Chapter 539 Naming Rights
Kentaro Miyamoto stood in front of the crib, his head bowed, his hands covering his face, and he was laughing and teasing his son. For this reason, he also played very energetically.
His childish behavior made Miki Miyamoto, who was standing next to him, laugh and say, "This time is your time to play games." Why don't you go and play the game? ”
Kentaro Miyamoto happily replied, "Playing games is not as fun as amusing children. I finally realized why people in the past would actively choose to get married, have children, and start a family.
Especially when a man has a family and has children, the whole person's mentality will change, which is very different from before. Even if you have been messing around in the past, with no goals and no motivation, you will become goal-oriented and motivated.
You should take the initiative to shoulder the responsibility and burden of supporting your family, and even give your family a better life. The reason why building a household has become a common goal for the majority of Japanese people is that it is really good to be able to bring a small yard and watch two or three of their children run around and play around.
Raising a dog or a cat is not only full of the beauty of life, but also fun. Therefore, it is not unreasonable that the construction of a single household marks the fulfillment of a Japanese person's life. ”
Miyakoto Miki smiled and said, "What you said is the beautiful yearning and longing of the older generation for family life. Today's young people don't think so. ”
Kentaro Miyamoto shook his head and expressed his disagreement: "In today's era, people just want to live, it's quite easy.
For young people, working part-time at a convenience store is sufficient. Everyone understands that people don't just live for the sake of living.
Even if it's not for any pursuit, it's always a little personal hobby. Spend all the little money on personal hobbies, so do you still have money to support your wife and children?
In the final analysis, it's because it earns less. In addition, the individual's job is still unstable, and he does not dare to hope to get married and have children.
The little childcare subsidies and benefits given by the government are a drop in the bucket when it comes to sounding good. The pressure of raising a child is not something you have to bear on your own. ”
Miyakoto Miki sighed with emotion: "The first thing is the education of children. Whether it is for parents or children, it is now a dilemma.
Studying or going to university may not be able to get a decent and good job. Not to mention anything that can change one's personal destiny through reading. If you don't study or go to university, I'm afraid it's a dead end.
On the surface, heavy physical labor does not require any skills or education, but only needs strength and hardship to earn a considerable income.
And in reality? How old can a person do this kind of work? Once you're older, you won't be able to do it every day like you did when you were younger.
In addition to this, heavy physical labor comes with dangers. Twist your waist and tilt your feet, that's not a problem at all. If you become disabled and lose your workforce, that compensation alone is not enough to last a lifetime. ”
Kentaro Miyamoto continued: "My last words remind me of Kafka's famous Metamorphosis. The protagonist, Gregor Samsa, works as a traveling salesman for a company and travels for many years, struggling to support the family's expenses.
When Samsa was able to support his humble family with a modest salary, he was the respected eldest son in the family, praised by his parents and adored by his sister.
When one day he turned into a beetle, lost his labor force, and had no material contribution to the family, his family reversed their previous respect for him, and gradually showed a face of indifference, disgust, and hatred.
His father viciously hit him with an apple, his mother fainted with fright, and his sister turned away from him. Gradually, Samsa distanced himself from society, and finally died alone and painfully in silence with hunger. ”
Miyakoto Miki said unhappily: "Can't you think of something good and say something good?" And said this one in front of our son. ”
Kentaro Miyamoto said calmly: "Literature has to start with a doll." The charm of literature lies in its ability to reveal and highlight the evil, hypocrisy, hypocrisy, and sanctimony of human nature......"
Miki Miyamoto didn't wait for him to finish, took the initiative to interrupt, and changed the topic: "Our son's name, have you thought of it?" ”
Kentaro Miyamoto smiled and said, "My name is Kentaro Miyamoto, so our son will be called Kotaro Miyamoto." ”
Miyakoto Miki stared at him with a straight face and said, "Have you thought about our son's name properly?" ”
Kentaro Miyamoto asked rhetorically, "Is there anything wrong with the name Kotaro Miyamoto?" ”
Miki Miyamoto said bluntly: "This is too casual. If you think it's too much trouble to choose a name for our son, then let me pick it up. ”
Kentaro Miyamoto did not object: "If you want to choose a name for our son, then you can choose it." ”
Miyakoto Miki was not satisfied with his answer, so he pointed his right index finger at the son in the crib and said, "This is your biological son, right?" ”
Kentaro Miyamoto blurted out: "I didn't say he wasn't!" ”
Miyakoto Miki said seriously: "Naming your son is your man's business, either your father takes it or your grandfather takes it." Otherwise, it's my grandfather. What do you mean by giving it to me to get it? ”
Kentaro Miyamoto immediately cried and laughed: "You obviously said it yourself, and you will choose the name of your son." I'll let you pick it up. Why do you blame me? ”
Miyakoto explains, "I was just talking about it casually. If you take it seriously, then it means that there is no such son as us in your heart. ”
Kentaro Miyamoto was almost speechless: "The good and bad things have been said by you alone." I named my son Kotaro Miyamoto, and you dislike it too casually.
You asked you to choose a name for your son, and you said I don't care about my son. If this is in Chinese mainland, some couples will quarrel over the name of their child. ”
Miyakoto reminded expressionlessly: "This is in Japan, not in Chinese mainland." You are Japanese, not Chinese, and I am also Japanese, not Chinese, figured it out. ”
Kentaro Miyamoto coped: "What my wife said is true. I don't understand why some Chinese mainland couples are fighting to name their children. Even the surname has to be argued.
Actually, in my personal opinion, it's easy to solve! Whoever buys the house will have the naming rights to the child in the future. In this way, the problem will be solved.
As far as I know, young people in Chinese mainland are really hard. Many of them are unable to get married, either because they cannot afford to buy a house or because they cannot afford to pay a bride price. ”
(End of chapter)