"Bah, bah!" Gu Xixi stretched out his hand to cover Xie Zhiyan's mouth, with a look of disapproval, and said angrily, "What are you talking about, you are still a scholar, so open-mouthed." ”

"Oh, it's really different, I can use it without a mouth, and I can't make a chapter if I continue to study, and I'll be compared to me immediately, I think our family is going to have a female showman." ”

Xie Zhiyan was not so uncomfortable at this time, and when he saw Gu Xixi's appearance of caring so much, he couldn't help but tease her.

When Gu Xixi heard this, she laughed out loud, and then she was a little embarrassed, but she was happy in her heart, didn't this affirm her learning results.

"I didn't mean to use it, I just felt like I said it naturally, and it was no different from what I usually do. ”

That's right, this is the purpose of learning, not to show off anything, but to unconsciously make people feel that this person has a level, which is different from those who have no knowledge. There is poetry and writing in the belly, and this is the case. ”

Xie Zhiyan respects Gu Xixi's study very much, and when he finds out that she has made any little progress, he will not hesitate to praise her, so that she has more motivation to continue learning.

The traditional education method in China seems to be a repressive education, which has been the case since ancient times.

It seems that only when the learner is suppressed to the point of being very humble can he learn well, which is a very confusing pattern of behavior.

After all, many educational psychology studies have shown that repression is not advisable, and many enlightened parents are willing to try different education methods, but this kind of repressive education is deeply rooted in the bone marrow.

This is especially the case in this era, you can't have a little bit of pride and self-confidence if you have good grades, otherwise you will be arrogant, and those humble gentlemen are all morbid pursuits of personality to put it bluntly.

Whose heart is white, everyone is also born as a human being, and everyone will have self-desire, which is not a shortcoming, but people in this era advocate perfection, and there are really one or two moral models, which can be said to be relatively successful in setting up people.

Gu Xixi's situation is different, she is a woman, and a woman's study and study will encounter more difficulties and obstacles than men, not only the external environment but also her own inner struggles.

Whether she is reading or learning calligraphy, she will always engage in a self-struggle. Especially when you encounter setbacks, such as not being able to practice that word well, or forgetting what you have learned before.

If at this time, you suppress her and ridicule her, maybe your motivation and enthusiasm for learning will be extinguished all at once, and she may not be able to afford the idea of learning to read in her life.

Therefore, in the eyes of Xie Zhiyan, it is like a seedling in the field, tender and raw, and it needs to be paid attention to all the time, whether it is a lack of water, whether it is time to fertilize and weed, and whether it is a pest.

In short, it's quite worrying, and it's not much different from raising a child.

The results are gratifying, but fortunately, Xie Zhiyan has gained a little sense of accomplishment, which is the most beautiful thing he felt when he came to this world.

Helping people to progress, he can even feel the brilliance of his humanity shining.

Gu Xixi pondered Xie Zhiyan's words, nodded and agreed, "I can't say this kind of thing either, but I always feel that it is very convincing to say it from your mouth, third brother." Then you say, if you pass the exam, won't you be a lifter, will I have to learn from a female show to a female lifter at that time?"

After she finished speaking, she felt that she was too ashamed to speak, and covered her mouth and snickered embarrassedly.

"That maybe, maybe one day our family will have a female champion. Xie Zhiyan also laughed, happy.

Gu Xixi glanced at him, and her heart seemed to be happy, the third brother is really good, he never dislikes her stupidity, he holds her hand and teaches her little by little if he can't write well, she has never seen such a patient man.

But now such a good and patient man is hers.

The handlebar style in front of me doesn't know what the little couple inside is happy about, still in the inner city, the crowd outside is boiling and can't be heard clearly, it is said that this family is a talented man, the two are also handsome, I didn't expect to be so approachable, and the relationship is good.

"Just believe I can pass the exam?"

Xie Zhiyan stretched out his hand and lifted the curtain and asked, glanced at the increasingly deserted street market, had already walked to the outer city, and soon went out of the city.

"Of course, Uncle Wang said so. Gu Xixi's face is not my own expression, Xie Zhiyan sighed.

"Oh, I'm at a big loss, just a few days, you will listen to Uncle Wang in everything, and leave your husband behind......" His complaining tone made Gu Xixi blush.

"No, I think so in my own heart, third brother, you have poetry and books in your belly, and you work so hard, you must be in the exam, I heard that the examiners are very smart characters, don't choose who you choose." ”

After Gu Xixi finished speaking, he felt that what he said was too full, in case, how would the third brother deal with himself when the time came.

"In case, I mean in case you meet a confused examiner, don't be afraid if you don't pass the exam, the third brother is still young, why wait another three years!"

She hurriedly made up for it and cheered Xie Zhiyan on.

Seeing that the third brother's expression returned to normal, he secretly breathed a sigh of relief.

Xie Zhiyan lowered the curtain and leaned against it, feeling emotion in his heart. Gu Xixi is really born to be a piece of learning material, and there is no need to deliberately ask to learn, and he will automatically and spontaneously learn to use knowledge in daily life.

If you are left in a person with average qualifications, after caring for the life of a child daughter-in-law for more than ten years, she must be a cowardly and stupid village girl, and her thinking and behavior patterns have been solidified, and it is estimated that this will be the case in this life, and it will be difficult to change.

But Gu Xixi is different, she is very smart, and the hardships and repression of life have not worn away her aura.

She knows how to seize opportunities, knows how to express herself positively, and does not blindly give in and compromise, nor will she continue to be discouraged and disappointed. In this world, she is a bold woman to a certain extent, and sure enough, genes determine everything.

What about the other person who originally had these genes?

Born to soak in the nest of wealth for more than ten years, and have adventures, he still acts with an impulsive outburst and no brain, which is easily reminiscent of things like embroidered pillows or splendid straw bales.

Xie Zhiyan narrowed his eyes slightly, but he kept thinking in his heart.

According to the logical thinking of embroidered pillows, what should she do next, when does she plan to do it again, and if she wants to do it, which way, where, and what reason will she choose?