A gentleman is not a person, as a person, you should develop in an all-round way, not be limited by others in all aspects, it is not anyone who restricts you, but your own thinking, break the wall in your thinking, you can get unlimited opportunities.

Always do meaningful and right things, the right thing must be able to create value, if a thing is really valuable, you should be firm in your belief, you can accomplish it, you can become a leading existence, you don't listen to the voice of the outside world, but listen to your inner voice.

Whether you are doing the right thing or not, you have a number in your own heart, you do your own things seriously, your attitude is serious and sincere, and the world will make way for you.

Only by becoming the leader trusted by the teacher can you obtain absolute suppression, or your own right to win, the right to speak, and the right to negotiate.

You have to make the other party understand the fact that it is possible to cooperate for a win-win situation, not to the detriment of each other.

Don't try to damage me, otherwise you will only lose yourself, and you must fully demonstrate your high value.

Fully show your respect and politeness to the extraordinary teacher, some people just want your attitude, and it's okay if things fail.

A win-win mindset is a way of thinking worth developing.

Your heart is no longer afraid, no longer anxious, no longer nervous, but a very relaxed state, this is your best moment, the highest moment, every moment belongs to you, every moment is blooming with your own light.

Other people's world is too complicated, and you are very simple, the way of thinking is a linear process, others don't need to guess your mind at all, simple and pure, what you say and what you do.

Resolutely refuse what you can't accept, say what you want to try, keep your enthusiasm and creativity in a thing, accept it is someone else's business, but you must have your own original ideas, as an audience, you will seriously play the role of the audience, as a tool, you don't need to think too much about what you don't have, you better do more than you say, which is more convincing than speaking.

Others only look at what you have done, and don't care what your difficulties or real thoughts are, and the world understands only a few, and very few people can fully understand another person.

But you will explain your actions to everyone, no, you are not even angry at all, the peace and happiness of your life are not determined by these people, no one is obliged to teach you anything, in the end, what is in front of you is your life problem, not the life problem of others, and you should be very patient with every specific and subtle problem, and not want to run away, not to complain.

Because complaining is useless and doesn't really solve the problem.

When things don't go my way, I wonder if I can stop?

Stop and take your time, don't be in a hurry to grow, don't be in a hurry to wait for the flowers to bloom, don't be in a hurry to think about the direction of life, you actually understand that a real life form has infinite power, you can open the dimension of your life inward, and slowly manage your own life.

You gradually realize that there is no one else in this world except yourself, and the outside world is a projection and blur of your inner world, a reflection of your actions and thoughts, and everyone will become a mirror of your inner self, a booster for you to cultivate yourself, which is not a kind of self-pUA, but a kind of inner seeking.

You will understand that all troubles are caused by yourself, everything outside is your inner presentation, only by truly making your inner strength can you resist all the wind and rain in the outside world, and life is at this moment to bloom with beautiful grace, there is no pain and no frustration, people will become arrogant and arrogant.

People can get into a state of complacency, you can see it, but why do you want to debunk others?

Are others really willing to go back to real life?

Since the hard way is not acceptable, the soft way.

It's useless for you to be angry and angry, and the strong take the initiative to deal with the problem and take back control of the matter, instead of waiting for the result to appear, even if that thing has no result at all, but even if there is no result?

Life is about the process of participation, not the final result.

I try my best to participate in the process, no matter what happens, I accept it calmly, since things have come to this point, just like the person you meet, he is like this, what you can do is yourself, people can only change themselves, the environment, other people, society, national culture, you can't change anything, the only thing you can only change is yourself.

In the midst of these things, you regain your growth and have a unique experience in life, but it is all an experience, good or bad, and it is difficult for you to say that you can be successful in your career, and it is difficult to say that you can be successful in love.

But people can choose to do what they love, do themselves can really forget about self-crazy investment, regardless of the time of the career, you have no expectations for it, there is no excess control, you just want to express your own opinions, express your own opinions to get your own growth, and at the same time you can also bring a little bit of growth experience to the world, as your own growth process ideas, record your own growth moments.

Every day's diary shows your growth and progress.

You know that very few people in this world pay attention to you, and the only thing you really need to do is to explore the boundaries of your abilities and find what you are really good at, instead of hanging your head every day and not being able to do anything.

Passionate, hopeful, happy every day, full of energy, that's the most important thing you should do.

You know that you are not the brightest light, but you are the only light, you are like a little sun that radiates your light and your heat every day, and I know you will wonder what is wrong with these people?

But many people can't really be themselves.

People always have their own space to create and choose independently, not necessarily to destroy with difficulties, but to take the initiative to promote their own problems to be solved.

This is the effective way to solve problems.

If the problem cannot be solved, then the first thing you need to think about is whether there is a problem?

People always need to have a sense of service, not to look down on each other, but to try to make communication more efficient in the most concise and powerful way, and to get the most effective communication in the simplest way.

to reach an understanding of things.

Set the right mentality, if things really don't go well, then you are helpless, it is better to be happy.

A positive mindset helps in your problem solving.

Some people's mentality is possessive, while some people's giving is unconditional giving, she doesn't make any demands on you, it's just an unconditional gratitude, and there are not too many superfluous emotions.

Don't regret the decision once it's given, and learn to be responsible for the outcome once the decision is made.

You have to understand that not everyone in this world can catch your emotions, everyone can appreciate your uniqueness, and everyone can tolerate your carelessness and mistakes, but you can give yourself all the love, the love that belongs to the universe alone, because you lack nothing, and you can even give a lot of things to the outside world generously and create value for the outside world.

Many times you understand that many people are in a state of deprivation, you are a big philanthropist, and the emotions of giving each other happiness every day are warm, giving some energy to those who are selfish, because they have the talent to give, and in their hearts they are all poor people's thinking, which belongs to being trapped in their own world, not seeing the world clearly, and not seeing human nature clearly.

Because you know human nature too well, you are polite, so you have a clear sense of boundaries, and not everyone in your world can enter.

Do you really know me?

What you see is only one-eighth of the iceberg, and seven-eighths of the information is below sea level.

I'm more cold than you think, and more affectionate than you think.

If something must be done, it is better to have less emotional internal friction, do it seriously, and create the time that can be created to give it to yourself.

Don't put your imagination and creativity on getting along with people, the easiest way to get along with people is to be completely straightforward and honest, don't guess other people's thoughts and ideas, others are really hell.

Seeing flowers through the fog is the best feeling, and it is a disaster for people to get too close to each other.

When you don't know it, it's actually the best moment.

You don't realize that it's actually a very good way to take control yourself.

Take the initiative to attack, take the initiative to defend.

Taking the initiative means taking the initiative to retreat, and if it doesn't feel right, stay away immediately.

Don't jump to conclusions until you understand anyone.

And you don't need to say a lot of words, silence is golden, sometimes silence is a kind of inner forbearance and explosiveness.

You can control a lot of things, but people are not necessarily under your control.

Especially in the human mind, you can only express your position clearly and clearly, and many other things are not under your control.

There is always room for progress, and progress can only be made in accordance with the right time and place.

If you are too mature, you will seem very sophisticated, and you don't want to be a sophisticated person, in fact, you have already let go of your expectations for the world and everyone, so there is no expectation, so that no matter what happens, it is a surprise for you, and it is a kind of gratitude.

When you don't have extra prayers for this world, you will become strong, and after asking from within, you will no longer ask why others are doing this to you, but others are not good to you, you can just filter out the other person and just replace it with the next one.