452 Lin He was angry
Lin He was really angry, everyone could see it.
Angry with his good friend Xiuling, she doesn't know how to take care of her body.
In the end, it was Li Changhui who put a little food in Lin He's bowl and took the lead in breaking the silent atmosphere on the table.
"Eat first, if you have anything to say, wait until you eat and talk slowly, you make it difficult for other brothers and sisters to eat."
Lin He came back to his senses, only to find that he was dizzy and didn't pay attention to the occasion.
couldn't help but sigh lightly, anyway, I said everything, and it just happened to let the men at the table know that it is not easy for a woman to give birth to a child.
"The wife of a large family gives birth to a child, and the adults and children are served by special people during the confinement, and the mother does not have to do anything, she just needs to rest and recuperate."
"How many ordinary people can do it? In addition to resting for the first two days of giving birth, do you still have to get up and do something at home after that? Xiuling, aren't you? ”
Lin He's tone slowed down, but Xiuling didn't dare to shake her head at this question.
They don't have a rich life, how can they really do nothing in the confinement, just rest for a month, not to mention anything else, clean up the house, cook some food, and take care of the children.
Lin He knew this for a long time, and he was not surprised at all.
"I just gave birth to a child, and my body was the weakest time, and the damage to my body when I gave birth to a child was not small, and I didn't recover.
"Look at the elderly people in the village, not to mention the distance, is the eldest aunt also uncomfortable in many places in recent years?"
Back pain, leg pain, headache or something, she had never heard her aunt mention it before, or that kind of pain in the cracks of the bones, you don't need to ask to know, almost all of them are symptoms in confinement.
Poor people are not qualified for confinement, and it is already very good to be able to rest for two or three days and eat two eggs.
But the poor don't have to have so many children.
Even if you want to give birth, you can wait a little longer.
Seven years, five, if this wasn't her friend, she would want to swear!
Li Changhui gave Lin He a bowl of chicken soup: "Okay, Changsheng and his younger siblings will know in the future, and they just come to the county seat now, you take a good look at her and let her rest for half a year, okay?" ”
It's almost coaxing.
It was also the first time he saw Lin He so angry, and it was also the first time he knew that a woman had a child, and there were so many sequelae.
Just like Lin He said, his mother, aunts, sisters, etc., whether they are pregnant or giving birth, there are a bunch of people waiting around them, just raise the fetus with peace of mind, and don't have to worry about anything.
Even if the child is born, there is a nurse to take care of it, and the father and mother only need to coax it in their spare time.
But he has also been in the countryside for so long, so he naturally knows that ordinary people do not have this condition, and it is normal to go to the ground three days after giving birth.
But that's really an overdraft of the body.
Thinking of this, Li Changhui couldn't help but glance at Xiuling.
His sister just left at noon today, she is also about the same age as Lin He, and she also gave birth to a child a few years ago.
But his sister, Jin Rong is still beautiful and moving, but she has a little more mature charm than when she was a girl.
However, Xiuling looks a generation older than Jinrong and Xiaohe, tired, sluggish, decadent, and a little old.
Take a look at your little daughter-in-law again, the three of them, at the same age, are about half a year apart at most.
But Lin He has never given birth to a child, and until now, she is still a bright girl with a bright posture.
If Lin He put down his hair and combed a girl's bun, absolutely no one would associate her with Mrs. Li.
It turns out that what Lin He said is true.
Even if it is a rich and noble family, there is really such a big difference between having a child and not having a child.
No wonder, when Lin He was with him as soon as she was with him, she told him seriously that she didn't plan to have children.
And up to now, many people around him have reminded the two of them openly and secretly, and they have not wavered Lin He's decision at all.
In such a short moment, countless related thoughts flashed through Li Changhui's mind.
And Lin He was also successfully appeased by Li Changhui at this time.
took the initiative to clip a piece of chicken leg to Xiuling.
"Brother Hui is right, I won't say that I want you to invite an old mother, come out during the day in the future, come to me, I'll help you watch some children, you can be more relaxed."
"I won't hide it from you, after Yu'er's exam next year, we will leave Nanzhi County, you and I haven't met these few times, and we have a good gathering for most of the year."
This was the first time Lin He mentioned leaving to others, and everyone was a little surprised for a while.
"Sister-in-law, are you leaving? Where are you going? ”
The excuse is that Lin He has already thought about it: "Yu'er's studies are not bad, if he stays in Nanzhi County, his future achievements will be limited, I want to take advantage of his young age to go to a better place to take a look." ”
Li Yu, who has been eating quietly, secretly listening to his mother's education and aunt, and then warning his younger brother to be quiet, is also surprised at this time.
"Because of me?"
He thought that his father and mother suddenly said that they were going to the capital, because they felt tired of staying in Nanzhi County, after all, it was the same when they were in Yonghe Town before, and after living for a few years, their mother didn't want to go back.
"Not exactly."
What Lin He said was not ambiguous at all.
"We have also been in Nanzhi County for several years, and we want to go to other places for a long time, and I heard that the cities outside are more prosperous, and we want to go and see them."
Li Yu suddenly breathed a sigh of relief, fortunately, he felt that the pressure on his shoulders was gone.
Li Yu is still young, and he doesn't know how to restrain himself, and his careful thinking is all on his face.
Lin He shook his head, this kid has too poor ability to bear pressure.
Then he ignored Li Yu and looked at Li Changsheng: "There are guys in the chores of the Malatang shop, Changsheng just needs to do a good job at the bottom of the pot and Malatang, and the rest of the things are taken care of by a special shopkeeper and Xiao Er." ”
"As long as the recipe for making Malatang is in your hands, this cooperative business can continue forever, and you can always make money."
He also told Xiuling: "There are many children, and everything else is fine, but there are also a lot of clothes to change every day, and there are people in the county who specialize in helping people wash clothes, and they don't need a few dollars a month." ”
"You hand over the laundry work, and the boss sends it to the Enlightenment School, then it will be a lot easier, your current physical condition, it doesn't look very good, you must take care of your body well, it's best to find a doctor to take a look."
is still young now, and it may only look fat, but if it continues like this for a long time, what if Li Changsheng no longer knows moderation, and the two of them still want to continue to have children?
Ordinary people in this era have almost no idea of contraception, if it weren't for the wrong occasion at this time, Lin He would have to pull Xiuling and tell her a few contraceptive methods without taking medicine!
Forget it, let's talk about it tomorrow.
Xiuling and Changsheng nodded again and again when they heard this, indicating that they must listen to their sister-in-law, and they will do whatever their sister-in-law says, and there is no estrangement between them for several years at all.
Seeing this, Lin He looked a little embarrassed.
"It's all because I'm too anxious, today was supposed to be your reception banquet, but I was disturbed by me, eat first, go wash up after eating, sleep well, and don't be tired tomorrow."
Finally, the atmosphere at the dinner table was re-enlivened.
Sure enough, my sister-in-law was angry, and even Brother Changhui had to avoid the limelight.
This is the idea of two younger siblings.