Chapter 217: Female Ghost King VS Soft Taoist (42)
Is it torture to oneself now, or is it complete surrender to oneself?
Painting and art, reading and fitness are my paradise, and nothing can replace these important roles in my life.
These friends will never leave me, and these real things are more real than empty feelings and people.
They would accompany me through the lonely and dark hours of each night, and they would know how much effort and time I put into it.
My work is the best representation of my thoughts, the truest portrayal of my soul.
What people do all their lives is self-presentation.
There is no sad and desolate word.
All that is, she became herself, withstanding all the pressure from the outside world.
I can be humble, I can take the initiative, but I can't be humble all the time, take the initiative all the time.
The situation will change because of your mentality.
You always have to realize that this person is different from everyone you know, she is a real and concrete person, she has things she likes and things she likes, it just has nothing to do with you.
She will also meet the right person, and that person will sooner or later appear in her life and become her unique.
Those who missed won't meet again, can you believe it?
My answer is, I believe.
There's no need to start all over again.
The new will be better than the old, and as long as you don't tell, no one will know about your past.
You also learn to be selective about what you say and don't say, and let the outside world make up your thoughts.
Fake is just fake, and no matter how you disguise it, it's fake.
Who knows the fluctuations of emotions best, I don't want to know your thoughts anymore.
What I like is the time between two people alone, what I like is the dialogue between two people alone, and the distance between hearts will be close.
But you don't like it, and therefore I don't like you either.
It doesn't depend on love or not love, just want to say a word, that's not liking.
It's just a companionship, just a loneliness from the depths of the heart.
Indulge in sensuality, sooner or later, it will happen.
Do you feel regrets and regrets?
Without.
When you are willing to put people back into the crowd, you have declared your complete renunciation.
Don't want to have, don't want to offer your emotions, and don't want to reveal your own life.
I'm just tired.
I don't know what he's thinking, but I know what I'm thinking, and if something makes me feel very tired, I will choose to give up. There is nothing in this world that cannot be given up.
Therefore, there can be no pain without attachment.
If you do a good job of yourself, you won't have too much mind to pay attention to the outside world.
This is the kind of self that will make you love yourself more and more, please pay more attention to yourself, so that you will not feel bored and sad, the mind is sensitive because you pay too much attention to others, and care about other people's opinions more than your own opinion of yourself, of course you will feel sad.
Of course, people who only care about their own thoughts will be happy, but what do you want to do so much?
Every day is the mood of the moment, when you are unhappy, you can say, and when you are happy, you will be in a very good mood.
What's there to be sad about?
It can be painful if you think too much, and many times you should stop your thoughts when you think too much.
The ability to control one's thoughts determines one's ability to be happy, because happiness comes from the present moment, from simple and natural small things or small details, and real and specific things will give people a real and down-to-earth feeling.
If I hadn't chosen to hold your hand, then I'd have found someone else to play!
Isn't that obvious?
Why?
If you don't want to give you enthusiasm, then give it to someone who is willing to give me enthusiasm and time~
You are no longer afraid of being ignored, and I will ignore you if you ignore me.
Of course, it's not that I don't have feelings for you, but I really feel that you lost the feeling you had at that time!
Do you really think that someone you like will resist sending a message?
That must be your delusion, and since you are willing to tell me, then I will dispel my own thoughts.
I'll take ten steps, and you won't take a single step, that's fine.
I'll just leave.
Don't touch you, don't take the initiative to cause trouble, don't take the initiative to hook up.
Since that's what you want, that's fine!
I just chose to give up, but it was pretty fine to just take back my thoughts.
Pretty is just a very empty word for you, you don't think it's important to be beautiful, and you won't envy the beauty of others.
Being beautiful is just an attitude to life for you.
Dressing yourself up positively is to add positive energy to yourself, which will give people a good emotional experience.
As long as it's done to make yourself better, it's worth doing.
Emotions flow as freely as water, and this is the best way to love yourself, the best way to love yourself.
What if it's not pretty?
There are too many people in this world who live in the eyes and words of others, forgetting who they are and what is most important to them.
I suddenly feel that this world is really like a large playground, as long as you have money, you are a RMB player, everything will be the best, resources and money will also go towards you, this is the law of nature, when you become the value itself, you will take the initiative to attract resources.
The premise is one, you do yourself well and polish the things at hand.
You don't need to explain to someone something they don't understand, because no matter how you explain it, they won't understand.
Your world is an objective reality, and whether others are willing to accept it is his business, not your business.
If you can't finish it, tell the other person honestly.
What can't be done is also discussed with the other party.
There's no need to embarrass yourself every day.
The important thing is to exercise your brain, let your brain think more about why, and think more about how to do something beautifully.
It's all about creating something worthwhile.
Start setting goals for yourself early in the morning and make yourself move in the direction of your goals, so that you will have a greater sense of direction.
You don't have to worry that everything will go smoothly.
As long as you do it well.
Keep doing the right thing, and things will go in the right direction.
Don't be afraid of anything, don't be defeated by a momentary failure, the affirmations that people encounter on the way forward are mostly negative.
There are only a few people who really support you, and even fewer people who can read you, and it is the norm for others not to understand.
But will you give up your choice because others don't understand?
It's really your own decision to recognize, it's not terrible to lose something, the most fearful thing is that you can really promote some of the things you want to develop in the past three years.
The phenomenon is in front of you, and you don't care about the many complicated and responsible phenomena in this world, but you have to understand the reasons behind the phenomena.
Do what you have to do well, that's the most important thing, and the rest is nothing, even if the outside world thinks highly of it?
It's not the most important thing in your world, and you don't have to spend time on it.
Leave everything done during the day.
Don't be in a hurry.
Time will give you the results.
You'll prove for yourself that a lot of things need to be done well, or else there will be very strange results.
Don't believe this.
Pursuing the precision of your experiments is your most important job.
You should always keep this in mind.
No matter what others do, you have to make sure that you are doing the right thing and there is no problem.
You have to know that there are many things that no matter what others think, but what you think!
You memorize it in the process.
When life is the most important, sometimes you miss out on a lot of opportunities because you don't know enough.
This is something I don't understand in place.
It's not anyone else's fault.
If there had been someone to show the way, it wouldn't have gone dark.
But everyone is living their own unique life, there is no opportunity to rehearse, it is all over again.
You say that regret is regret, but satisfaction is also satisfaction.
Isn't it?
People are always free, as long as they don't live in the eyes of others.
You are a free individual.
It's okay!
If you live in the eyes of others all day long, you will naturally be unhappy, but now you just need to sort out the things that need to be managed, and you can get better and better.
Chores are a waste of energy, so they need to be arranged, otherwise the days will go by, and as a result, the experiment will not make any progress.
What you're doing now is that you need to keep giving feedback to your teachers, and then you can make progress and take the next step in breakthrough work.
This is also something that you need to think about yourself.
Never mind.
You don't need to be in a hurry, you can write it in a notebook, cross it out one by one, and slowly advance the experiment to ensure that the experiment goes smoothly, and don't disrupt your pace because you are too anxious.
Experiments are not allowed to fail at a later stage.
And failure is a waste of time and effort.
You know that.
So you'll try not to make mistakes, and it's important to work hard to push forward with experiments.
Just give yourself the extra time!
It's mental concentration.
Do you understand?
Superfluous trivial things do not consume less thinking, or even do not think.
Write everything down in a notebook and revise them one by one later.
So you don't have to memorize it.
It's important to distinguish between brain memory and pen memory.
Save a little brain resources and don't have to be running at high speed all the time.
This is not good for yourself.
The brain's thoughts are like wild weeds that grow into a patch if left unchecked.
It's better to tell a story to be a distraction.
"I don't have much time to go out, and a woman can't show her face until she gets married." Miss Qin said regretfully, "This is just a control of women. ”
Liang Yi looked at Miss Qin in surprise, "Why do you say that?" ”
This word Cloud Palace Lord is really very different from the legend.
Every time it will surprise him, such a special woman will be liked by anyone!
He didn't know about the changes in his own mood in the past few days, he began to pay attention to her, and if he didn't see her for a few hours, his mind would be full of her.
He told himself over and over again that he was just used to being there, that the need for this time was just an illusion from being too close, but there were some things he couldn't fool himself.
For example, crazy longing.
The uncontrollable joy of seeing her rose from her heart.
It's a sweet fantasy beautifully.
Unreal and captivating, it's hard to get intoxicated from it.
He is willing to be your drowning person, drowning in her gentle and warm smile.
"It's just my feeling that no matter what a woman does, she will be pointed at and criticized, but men don't have to worry about it, it's quite incomprehensible."
Liang Yi nodded, "It's probably because men underestimate women's wisdom. ”
"A woman doesn't necessarily have to be at home with her husband and children, and maybe she can also stand in the court. It's just..."Liang Yi sighed, "After all, this is still a man's world!" ”
Miss Qin nodded, "I understand." ”
I just feel that a woman's talent should not be ignored in this way.
"Let's go, I'll take you to some snacks." Liang Yi felt the woman's depressed mood and pointed to a nearby alley and said.
Liang Yi wanted to simply take Miss Qin shopping, but a note was stuffed into his hand by someone who suddenly bumped into him.
His heart chuckled, and he looked sideways at the woman beside him, her gaze staring at the beautiful and delicate little jewelry on the street stall.
He quickly opened it to take a look, and his heart suddenly became heavy.
It's not enough.
She didn't rely on him enough, she didn't trust him enough.
It was impossible to wholeheartedly convince Qin Yue that he was reliable.
He put away the note, his eyes were complicated, and he looked at the woman's carefree and smiling side face, and he was scared in his heart.
But in his selfish heart, he hoped that he could occupy all the women in front of him.
Get her full attention, she's so nice and kind.
Since he can't stop things from developing, there is always a way to protect her.
But the young man was full of ambition, and in the end he was defeated.
I lost my love and regretted not being at the beginning, but it was already too late.
But when there is something in his heart that surpasses the woman, it has already indicated the end of the matter.
Bound to be a failure!
There is no other way.
There is no doubt that when the mind is shifted, the behavior will be corresponding.
Therefore, it is necessary to maintain mindfulness in order to facilitate the positive development of things, otherwise it is a failure!
There are many things that people must understand that they can't be too opinionated and keep an open mind in order to really move forward with the experiment.
Otherwise, there will be no real progress.
Liang Yi looked at the woman's side face and hesitated in his heart, but in the end, it was the desire for power that prevailed over the liking for women.
He will make her like him more and care more about him, he is the only person in the world who is the most important person to her.
Only then will he have a chance to control all her thoughts.
Now she is too rational to play cards according to the routine, and he can't figure out what she is thinking.
Maybe it's a good thing?
After thinking clearly, Liang Yi came to the woman's side, "If you like these earrings, buy them." ”
Miss Qin shook her head, "It's not particularly good-looking." ”
Liang Yi: "It's not particularly good-looking, so why did you watch it for so long?" ”
"It's because it's special."
"What's so special?"
"Maybe it's because it's different from the jewelry design next to it!"
"But that doesn't mean it's worth it."
Liang Yi suddenly lowered his eyes, he thought, maybe he was liked by her because he was different from others?
What value or someone else?