Chapter 43: Good Words, Evil Words
After the two tearful boys left, Ah Di came to Song Huan's side, and asked half-understandingly, "Sister, why did Sister Er Ya commit suicide?" The eldest brother once told me that those who are clean are self-purifying. ”
Song Huan took a stool, placed it in front of him, and patted the stool.
Brother sat down and waited for Sister A's answer.
Song Huan said, "Then have you ever heard that 'those who are pure are self-purifying, and people are terrible'?" ”
Ah Di thought about it and shook his head.
Song Huan said again, "Just like when you wash your brush on weekdays, a drop of ink in a bowl of water will be completely black, and your reputation is like this bowl of water, and a drop of ink is that slander."
has achieved nine points of reputation, but it will also be completely tarnished by one point of slander.
We always think that those who are pure are self-purifying, but we forget that human words are terrible. ”
Song Huan looked at Brother and said seriously, "Sister taught you today, you have to remember it in your heart!" ”
Ah Di nodded vigorously, "Okay, Ah Di promised Ah Sister that she will always remember it." ”
Song Huan looked at his brother's eyes and said seriously, "One of these is that good words are warm in three winters, and bad words are hurtful and cold in June."
In other words, a kind and beneficial word can make the listener feel warm even in the bitter cold of three winters. On the contrary, the vitriolic and vicious language can make people feel cold, even on a hot day in June.
This also tells us that to learn to use the language of love to make good connections, many times, a word of sympathy and understanding can give people a lot of comfort and courage.
If Sister Erya could have a good friend to comfort her and relieve her at that time, and her family would not put pressure on her and give her timely understanding and guidance, maybe her ending would be another direction. ”
Song Huan patted his brother on the head and asked, "Remember?" ”
Ah Di nodded, "Remember!" Then a childish voice sounded, repeating word for word.
Ah Di asked again, "But, Ah Sister, Ah Di still doesn't understand, the Qing is self-purifying, if she doesn't do this, the account can't be relied on on her head, Sister Er Ya can completely ignore other people's words, but she is still injured, is she using other people's mistakes to punish herself?" ”
Song Huan was stunned for a moment, then smiled, "Yes, Sister Erya can obviously ignore other people's remarks, why?"
This is what Sister Ah just said, 'people are terrible', of course, this is an external factor, mainly because of her, one is because of her character, and the other is that her ability to resist pressure is weak.
If, as Brother said, she can maintain her own heart, the pure person is self-purifying, and she can resist the pressure of people's words and public opinion, she will also be another ending.
There is no shortage of people in this world who love gossip and like rumors, and not everyone knows the truth that 'good words are warm in three winters, and bad words hurt people and are cold in June'.
So instead of changing others, it is better to change yourself, make yourself strong, not be pressured by public opinion, not affected by others, and move towards your own goals, when you look back, you will find that these are just passing clouds, the most insignificant in your life. ”
Seeing that Brother was thinking, Song Huan didn't urge him, until Brother continued to ask, Song Huan said the second point, "The second is that if you do something bad, you will not be able to hold the fire after all."
Fire can burn paper, so it's impossible to wrap it.
Fu Xueshu, the other protagonist of this incident, the fact that she did harm morality and indirectly harmed people's lives cannot be concealed, the sky has eyes, and one day she will be exposed to the sun. ”
Ah Di said that he remembered it, and then said excitedly, "Sister, Ah Di still knows one!" ”
Song Huan was surprised, "Ao? He said with encouragement.
Ah Di's eyes were shining, "If you have strength, others won't bully us!" ”
Song Huan smiled, "Yes, this is our means to protect ourselves."
We can not deceive others, but we must not let others have the opportunity to deceive us. ”
Brother nodded busily, he still remembers the scene of that day!
Sister is mighty and domineering!
Brother should also be like Sister A!
Fu Yuanzhi leaned against the door and listened to Song Huan's words quietly.
She's really ...... Golden sentences come out frequently.
Fu Yuanzhi's existence was already known to the tear-filled boy and Liang Dayong, and now he didn't have to hide in the room to avoid studying and studying, and returned to the hall.
That day, the two originally wanted to ask Fu Yuanzhi why he stayed in the Song family, but they were so squeezed by other explosive news one after another that they couldn't remember, and by the time they came back to their senses, it was already August in the blink of an eye.
Song Huan didn't go out of his way to understand the incident two months ago, but he only knew that in the end, Fu Xueshu and that man got married.
The kind without a dowry!
originally planned to let Ah Di learn to sow seedlings and farm in the first half of the year, but because of the previous episode, Song Huan didn't let him go, and this matter has been delayed until now.
Now that it's time to harvest the rice, Song Huan asked Ah Di to follow the tearful boy to the field, and he didn't have to do much, just help the handle occasionally, and don't help.
The main purpose is to see how everyone does it, and sometimes Brother will ask if he doesn't understand.
After coming and going, Ah Di also slowly entered the collective, and Liang Fukang, the younger brother of the tear-filled boy, was the first to become Ah Di's partner.
The two are of the same age, Liang Fukang is the youngest in the family, and now he has a younger brother who is younger than himself, so he can't be happy.
Consciously rose to the role of an older brother.
As a little brother, he often takes his brother to the rice field to catch the "fart bug", this bug is harmful to the crops, and there is no insecticide in this era, so the task of the two is to go to the field that has not yet been harvested to catch the fart bug.
When the fart bug is not disturbed, it has no peculiar smell, and once it is frightened and caught, the unpleasant smell comes out, so the people call it - fart bug.
In the process of playing, Ah Di did not forget Sister A's words and remembered the purpose of his visit.
Sometimes when he encounters a question that he doesn't understand, he will ask Liang Fukang, Liang Fukang will say if he knows, and if he doesn't know, he will bring his brother to his brothers to ask, of course, if he doesn't understand, he can only ask his uncle and aunt.
Ah Di studied in the morning and went to the fields in the afternoon, and Fu Yuanzhi's time in the afternoon was freed up, sometimes he would stay at home to read, take care of housework, and sometimes follow Song Huan into the mountains.
On the afternoon of the seventh day of the eighth month.
Fu Yuanzhi followed Song Huan into the mountain together, Song Huan has been here for a year, not to mention that she has walked through all of this forest, but she is a if in most places, and she is roughly clear about what it is.
It's August now, and the forest has not only chestnuts picked up last year, but also awls.
The taste of the awl is similar to that of chestnut, but the appearance is a little different, and most of them are droplet-shaped.
Not only that, but there are also sour dates and hairy peaches.
She also followed the tear-wrapped boy to learn wild vegetables, and got to know Yehuai Mountain, duck's foot vegetables, wild celery and Houttuynia cordata.
Houttuynia she knew, she had been exposed to this thing in her previous life, but like the other three, she had only heard of it and didn't really know it.
There are also wild chili vegetables, which are quite delicious to eat in soup.
Fu Yuanzhi and Song Huan carried the basket on their backs, the two went to the place, one picked chestnuts, picked wild vegetables, and the other went to see the trap, and when Song Huan came back, Fu Yuanzhi also made it almost the same, and the two of them went to other places, and unconsciously, time passed slowly.