"Hey, you look at this news, it said that a girl wore a wedding dress to attend her boyfriend's idol's concert, and then her boyfriend broke up." While eating, Xu Hongdou suddenly said while playing with his mobile phone.

Speaking of Zhao Heng and his sister Xu Manni getting engaged, Xu Hongdou also felt when he saw this news.

"Brother-in-law, what do you think about this?" After a pause, Xu Hongdou suddenly asked Zhao Heng very curiously.

"Tell me the truth?" Zhao Heng said.

"Of course, my sister and I don't mix in the rice circle, we must be telling the truth." Xu Hongdou nodded.

"If the wedding dress has no special meaning, these girls will not wear the wedding dress to the concert, let alone say that they will be reminded that they will wear the wedding dress to the concert because they know that the wedding dress has a special meaning, and they will be mentioned to break up."

"If this is the freedom to dress must be admitted, then the boy wants to break up with you because of this matter, then he must also admit it. If a girl really loves you, she will come to you in a wedding dress instead of asking you for a bride price. Zhao Heng thought for a while and said.

"I see a comment below, there is a boy who prepares everything for the bride price of the wedding room, just waiting to get married, and he has been in love for three years, because his girlfriend wore a wedding dress to attend an idol's concert, and the man broke up." Xu Hongdou continued.

"Didn't you say that wearing a wedding dress to meet an idol is marrying a youth?" Xu Manni smiled and said, from a young age to a child, the boys who chased her can row from the second ring to the suburbs, so she is not interested in male stars or anything at all.

"Is marrying someone after marrying youth a second marriage?" Zhao Heng couldn't help but say.

"Haha! It should be considered a second marriage, after all, it has already been married once. Xu Hongdou said with a happy smile.

"There's one thing that comes to mind about this. Emperors with great achievements in ancient times often like to Mount Tai to seal Zen, from the first emperor who unified China, to Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, and then to Emperor Guangwu of the Han Dynasty, even if it was Tang Gaozong, only Song Zhenzong, and since then, there has been no emperor to seal Zen. Zhu Yuanzhang, the founding emperor of the Ming Dynasty, originally had this merit, but he didn't go either. Zhao Heng said.

"Huh? What happened to this Song Zhenzong? Why didn't other emperors go after he went to Mount Tai? Xu Hongdou asked curiously.

"It's a shame that you are still a liberal arts student, because Song Zhenzong regarded the Tanyuan Alliance as the capital of Feng Chan, and this alliance is, to put it bluntly, to exchange money for bloodletting, and he lowered the level of Feng Chan a lot at once, so the emperor behind him didn't want to be side by side with him, so he didn't go." Xu Manni glanced at Xu Hongdou and said.

"That's the case, sister, I didn't expect you to learn history very well. So is this the same as the bachelor's uniform, the current bachelor's uniform is really rotten on the street, the bachelor wears it himself, and those who don't get the bachelor's degree also wear it, and even the children who graduated from kindergarten wear it. ”

"If that's the case, maybe the wedding dress won't be so valued in the future, because our traditional wedding dress is a phoenix crown and a xia veil, and it's not a wedding dress at all." Xu Hongdou thought for a while and said.

"Now Xiuhe clothes are also very good-looking, some brands are very well designed, and you don't have to wear wedding dresses or anything." Xu Manni nodded and said.

"Brother-in-law, why do you think from a boy's point of view, why is there such a big reaction to this matter? There are even boys who break up because of this matter? Xu Hongdou asked again.

"I don't know what others think, if I encounter this kind of thing, I will think, you wear a wedding dress with special significance to attend an idol concert, and then marry a youth in the name of it, this meaning is obvious, you want to marry an idol, but you can't marry, so your heart is given to an idol, and I am just the second one you retreat to."

"I don't think any girl who values her boyfriend a little bit will do such a thing." Zhao Heng said slowly.

People live for a lifetime, they pay attention to a comfortable thing, love and marriage, in modern society, it is far greater than the gain.

Basically, if you really want to calculate it, getting married is completely a loss-making business. So why don't young people want to get married now?

Here, the author advises everyone, especially young people, can you really bear the consequences of not getting married?

Think about yourself when you get off work and you are alone, you can only turn on the computer to play games, or ask fox friends and dog friends to drink and skewer the king pesticide on the spray, aren't you lonely?

With no one to accompany you, you can only be alone or ask your good friends to travel or play swit, aren't you bored?

No one cooks for you, ah, no, this won't be after you get married, so you can only cook what you want to eat, or order takeout, fried chicken, beer, crayfish, grilled fish, bowl chicken, spicy hot pot, tin foil barbecue, you don't get tired of eating like this every day?

There is no pressure to buy a house, buy a car, marry and raise children, resign if you want to quit your job, just spend more money and less money, and sleep until you wake up naturally on weekends, this kind of life, don't you panic, don't you feel terrible?

Yes?! How can you still sleep at your age?

"Brother-in-law, you sound very sincere." Xu Hongdou nodded, she found that Zhao Heng never talked about any big truths, he usually talked about his true feelings, and if he got along, he was quite comfortable.

This also shows that Zhao Heng is a person who has a very strong heart and basically does not have internal friction, which gives people a very reassuring feeling.

Isn't it all popular now that [find the reason for others in advance] [go crazy directly when something happens] or something?

"That's why people don't want to get married now." After a pause, Xu Hongdou said with some sighs.

The number of marriages this year has reached a new low, with just over 7 million couples last year, which sounds like a lot, but it is a 36-year low.

Now the post-90s generation no longer wants to get married, and the post-00s generation, not only do they not get married, but they don't even talk about love, the marriage rate has been declining year by year since ten years ago, and the divorce rate is soaring like a rocket.

Why is this so? In recent years, the fertility rate has dropped to a creepy point, and last year, our fertility rate has fallen below 1, what does this mean?

This means that the vast majority of parents, having only one child, do not reach half of the world average.

If this fertility rate is maintained, then when the three generations of the post-70s, post-80s, and post-90s generations grow old, for every person born, five people will die.

"This thing is actually very easy to understand, from an economic point of view, marriage is actually a contract, then the family is a company, marriage is to register a company, both husband and wife are investors, both have to invest their own time, energy and feelings, so what is the return on investment? Obviously, it is the various services enjoyed in family life, such as emotional values, companionship, and so on. ”

"The operation of the company requires a cost, when the society can provide me with more and more of the same services, there is no need to get married, the value of marriage will be greatly reduced, and the input-output ratio is getting lower and lower, everyone weighs the pros and cons, and is more willing to use time and energy in other places." Xu Manni said unexpectedly, obviously, she had thought deeply about this matter.

Why has it only been two months together, Xu Manni can be said to want to marry Zhao Heng? It's not at all like the old unmarried?

Because Xu Manni wanted, Zhao Heng could say that he could give it to her. Therefore, not everyone wants to get married, but for most people, the cost performance of getting married and having children is too low.

If everyone has a school district house in the city center, a holiday villa in the suburbs, and an income of several million a year, then everyone is willing to enjoy the happiness of getting married and having children.

"You've been thinking deep enough." Zhao Heng couldn't help but smile and said. Xu Manni is not a young girl, Zhao Heng is very clear about this, if it weren't for the fact that she had already thought very clearly in her heart, Xu Manni would not have thought about such a thing as falling in love and getting married.

Looks, figure, temperament, family background, work, education, Xu Manni has everything, and she can live a very good life by herself.

If it weren't for Zhao Heng really satisfying her, how could she want to get married? Maybe the couples who come through the tribulation will have more sincere feelings, but for a family and life like Xu Manni, where to go to suffer and tribulation?

"Isn't that the case with you men now?" Xu Manni asked rhetorically. When it comes to weighing the pros and cons, men and women are the same, and the better people are, the more powerful they are in this regard.

For an excellent man, there are only two kinds of women who can spend his life with him, one is to accompany him to grow up in adversity, and the other is to be very good in all aspects and can help him.

One is that the emotional value is very high, and the other is that the material help is very great, and people live for a lifetime, especially if they want to be tied to another person, they always have to try something.

"It's hard enough for most young people to survive now, who has the time to think about that." Zhao Heng shook his head slightly and said, if he is still a low-level instrument with a meager salary, with a meager salary of several thousand yuan, living in an urban village, not to mention getting married, he wouldn't dare to think about falling in love.

That is, now that his status, status and wealth can be said to have reached a certain level, marriage and childbirth basically do not have any burden for him, so he can consider marriage without pressure.

"That's right, there are really few people who can be as successful as you, young man, at this age." Xu Hongdou nodded very approvingly and said.

"Okay, you're not engaged in sociological research, you just have to do your own things well." Xu Manni thought for a while and said.

"But if the two sides meet, we have to make good arrangements." After a pause, Xu Manni said again.

When parents meet, it's a big event, and first impressions are very important, so be sure to arrange them well.

"It's nothing, it's just a meal." Zhao Heng thought very simply. After going to Xu Manni's house to meet Xu Manni's parents, Zhao Heng had a lot of peace of mind, and Xu's father and Xu mother were satisfied with Zhao Heng, so there was nothing to say.

On Zhao Heng's side, Zhao's father and Zhao's mother are also quite satisfied with Xu Manni, the daughter-in-law, in all aspects.

Since both parties are satisfied, then there will be no major problems.

"By the way, what is the custom of meeting over there? I'm going to get ready. Xu Manni asked Zhao Heng.

"It doesn't seem to be anything special, the first time we meet, it's just to bring something and talk about something." Zhao Heng usually doesn't pay much attention to these, as a young man in the new era, everything is simple.

"Otherwise, next weekend, I'll find a place." Xu Manni nodded and said, she didn't think there would be any problems, after all, both parties were quite satisfied.

"Sister, suddenly a little envious of you guys." Xu Hongdou smiled and said. Zhao Heng and Xu Manni, in her opinion, although they are not the kind of sweet love that they are tired of being together all the time, but the two understand and respect each other, try to reduce trouble for each other, and think about each other.

This kind of relationship is really white-headed and growing old together. Speaking of which, after Zhao Heng and Xu Manni were together, they haven't quarreled yet.

On the one hand, it was because it was too busy, and on the other hand, it was also because both sides were too transparent to quarrel at all.

"It's not like this." Xu Manni said with a smile. The feelings that can withstand life can be regarded as real gold and are not afraid of fire.

After she and Zhao Heng got together, basically all she got was positive feedback, in this era and world where negative energy will burst all the time, it is a blessing to find such a positive and sunny partner who can always provide positive energy and have the ability to have a promising future.

After supper, the three of them went shopping and went home. Back in the bedroom, Zhao Heng changed casually and lay down to brush his mobile phone.

Xu Manni also relied on the pillow to brush her mobile phone.

"You say, if we get engaged, will we call each other husband and wife?" Xu Manni suddenly asked Zhao Heng.

"The title of husband and wife is too formal." Zhao Heng felt that he was a little unaccustomed to calling his wife or something.

Speaking of which, Zhao Heng does not have a fixed name for Xu Manni, when they were not together before, they were called sister, but after being together, sister is called less, but there is no fixed title.

"If you don't call it that, what do you call it?" Xu Manni said with a smile.

"Otherwise, I'll call you Doctor Zhao at home?" After a pause, Xu Manni said.

"That's not impossible, I always feel like my husband is twenty years old all of a sudden." Zhao Heng nodded.

"Have you missed me in the past few days?" Xu Manni suddenly put down her phone, straightened up and looked at Zhao Heng and said.

"Huh?" Seeing Xu Manni like this, Zhao Heng knew that this was Xu Manni's code words.

"Whatever you want, come directly!" Zhao Heng put down his phone.

"Why is it gone?" Zhao Heng opened the bedside table, looked at the empty bedside table drawer and said.

"Oops, I forgot to buy it." Xu Manni said suddenly.