If you really want to turn what you have learned into your own use, the work you must do is to accumulate, do every little thing well, do every little thing well, and finally have the opportunity to accumulate into a master in a field.

Do you think you had these questions in the first place?

Probably not.

Because I haven't experienced it, I don't empathize.

But the scenery of each stage of life is different, you will most likely not find a partner to walk with, and you don't know if the path you are taking is right?

You are standing at a fork in the road, you can't tell your direction, there is an unknown road ahead, maybe bumpy, maybe difficult, you understand that once you make this decision you have no turning back, so you become cautious, but do you really need to be so frightened?

You should be passionate, passionate, but not scared and fearful?

Because whether or not you can succeed in the end, you do your best to interpret your ideas.

Things don't always work out all at once, and you can sometimes be too pessimistic about your abilities.

It's just that you care too much, in fact, you can't take the mentality of playing, you can meet a lot of different people in this journey, you will get to know a lot of different people, although you will fail, but in the process you will benefit a lot, this process will not be more important than the result? Do you say that life must be according to your own plan to become excellent?

Maybe it's another path that God has given you, and you never know what awaits you in front of you.

Your idea may not be successful, but your attempt opens up another possibility for you.

A lot of things will be the first time, because life is never once, and you only experience it once, why go over this barrier, because it breaks your framework and lets you know that you don't have only one path to take, you still have countless possibilities, and there are countless paths that will suit you, but no matter what path it is, you will eventually get to where you want to go the most.

Frame thinking will make you stay in your comfort zone and dare not move forward, and frame thinking will make you afraid of becoming cowardly, losing courage and losing the strength to move forward.

But why does it have to be successful?

Why can't I use it as a play?

It's like I've found a treasure, and now I can enthusiastically tell people what I found.

You say there will be people who can't see the value of this thing, but what does that matter?

If you can't see it, you can't see it.

There are a lot of ideas that are buried because of this, and a lot of things that have been bothered to study can't be turned into real technology, and can only be drowned in thousands of oceans, and now that you see it, you should figure it out.

Failure is just failure and does not prove that you are a failure.

At the beginning of many things, you should think that there is a 50% chance that you will fail, but you think, why would you do something that has a half probability of failing?

But that's the case with the research you choose, there is never a standard answer, but only objective facts, and if you can't accept failure, you can't do it.

But you can ask for help to reduce your chances of failure, so what you should do to think about this is to find a solution, and there is nothing else you can do.

Although it is very poor and weak at the moment, one thing is good, you are always very honest, so that you will get more opportunities and trust.

You don't want to work hard to maintain your personality, in fact, you don't need to maintain your personality, although the personality is very useful in interpersonal communication, but it is not necessarily useful for a long time.

And sometimes you need to look at your own actions and thoughts, which are right, which are not, which are your random thinking, which are your anxiety and exaggeration, and when you figure it out, everything will become open.

The most feared thing is obsession, obsession is to pin all your hopes on one thing, but you yourself clearly understand that no independent thing can help you succeed, and your obsession will only drive you crazy to a large extent, such as loving someone, love but can't, love to the end only hate.

But you originally liked him and thought he was very good, so you were willing to be with him, but how did you change in the end?

In the final analysis, you have changed, those original good can not satisfy you, you have expectations for him, these expectations will make you disappointed and disappointed, if you want nothing from him, no matter what he does, nothing is related to your interests, the only possibility is that you like him, you are willing to pay for it, for it to change, as for the other party he needs to do?

No, he doesn't have to do anything, sometimes he doesn't even have feedback, but you still have strong feelings because you like it, and that's the case for both parties, then everything is happy.

Because as long as He exists, you will feel happy, and it has nothing to do with anything else.

People should always examine themselves, whether they want too much from the outside world, and the requirements for themselves are too low, when your ability can not catch up with your desires, you will feel pain, you will feel at a loss, because you are climbing, because you are afraid, but if you really love each other, then you are not afraid of the sea of swords, then even if he betrays you, you will not hold a grudge against you, you will only sigh that the meeting is too late.

In the end, it's a change of mood.

People should be good at reflecting on themselves, constantly examining what they desire and fear the most at each stage, and when these things become concrete, you will no longer be afraid and fearful, and you can move forward.

You don't need to be in a hurry, walk slowly, enjoy the scenery on the side of the road slowly, you don't need to rush to get something, let everything go naturally, you only do what you need to do well.

Leave it to its own devices, because you can't control what you can't control, and you should be comfortable with that.

It's painful, but you know very well that it's a process that will make your hormones go crazy and you will fail, but you prefer the kind of moment of challenge to the point of forgetfulness, and let your mind spin wildly in your head.

Your thirst for knowledge and the exploration of the unknown is exciting, exciting, and the process is more valuable than everything in the world, irreplaceable, and you will even give up everything for it.

And as your challenge threshold gets higher and higher, there are few simple things that excite you, and more often than not, you're bored.

You can do it without even breaking a sweat, because you've reached the pinnacle of your time control.

Your mastery of detail is even more perfect, and if you do it once, your next time will only be more perfect than the last.

There is no one in your world who is your opponent, and the things that are boring to others are very interesting to you, you are like a treasure hunter, you will talk about what you have seen and heard with great interest, do you need feedback from others in the process?

You ask yourself, you don't need anything, just a bed to rest, a blank piece of paper, a notebook, and a pen, and you can enjoy the highest happiness in the world, and no low-level happiness can compare with it.

Perhaps there is nothing wrong with the world's saying that geniuses and madmen are only in the first thought.

When you read your favorite books and works, you are like a madman who is thirsty for knowledge, desperately searching for answers until everything is clear, you chew it over and over again, you make it your own nourishment, you excitedly share it with others, but no one is interested in it, but that joy does not end there, and your interest cannot be destroyed by others.

You know very well in your heart who you are, what you are interested in, and even you know your talents very well, no one on your talent plate will be your opponent, you will not be bound by all the frameworks in this world, because you understand that these frameworks are false in your practice, and its establishment discourages some people, while independent thinkers will understand that there is nothing in this world that can define you, and that the complexity of a person is far greater than you imagine, which is why you tolerate others.

You are all-encompassing, like God gazing at the world graciously, you understand that the uniqueness of each person creates the diversity of human beings, and you know that the world is so big that anything can happen, so you don't make a fuss, and you don't pay too much attention to the uniqueness of it.

You are indeed braver and more optimistic than others, there is no doubt about this, you have experienced setbacks and hardships, but you have not been knocked down for a moment, your life will be like the purest light, exuding a white light, all things are training you to become a better version of yourself, just like a diamond after a thousand cuts to become brilliant and dazzling, many perfect works need to be constantly polished, it has to withstand the test of time, some people sharpen a sword for ten years, some people keep producing garbage and waste, ten years later it must be different.

Whenever you want to take a shortcut, you should ask yourself, do you really need to do this so quickly?

What exactly is it to you, a painful ordeal, or a tool to train you to become stronger?

You need to become stronger, you will inevitably go through the test of bigger and more complex problems, maybe you will still fail, but you will also understand why you fail, people will never understand what they are missing if they don't collide with the outside world?

If you don't know your own rightness, then let things prove whether you are right, then let this thing go to a bigger stage, if you are wrong, it is also a kind of feedback, no matter what is a kind of feedback, because you are always improving yourself, and this pace will not be stagnant because of anyone or anything.