The head nurse's daughter found a job collecting money at a small and medium-sized hospital in the city.

Although the salary of this job is not high, and there is no "gray income", it only needs to be commuted on time, and it is not on the night shift, and it does not need to contribute, so it is still very suitable for little girls who have just entered the society.

However, the daughter of the head nurse often can't distinguish the boundary between "public and private" when she settles accounts and collects.

Sometimes, for example, some people come, because they don't have change, and she's kind at this time, she takes out the change from her pocket and pays them, and then she takes her part out of the public money later.

But over time, it is very troublesome to toss again and again alone. She would save a certain amount of money and get back the change she had paid to patients or their families from public funds.

But in this way, after a long time, it is inevitable that there will be a situation of taking more or taking less.

At this time, this habit of hers was seen by the people around her.

Some people around her are jealous of her good background: she grew up in the city, her parents have jobs and medical insurance.

Some people are jealous of her good family conditions: an only child, she found such a quiet job after graduating from high school.

There are also people who are jealous of her good looks, and at this time, the daughter of the head nurse has grown into a slim girl, and her figure and appearance are very outstanding.

Either out of jealousy, or to invite merit, or to help others make room, someone reported her behavior of not separating public and private to the leader.

It happened that the leader came to check the accounts, and the head nurse's daughter had a few hundred yuan to match the account.

It is said that these hundreds of dollars, if they are discovered early, it is not a big deal to make up quietly.

But because usually, her parents didn't know anything about the rules of the property system, and no one warned her or instructed her after she joined the company.

Her parents did not instill in her a rigorous and meticulous concept of money, especially in the work involving money, and there was not much sense of risk.

The head nurse's daughter has always been very arrogant, thinking that hundreds of dollars, thousands of dollars, if it is worse, it will be made up, and there is nothing to find out, and it is not a matter of tens of thousands and hundreds of thousands.

She didn't know that the financial system was very strict, and there was no room for error.

She didn't know that her behavior was "no distinction between public and private".

Even if she is "embezzled", she is irrefutable.

She didn't know even more that there was nothing wrong with the sinister nature of the world's people's hearts, and she had to pick bones in the eggs, let alone such an obvious low-level loophole!

The head nurse's daughter was expelled from the unit as a result.

After the first beating in society, the head nurse's daughter went through many beatings:

"Friends" borrow money and do not pay it back;

Relatives near and far trick her into spending a lot of money on a lot of products that she may never use;

Trick her into investing and trick her into buying shares......

All of them ended up with the money in hand disappearing without a trace.

Then, those who cheated her out of her money laughed at her for being "uneducated"!

ridicule her for not understanding economics, not having "brains", and not knowing how to "manage money"!

ridicule her for not having a "vision", not having a "pattern", and not having a "mind"!

The head nurse's daughter hated the elementary and middle school teachers at the moment, it was their blow to herself, their cynicism, which made her always scared, and she began to fear going to school, afraid to go to school to see the teacher, and finally lost interest in learning! I also lost the opportunity to learn, and lost the opportunity to use knowledge to improve myself and change my destiny!

And her classmates told her at this moment that the reason why the teacher treats you badly is because you didn't give gifts to the teacher, and there are no "powerful" people such as the principal, district head, mayor, etc.

The head nurse's daughter only learned at this time that the teacher's kindness to other students was not because of how good the classmates were, but because the family gave them gifts, or someone in the family was a big official.

The daughter of the head nurse went home angrily and asked the head nurse,

"Why do other mothers give gifts to teachers, but you don't give gifts to teachers?"

The head nurse felt very aggrieved and told her with tears in her eyes,

"I also gave you a gift, don't you think there are often days when you come back and say that the teacher has been very good to you during this time, and that's because of the gift from your mother!"

Hearing this, the head nurse's daughter was very shocked, and she said in disbelief,

"But Mom, you didn't tell me you went to give a gift to the teacher! You keep saying that the teacher treats me badly because I don't do well enough, because I don't study well, but there are many children in our class who don't study well, and the teacher doesn't treat them like I do. Sometimes the teacher's attitude is better, and you say that it is because of my good performance during this period of time that the teacher has changed. If you had told me at the time that it was because you gave a gift, I wouldn't have had so much pressure, I wouldn't have tried so hard to please the teacher, I would have been watching the teacher every day, and I would have tried my best to do things I didn't like! ”

The head nurse was also full of grievances and even more angry,

"I don't want you to know that I'm going to give gifts because I don't want you to see the dark side of this world, I want you to always be sunny and always happy! I gave a gift to the teacher, and the teacher has a good attitude towards you, and he doesn't bully you anymore, what pressure do you have? Why don't you take advantage of the teacher's attitude to improve and study hard? I kind of know, you're not the material for learning! You don't make excuses for not studying well! ”

The head nurse's daughter smiled sadly,

"Mom, I am the person concerned, and my experience is the most direct and profound! I feel that the change in the teacher's attitude is short-lived, not long-lasting! It always gives me a feeling that I can't hold on! You gave a gift this time, just in time for me to be a student on duty, I thought I did a good job on duty, the teacher liked it, so I did my best on duty, my work, other people's work, I did it. However, after a few days, the teacher wanted to be polite again, and no matter how hard I worked on duty, he was not satisfied with me, and I didn't know why! I live in fear every day! In particular, sometimes the teacher doesn't know if he deliberately makes it difficult, and deliberately asks me questions when I am distracted, I don't know anything, so I hate learning even more and am afraid of learning! Do you know how powerful your classmates are? The teacher's attitude is good, everyone smiles at you, the teacher's face changes, and the classmates ignore you. How do you let a little child deal with it? How to adapt? How to accept? How do you let me shine? How to be happy? ”

The head nurse cried and wiped her tears, and asked Ji Yun with teary eyes,

"You're a graduate student, you've read a lot of books, and your parents are both knowledgeable and literate intellectuals. You must know a lot of truths, can you tell me what is wrong? Am I doing this wrong? ”

The head nurse asked again,

"You tell me, why is your life so good, you can meet teachers who are good to you from childhood to adulthood, so that you don't get tired of studying, so that you can be admitted to graduate school step by step?"

Ji Jun felt speechless, the teacher she met was only more wonderful than this, not as strange as this one. She also met a lot of snobbish classmates.

Ji Jun just wanted to explain this matter to the head nurse without knowing the depths, but an older nurse next to her quietly shook her head, and Ji Jun stopped.

At this time, an old director of the department who had retired and rehired said to the head nurse mercilessly,

"You can't blame the children for this matter, you should blame yourself more! You've been protecting her like a caged bird. And then all of a sudden, you don't have this ability, no, you don't have this ability at all, but you think you're "protecting" your child when she doesn't have to face the wind and rain. Then, now the child has to face everything by herself, you let her go into the mountains and forests without knowing anything, facing nature, she can't fly at this time, and she doesn't know how to grab food from others, and she doesn't even know that there are many dangers in nature, except for being bitten by those fierce wolves, insects, tigers and leopards. Do you think there's a second way out for her? ”

The old director's words made the head nurse cry bitterly, Ji Jun felt very sympathetic, but she didn't know how to comfort the head nurse, or complain about the head nurse, she felt that she had no position.

The old nurse pulled Ji Jun out of the office and said slowly,

"We have reminded her before, let her either not send, if you want to send it, take the child to send, let the child see the mother's low in front of the teacher, see the mother's blood and sweat in exchange for the teacher's short smile, and more cold words, she will be touched in her heart, there is an impact, only in this way, it is possible to arouse her inner unwillingness, will work hard!"

Ji Jun was deeply touched by the words of the old nurse, who had prepared a bouquet of flowers worth 200 yuan and a greeting card worth 5 yuan for the child's teacher on Teacher's Day.

The father of the child at the same table was a big money, and the father at the same table gave the teacher a necklace of about 5,000 yuan.

Then she showed off with the child at the same table, and the child was deeply stimulated, and she came back to the old nurse and said,

"Mom, return the flowers, let's send a greeting card. Our money is not in the eyes of the teacher at all, no matter how hard we try, we can't catch up with the wealth of my tablemates, why bother! ”

The old nurse's child was completely disappointed in the teacher who forgot his righteousness and had no illusions.

At the same time, the child also knows that this society is so cruel, even in the schoolyard, it is full of cruel battles!

The old nurse continued,

"The head nurse didn't listen to what we said, and the reason why I didn't let you say it was because you didn't have weight. She doesn't ask you to get an answer from you, she just says she's talking about her grievances, and someone can listen to you. She just complains, even if she is asking you, she doesn't need an answer, she already has the answer in her heart, and she never recognizes her mistake. And once you say what you think, she will not be satisfied. But it's different when the old director says it, what is it called? This is called the official standard. ”

Ji Jun thought, this is what the ancients said, "Strength is weak, don't persuade others, don't have money to rest in the public, and don't look for relatives in trouble"!

People are soft-spoken, and even if they say it correctly, it is difficult to be accepted and recognized.