things, and she had been with Zhao Heng for such a period of time, in fact, Xu Manni didn't see how volatile Zhao Heng was during his rest time, and his daily routine was basically the same as that of a normal doctor.

God knows where he can learn and master so much knowledge so quickly, maybe it's talented?

"The treatment effect is very good, and the senior director of the branch hospital is still very powerful."

Zhao Heng sat on the sofa, opened a bottle of cold beer, took a sip, and replied casually.

"You're talking about Gao Qilan?"

Hearing Zhao Heng say this, Xu Manni frowned slightly.

"It's Director Gao, what's wrong?"

Zhao Heng asked with a serious expression.

"It's nothing, I've heard rumors that when she was teaching at the university, her research project was stopped, and then she went to the branch without a sound."

Xu Manni thought for a while and said.

"You say the same, it seems to be true."

Hearing Xu Manni say the same, it is obvious that what Liu Meng said, so it should be true that when Gao Qilan was teaching at the university, the research project was suspended.

Zhao Heng was very curious, what kind of project Gao Qilan did and it would be stopped, such a thing is actually rare in China.

"What kind of project did that Director Gao do, and it will be stopped?"

After a pause, Zhao Heng asked with some doubts.

Naturally, it was not good for him to ask Gao Qilan face-to-face about this matter, and Liu Meng's words were not so clear.

And Xu Manni, the news channel in the East Hospital, is very smooth.

It is even said that she also has a three-person girlfriend group, and she is sharing the gossip of hospital employees at any time.

"I don't know this very well, but once I heard my uncle mention that it seems to be a behavioral reinforcement experiment based on the Skinner box experiment."

Xu Manni thought about it seriously and said.

"Based on the Skinner Box Experiment? Behavioral reinforcement? ”

Hearing Xu Manni say this, Zhao Heng's face was surprised, he thought that Gao Qilan's research project would be very cutting-edge, but he didn't expect it to be so cutting-edge.

The so-called Skinner box experiment is a world-famous behavioral chief psychologist Skinner, in 1938, did a very famous experiment: the mouse is locked in a box, and there is a lever on one side of the box wall that can be pressed, at first every time the lever is pressed, the mouse can get a piece of food, so later, when the mouse wants to forage for food, it will consciously press the lever.

So Skinner came to the conclusion that the behavior of organisms can be trained by rewards, and rewards can be used to change human behavior.

Later, Skinner wondered whether the effect on behavior was effective if the reward was not fixed.

So he changed the lever to a random piece of food for each press, and wanted to see if the mouse would continue to press the lever.

The end result was that the rat was pressing the lever more often than before.

"Behavioral reinforcement? Brother-in-law, isn't it just training monkeys to pick bananas with tools or something? ”

Xu Hongdou, who was bored, heard Zhao Heng and Xu Manni chatting, and tried to understand what Zhao Heng said.

"You're talking about training tools, I'm talking about behavioral reinforcement."

"For example, in a relationship, if one party finds that the other party is not doing what they expected, they will want to control the relationship more and more, and they will be crazy to know what the reason is, and the other party will have inconsistent attitudes towards them."

Zhao Heng casually gave an example and said.

"I understand that with such uncertainty, one party will start to put more effort into the relationship and want to put more effort into the relationship in order to achieve the goal of mastering the relationship."

"That is to say, when I can't master something, I will want to get it more and more with my own efforts, isn't this what everyone often calls PUA brainwashing now?"

Xu Hongdou has always been very smart, although he looks lazy now, but in fact, his understanding is very high, Zhao Heng just said this, and she extended it.

"Behavioral reinforcement is different from PUA, PUA, as long as you are sensitive and guarded, it is still easy to be discovered, but behavioral reinforcement is boiling a frog in warm water, and when you find out, it has been deeply transformed."

Zhao Heng shook his head slightly and said.

"Is PUA easy to spot? Brother-in-law, can you tell me about it? ”

Xu Hongdou asked with interest.

"PUA's words are actually mental bullying, and it can also be said to be a kind of mind control."

"Basically, the first step of PUA is to constantly devalue your self-esteem, deny your value altogether, and make you doubt yourself. For example, in the workplace, if you are blindly accused by your boss of doing a bad job, even if you work really hard, most people will first reflect and question themselves, am I really a waste? Once you start thinking this way, then the ego is shaken and the first step of PUA is achieved. ”

Zhao Heng patiently explained.

He is still happy to do this kind of popular science, and after picking up the skills and knowledge and experience that fell from Gao Qilan twice, he is also an expert in psychology.

"What if I just go straight to the boss? You don't make me feel better, I don't let you feel better, I'll resign if it's a big deal! ”

Xu Hongdou said directly.

"You have the confidence to do this, most people, for now, it is very difficult to find a job, and they will not easily give up the job that they have found so hard."

Xu Manni suddenly said with great feelings.

"Well, then, brother-in-law, what's the second step?"

Xu Hongdou nodded, and asked with interest.

"The words of the second part are very simple, when you reject his suggestion, the perpetrator of PUA will change his ways to persecute you, attack you, all kinds of cold violence, until you obey, so that you feel guilty in the process, question your own practices, have unconfident psychology, and even have depression."

Zhao Heng said slowly.

"Huh? Is it so scary? So how do I guard against this kind of PUA? ”

Xu Hongdou was a little frightened when he heard Zhao Heng say this, and he couldn't wait to know how to guard against this terrible spiritual bullying.

"If you're on guard, like in the workplace, you just need to remember the four ifs."

Zhao Heng said.

"Four ifs?"

Xu Hongdou pricked up his ears and said with great interest.

Not only her, but Xu Manni was also very curious, after all, she had never heard such a systematic analysis of PUA before.

"If the other person makes you feel guilty as soon as he speaks, then it's right to scold him."

"If the other party doesn't pay the price, let me work, and just scold me."

"If the other party paints me a big pie every day, talks about my dreams and values, I don't have to say it, huh!"

"The last if, if the other party wipes her tears and pulls her face to sell miserably, she will be told to get out of the office and cry to her mother!"

Zhao Heng said the [four ifs] he summarized without hesitation

As soon as he finished speaking, Xu Manni and Xu Hongdou looked at each other and looked at each other.

Although what Zhao Heng said was very right, but to be able to sum up such a useful experience, how much suffering and how many sins he had suffered before this!