Chapter 163: Angel Killer VS Righteous Officer (57)
Now, I may be more aware of what I really want and what I want to be to whom, because not everyone has the ability to get a glimpse of who they really are.
Even if there is, it is very rare, and you may never meet it in your life.
Not pessimism, but objective facts.
It's better to do more valuable things, work in a down-to-earth manner, live your own daily life enthusiastically, and don't live in other people's values.
If you don't like it, don't look at it, don't try to convince me, because I know better than you that this is best for me, respect other people's choices.
You can't appreciate the beauty of reason, and I can't appreciate you.
Not being together is the best thing for us.
Some gentleness and purity may only be achieved in it, but in reality, I enthusiastically experience the journey of life every day, and it is normal for people to come and go, and the traffic is busy.
No one has stopped for you, but for whom have you stopped?
Just give yourself time, gentle and powerful.
A person will also be very good, rest when you are tired, you don't need to explain your life and values to anyone, and it is normal to be misunderstood and hated.
And you don't need their likes.
They are not qualified to influence you.
It's the creation that is at the core. Happiness can also be created.
Meaning is also created.
The most important thing is the concrete life of my day.
Today I saw the white clouds, which are so clean that people feel soft.
I ate the fruit today and ate it whole, it was amazing.
I wrote a mood diary today, sorting out the complex thoughts in my heart, making my mind clearer and my goals clearer.
I went to wash my glass of water and drank a glass of hot milk today to keep my body in good shape and condition.
I'm going to create today.
All the details of yourself are worth scrutinizing, and such a simple and plain time is the most warm.
That's what life is all about.
There are no other people who you can do, sharing is just sharing, you don't have to care about the other person's response, just give the appropriate response.
Life is beautiful, and people who love themselves with their hearts will be happy every day.
Looking forward to the future self, it is better to take a serious look at the current self.
Today's harvest is very much, what have I learned today's self is not more patient with myself than yesterday's self, whether today's self is smiling, whether today's self is dressed up, a person who loves life, a person full of hope is impossible to make his life barren, is unable to endure the disorderly life, he will definitely make his life full of strength and flowers.
Otherwise, you won't be able to spend a day, or every day will be a torment.
Li Wan looked at her son, there was a bit of trance in her eyes, and in a trance she remembered the appearance of the man she saw for the first time, handsome appearance, very elegant and polite, warm and romantic, which instantly captured her heart.
I have to say, if a person is too perfect, then the first thing you should think about is whether she is a liar? And not that she doesn't really like herself.
When you fall in, that's when the other party closes the net.
In fact, emotional scam is the most hurtful thing for a person, it's okay if you don't talk about feelings, it's very likely that you will be empty of money, time and youth are wasted, but it is still recommended to go through it again, increase the richness of a life, this emotional experience can make you understand everything faster, so as to enhance your inner strength.
As soon as people are emotional, as if the heart is not their own, the other party's smile and smile affect your heart, making you think about it, all thoughts follow each other, and missing and missing are tormenting you every day.
That's how she fell into it at the beginning, it was because she didn't understand the other party that she brewed the follow-up consequences, and the fault was not the child, but for a moment she still hated the appearance of this child, if it wasn't for the appearance of the child, she could actually be free.
It's just that if a person has been bullied for a long time, he will develop learned helplessness, lack of courage to resist and resist, and lose everything he has step by step.
Only now can she calmly look at her cowardly self in the past.
Don't test the evil of human nature, if you test the humanity of others, you are doomed to failure.
Tests of oneself are doomed to failure.
"Mother, the past is gone. You should come out of this experience. You still have half a life left, how can it be determined by the past few years, theoretically, no one can decide who you are, no one can decide who you become? "If you have your own will, you will know where you should go? Every step you take is an accumulation made for the direction you are going.
A lot of people obviously don't understand this idea.
Bad or bad, if you don't plan to change this bad world, then it will always be bad, if you want the world to change, then firmly implement your plan in the space where you can play, don't follow the crowd, without your own ideas are like a puppet, you have to work hard to fight for your rights, otherwise your rights and time will be ruthlessly occupied by others.
You don't need to explain where you've been, because no one wants to hear it, and there are very few people who actually want to listen.
Everyone wants to tell their own story, and the one who chooses to listen is the one with the most accommodating attitude on the field.
You can tell everyone here that you are such a person, whether you accept it or not, and if you want to communicate with me, you have to put your attitude right, otherwise what you tell me will fail.
If you don't want to communicate well and continue to create difficulties, then don't blame the bad ending.
"I understand, it's just that it took me half my life to figure it out." Li Wan smiled lightly, and looked extremely tolerant under the dim night light, this was the first time that Gu Qingzhou felt that his mother's heart knot had been completely untied, and he was really indifferent to what had happened in the past.
Again, I thought that anyone can only make me better, not hurt me.
I have to realize that I am growing, and it is normal to be squeezed while growing up.
Everything pushes me to be a better version of myself.
Every day is boring sometimes, and many times life is like that.
But it's useless to think so much, who the teacher is, what work to do, what to learn, as long as you walk over, it's nothing, just like before, the most important thing is that you have to understand that all this will not go well, just like your undergraduate teacher ignores you, even if you have the ability, you will still be suppressed, ignored or even suspected, these are other people's emotions, not yours.
You have to know that you've always been great and don't need to blame yourself.
Everything you do now is for the sake of being truly free, and the freedom of money will solve 90% of the world's problems.
Then create, create something that is truly your own, a work or something else.
And then let those things iterate and get more time for yourself.
You are not a race against others, but against your own time, and to a certain extent, everyone is an auxiliary means for you to achieve your goals.
The personal growth you want, as for the impression of others on you, it is not important at all, and the place you want to maintain is only the image in the eyes of a few people.
You have to believe that nothing is unconquerable, all you need is to know more and then practice it in the real world.
There are a lot of sounds around, but you don't need to listen to them, you just have to believe in yourself.
You can't make a mistake.
Natural or man-made disasters or anything else has nothing to do with me.
Life is short, and the day is so short that I can only feel that time is passing faster and faster.
I can't stop it, I can only face it in a way that I enjoy.
When there is no way, you have to break the situation.
Let everything be an enabler, not a hindrance.
There is no one who is the most suitable, and it is a particularly difficult thing to meet a soulmate.
Many people are not on the same level of cognition, and you can only tell them in the simplest way.
This process requires patience.
But I don't have the patience to repeat a point to others.
There are still many things that need to be improved to prevent such problems from happening next time.
I can't manage others, but I can manage myself.
Doing more can resolve some contradictions and bring some things to a successful conclusion.
Because the time period for which these people and I have dealt with me is only a certain period of time.
If there is bound to be a conflict in the future, then I choose to solve the problem head-on.
You have to believe in your own correctness, even if you don't do it very well, but try to improve and you will win.
When you're in a bad mood, it's easy to look at things and become pessimistic, so the first thing to do is to take care of your emotions.
You only need to do what you are responsible for at the moment, and as for other people's lives, you can adopt a strategy of inaction.
Focus on your own life and don't need to give advice.
You can only play as hard as you can, and that's what it looks like.
There is no need to be nervous, it is naturally good to do well, and it is useless to do it badly.
Reduce doing meaningless work that is perfunctory, and the same is true for teachers.
You have to understand that the purpose of your study is to fulfill yourself, not to others.
People don't always need to be too great, too great will produce a sense of superiority.
You need money, you also need time, you also need to rest well, give full play to your creativity, instead of spending time on meaningless people and things, one thing needs to be promoted by real talent, not something that can be dealt with by doing some superficial work, and everything has to be taken first.
This is not to force you to do anything, but if you don't do it, the person who is forced is yourself, you will have the right to choose if you take the initiative, and if you don't take the initiative, you will wait to be beaten passively.
You don't care about other people's thoughts and opinions, because not everyone is destined to like you, some like you just because you have something to use and valuable places to be valued, they don't like you as a person, and you don't need to hand over your true self to others to judge, because it's all meaningless.