Chapter 215: Female Ghost King VS Soft Taoist (40)
Of course, I believe that today's boys know that little girls are easy to deceive, and they always spend some money and buy a cup of milk tea to deceive people.
But in fact, girls really should have more experience to know what is really valuable in this world, so that they will not be easily confused and make wrong decisions.
Many people can't believe their words at all, and the person you should trust the most is always yourself.
Make yourself a reliable person, but you don't have to help with everything, you also have your own space and time.
You don't actually confuse him, but he can recognize the value in you, and everyone is a master of identifying value.
It's like your attitude of serious study and experimentation.
These attitudes and ways of doing things will determine a person's personality charm.
Personality charm is the greatest lethality.
A person has power only if he is real, and if he is not true enough, he will deviate from his will and actions.
Therefore, you can do what you want to do, and don't waste any time thinking about other things, which are useless anyway.
You've got a to mess around.
It's better to innovate your own career, let yourself progress slowly is the last word, and the rest is not important.
It is enough to go with the flow and not create unnecessary trouble for yourself.
Anything that seems to me to be a nuisance and people is better off not getting involved, saying what needs to be said, and doing what needs to be done.
Don't be nervous at all.
It's useless to be nervous, but to disrupt your original rhythm and pace.
You don't feel sorry for what you do, and you don't feel that there's anything wrong with it, because you keep a record of your work as it is.
It's not because it's playful or whatever, it's enough to actually do things, and it's useless to think too much about other things.
Today is sunny and suitable for a spring outing.
The turquoise grass shows the breath of spring, and the flowers are full of flowers all the way, and spring always gives people a beautiful and warm feeling.
"When I came out, the air seemed to be different." Miss Qin sighed sincerely, "The scenery is really beautiful." ”
The flowers and plants in the garden don't seem to be as beautiful and dazzling as the ones outside, maybe it's because they've been watching for a long time.
"I come out a lot on weekdays, but I think it's okay."
"If you like the outside, then I'll take you out to play in the future."
Miss Qin instantly laughed, "Okay, good! What a great idea! ”
"So that I can browse the scenery of this world with you, accompany you through spring, summer, autumn and winter, and accompany you through every unique day of your life."
Finding that controlling your thoughts really makes you a lot happier.
You don't create arguments, you don't create trouble, you just quietly enjoy your own world.
Everyone has their own world.
And I didn't choose you just because you're out of my world.
The best way to control your thoughts from thinking about the bad things and to take the initiative to divert your attention is the best way.
Empty your mind, stop thinking, stop imagining, or immerse yourself in something that allows you to be completely relaxed.
For example, games, or basketball, let yourself concentrate more, let yourself mobilize your enthusiasm, and deal with a lot of troubles and difficulties.
You are fully prepared for the storm.
You don't allow yourself to get hurt easily, so whether it's on a mental level or a physical level, you're increasing, the unchanging eternity is just yourself, and if you can do your own eternity, then you will be eternal.
As long as people believe in themselves unconditionally, things will go well, and people's troubles are self-inflicted to a certain extent.
It's all about yourself, and you don't want to be trapped in your own world and not be able to move forward.
If you want to make continuous progress, you must have a lot of energy and focus.
Concentration needs to be trained, and if you give up, it will soon be gone.
Darts basketball is the best training tool, especially basketball will bring a sense of flow, fully mobilize all the skills of the body, the main ground is a cooperation, high energy consumption but will bring a very high experience.
It doesn't have to be long, it's just twenty minutes.
Don't think of exercise as too difficult.
You want a light in your life, but that light never comes.
And you yourself will be your only light, and only you can save yourself.
It's not about being cruel to yourself, because you know what kind of setbacks you can bear and what kind of costs you can't bear, so do your best to live.
If you have a clear conscience, you are in a state of no regrets.
In the beginning, you have no control over it all, and it's normal for you to fail.
When your body and mind are aligned, you are at your strongest and best, and no one can take away your freedom of will.
He likes you, what does it have to do with you?
You choose to help only because someone else has helped you.
This courtesy will make you feel especially good.
When you slowly realize what a person really is, you will only like her more and more.
Why?
Because the person with the highest energy in the crowd is the one who can give people the feeling of being calm.
What you pursue is just a mood of happiness, don't dwell on how much you have lost?
If you can save yourself some energy and energy by doing this, then do it without hesitation, it may be nothing for others, but it is the most important thing for you, and you have to deal with it in a way that suits you.
Don't do it the right way, that will consume you.
There are many ways to explain a thing, and there is no absolutely right answer.
You could have answered this question correctly, but why didn't you get it right, because it wasn't important enough.
Focus only on what matters most.
So why do I have to get this question right?
Why can't you make mistakes?
Make the right choices at critical junctures in your life.
Sometimes when you think you're bad, you find that a light suddenly appears in your life.
This is not a hypothesis.
There are people who are really like a clear light.
You'd rather lose everything than choose to lie.
If you can't do it, you can't do it, and if you don't belong to me, you don't belong.
Is it really that hard to accept the facts, to accept failure?
Repeated defeats, repeated defeats and repeated defeats are a kind of wildfire inexhaustible vitality, as long as it is human, it will be shocked by it.
If I hadn't struck the world hard, I wouldn't dare say I was really alive.
There is only one life, and it is a pity to end up in the end.
You can resurrect an infinite number of times in the game, but you can only live once in real life.
How can people bear to overshadow their lives and bring only a little bit of brightness to the world, people should be satisfied, because life is supposed to be like this.
The more you have, the more you lose.
The more you have, the heavier it becomes.
When you feel that all the things you have are not important, you will be liberated.
Do you dare to lose everything?
Have you ever felt like you're starting all over again?
No one knows you, only you know who you are, where you come from, no one cares who you are, what you like, what you like to eat, what you think, only you will pay 100% attention, all of them will only care about what they need.
You can see their needs, and you will be the person they need.
And sometimes necessity equates to importance.
Not everyone can analyze their feelings that clearly.
But once everything is deconstructed, it loses its original meaning.
A bunch of atoms and molecules are essentially the same as a person, and they can give people very different feelings.
Man is the greatest miracle of nature, possessing a mind and being able to contemplate his own existence.
But that's all, the purpose of living is very simple and pure, and you can liberate yourself very early.
Now you have only temporarily lost your freedom, and what you want to do will go to a satisfying place in your daily practice.
I didn't think I could keep going, but now I've learned that the easiest way to reach the end is to really don't use any force.
You learn to play, play to learn, in fact, there is a big difference between you and forcing yourself to learn painfully.
In the former, you only need to ask yourself what you have gained from this article or this thing today, you don't care about the meaning of what you have done, you only need to ask yourself a question, what have you gained from this matter, and what you have done to satisfy yourself.
It is enough to have a meaning that best matches your liking.
Time is spent no matter what, and you are always in the middle of it, so every minute of your life is completely owned by you, whether you are doing what you love or what you think you don't like.
Fighting against yourself and questioning yourself is undoubtedly the most painful thing in the world.
People are often distracted, not because of how much work has been done in the outside world, but simply because the battle of the mind consumes most of the energy to the point of losing interest in everything.
In fact, people don't care what other people are thinking, because what other people are thinking sometimes really doesn't matter to you!
It's you who do it, not someone else, and it's completely useless for you to waste so much time to get angry.
It's better to do the things you can't control, there will be many times like this in life.
When you're not strong enough, you get into this situation.
Forced to be powerless to do what you don't want to do without being free.
Being paid for and you selling your time is a fair deal, isn't it?
It's not fair, it's never going to be equal.
Everyone is moving upwards in order to be able to become the master, not to be dominated by others, to lose the right to speak and freedom.
That's why efforts aren't going to get out of the way.
You have to make something that others need, and this value will not be replaced by others, this is your unique selling point, and you must have gained what you want over time.
That's the meaning!
What others can't understand, and you are the first to comprehend and implement it solidly, you will get the greatest reward.
The world really favors those who are wise.
It's not discrimination, it's really survival of the fittest.
IQ and physical strength are inferior to others, and defeat is a doomed end.
If you don't realize it, it's painful.
You don't have time today, so you won't have the opportunity to use your brain, inspiration requires plenty of time and a good attitude.
If survival is in danger, people are actually too busy to take care of themselves, and it is impossible to feed spiritual food, but only grasp the only life-saving straw in their hands.
The more people have, the better the state is, and as the owner, it is natural for you to give to the outside world.
If a person has nothing and you ask her for something, how can she give it to you?
Unless she is the Virgin, she will sacrifice herself to fulfill others regardless of her own life or death.
But is that really the case with human nature?
Things that conform to human nature can be done, how can you do things that violate human nature?
How does the feeling of comfort arise, that is, you respect the will of others enough, you don't actually need to do anything, because people already have their own thinking, and you don't need to talk nonsense.
People should keep enough distance from each other, too close will only lead to the loss of both sides.
This is the way to get along, you don't ask about things that people don't take the initiative to mention, what people are willing to say is what you can mention, and you have to give the other party full opportunity to express, you will be liked by others as an active listener.
That's enough.
It's true that people are different from each other, and you can feel that everyone is different.
Everyone is good at different fields, you are unique, you don't need to learn from others, but you can integrate the excellence of others into yourself and make yourself better.
It is not good for you to look into other people's affairs.
Human nature is not like this, human nature is to satisfy oneself first and then to fulfill others, if you are tired to the point that you have no strength, then why feed others?
Human nature is selfishness is the principle of heaven, not kindness, and kindness is acquired.
Kindness is not born with it, and children don't understand that if you are unhappy, you will not be mischievous.
When it can't distinguish between right and wrong, it has already conformed to its nature and created chaos, and this is the best evidence.
Order is a product of civilization.
The world is chaotic.
People spend energy and time to organize them, such as history, such as ledgers, such as records, these are all to gradually integrate those things that are chaotic and unsystematic, so that people can better remember those things that are helpful to them.
Everyone is the wealth of this world, and everyone's thoughts will always burst out with different sparks, and no one's thoughts are completely consistent.
Respect for humanity is the most important principle in handling relationships.
Whether it's a big person or a small person, you always start from human nature, and you can't go wrong with that.
Because no matter how a person disguises himself, in the end he still can't get around human nature, because this is the most essential thing of human beings.
The more you know about yourself, the more you understand the world, the more you know what you don't want to do, the more you don't force others to do what you don't want to do, the more you know what you're afraid of, the more you'll understand what other people's concerns are, the more you know what you value, the more you understand what others really care about.