Human beings always exist on two sides, just like everything that exists in the world is like this, there is a side of light and a side of darkness at the same time, there is no light and there is no darkness, there is no darkness and there is no light, the existence of the two is interdependent, just like the sunny side and the unknown side of human character, their existence is reasonable, only objective existence, not subject to your will as a transfer, whether you accept it or not, can not change your essence.

And accepting the problem is the first step to change.

Gu Qingzhou slowly closed his eyes because of this, reached out and grabbed it in the void, and grabbed the girl's hand, "Don't be afraid of me." "For this beautiful high-altitude night scene, some people like and some people are afraid, how do you think that what you like will be liked by others, maybe what you get is disgust and disgust?

Never think for others, they will take responsibility for their own lives, you just need to take care of your own business, and the rest has nothing to do with you.

There is no need to force anyone to like what you like, everyone has their own ambitions, you say that what you value may be insignificant to others, so people can only influence and change themselves to a certain extent, and other things are all external factors.

"Okay."

"Resignation~ Can you hug me and kiss me?"

Qin Ci: "......" is really coquettish!

Can't resist.

Qin Ci was actually not keen on this kind of thing, but she could clearly feel the young man's dependence and intimacy on her, this was what the other party needed, and she didn't lack it, so why not give it to him.

So Qin Ci approached the young man almost without hesitation, hugged the young man's neck, and then dropped a kiss on Gu Qingzhou's thin red lips.

Looking at each other's eyelashes fluttering, is this shyness?

Subconsciously raised his hand and stroked the young man's long eyelashes, "You are really unique in the world." ”

This face will go down in history!

Gu Qingzhou didn't care about this sentence, he just felt that when he closed his eyes, he seemed to feel more, and it seemed that he had turned off his vision, so that his sense of smell, touch, and hearing were instantly magnified.

He could smell the faint scent of flowers on her body, feel the warm touch of the brief contact on his lips, and the fluff on his face seemed to feel the slight sound of her breathing, and the warmth of the blow on his face brought a tremor in his heart.

My skin seems to be addicted.

"It's the highest point." Qin Ci still hung on the young man's neck, sitting in the young man's arms, looking at the scenery outside.

"Isn't the scenery beautiful?" Gu Qingzhou closed his eyes, at this moment he didn't feel that he was in the air at a height of several hundred meters, but on a prairie where the warm wind blew the cattle and sheep, and there was no part of his body that was not smooth.

"yes!" Qin Ci looked at the night sky, "It's a pity you can't see it." ”

"You are my eyes, and what you see is equal to what I see."

"...... "What kind of robber logic is this, she even thinks it makes sense."

Feeling the stiffness of the young man, Qin Ci understood that he was still nervous, "Okay, it will go down later, so you don't have to be so nervous." ”

Gu Qingzhou was annoyed and flatly denied it, "I didn't!" ”

Qin Ci felt that according to this trend, Gu Qingzhou might really be able to become very lively, but it was also possible that this was the liveliness he played.

After all, she hasn't forgotten that she is an actor in front of her, as long as he wants, he can perform anything.

Qin Ci thinks that many times life is like a play, everyone is an actor, starring in their own life drama.

In the process of your growth, you will repeatedly know yourself and the world, and your shallow cognition does not constitute your knowledge and understanding of the world, it is an all-round cognition.

Every intense soul suffering is a process of renewing or deepening one's understanding, and many things we think are simple, but in fact these simple and simple truths take us many times to truly comprehend.

Again and again frustration and pain are constantly deepening your understanding of this thing, if a person cannot self-reflect and self-summarize, then she will never be able to make progress.

Although it is an extremely painful thing to admit one's failures and mistakes, without this pain, one will be trapped in one's own vanity and arrogance, and one will be conceited.

Excessive self-confidence is conceit, and insufficient self-confidence is inferiority, so self-confidence should be an attitude of neither humility nor arrogance.

You have to accept that you are not good enough, that you are not good enough, and that you have many shortcomings, and then you can change further.

Life seems to be like a roller coaster, constantly hovering between the high slopes and the troughs, when you feel good, you are actually going downhill, when you feel miserable, it seems to be leaping forward, you can't always be out of the top state, and you can't always be at the low, but if you have enough self-examination ability, maybe you can jump out of this painful cycle.

The ancients gave the answer very early, and the classic sentence in Fan Zhongyan's Yueyang Tower Chronicle, 'Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself'

This state is the state that a person should have.

Gaining and losing are both a state, and there should be no excessive joy and sadness, but a normal heart.

Losing may mean that you will eventually lose, and gaining may only be a temporary gain, for things outside the body, you must not have the idea of possession, because you are self-sufficient, do not ask for the outside world, but think about what you can do for the outside world, what to do for others, what to provide for others, this is the correct state of mind.

Through the ability to self-regulate, the ability to recover, and always pay attention to one's mental-physical-emotional state.

Every day you need to reflect on the things of the day, whether everything you do today is from your heart, whether it is from mindfulness, whether you want to escape, whether you want to take shortcuts, whether you want to be lazy, whether you are greedy, whether you have perverse delusions and delusions, whether you have unrealistic wishes, whether you have thoughts that are prejudiced against others, these are all thoughts that consume your energy.

You don't think about how much feedback the outside world should give you, how many benefits, what you want to get, then you have to rely on your own efforts, even if you fail, even if the result is nothing, those don't mean that you have failed, you are still in a state of victory.

Because every time you do something, you should know that there should be a 50% chance that it will fail!

You can be fully prepared, but you also have to accept the possibility that this thing will fail.

No one should take it for granted that you should pay for you, should make you happy, others should not be responsible for your emotions and your problems, no matter how close the relationship is, it is not polite enough to let others be responsible for this matter, and it can even be called selfish.

It's useless to think too much, it's even more useless to think about others, the only thing you need to think about is whether you do everything you do today, whether you use all your wisdom and thinking, if something goes wrong, then the first thing you reflect on is yourself and not others, because it is absolutely impossible to blame others for the mistakes of things, and you yourself also take a lot of responsibility, so why are you not responsible for your own links?

Everyone is just assisting you, you have to realize that you are the main body of your own life, you have to be responsible for all the big and small things, you can't let it go, if this attitude can only mean that you are avoiding your own problems, you want to take shortcuts and let others help you solve your own life problems, but no one has the obligation to help another person.

Another thing is that it's never too late, you can make a change in the next minute or the next second, and stick to it.

In this way, perhaps people can spend this short time peacefully and happily, pursue what they love, keep their hearts pure and sensitive, and see a different world.

When Qin Ci looked at Gu Qingzhou again, his heart was very calm, making himself happy is an ability, and on the basis of his own ability, he can also make others happy, so that things will go smoothly.

It's okay to do anything to get things moving.

Many times when people feel that they are lacking, they will keep possessing things from the outside world, you should admit that there are some contradictions in your character, and even some weaknesses, but which person she is perfect, everyone is learning and understanding everyone around them, tolerance towards win-win choices, negative things cannot change the facts, only destroy all.

A lot of things, either you beat it or are defeated by it.

And people's self-confidence is built step by step, and at the same time, it is easy to destroy self-confidence, and self-confidence is also broken step by step.

Failing too many times, too many things beyond control, and people fall into a state of powerlessness, feeling that no matter what they do, they can't seem to change the mistake.

You should think of fighting against it until you overcome it, whether it's difficulties, challenges, or even your own weaknesses, and to let them exist is to weaken your own strength.

Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, the time in the sky has passed, and the Ferris wheel has made a circle to reach the ground.

"Alright, you can open your eyes." Qin Ci said softly, Gu Qingzhou slowly opened his eyes, he looked at the girl with burning eyes, he believed in her so much.

[Gu Qingzhou's favorability +30, currently 45]

No one has ever been able to give him such feelings.

However, he wanted to sink completely, he had already lost his whole life once, and for him now, there was nothing that could not be lost.

Being alive seems to have it all.

If you die, life becomes meaningless.

The world is constantly changing, and there may be people around him, and many people appear in his life, and then inadvertently get lost in his life and choose to leave your world.