In the case of knowing that the goal cannot be directly achieved, it is not impossible to achieve the goal by considering it from a different perspective and adopting the method of "taking the detour as the straight". It's a great way to behave in the world. At the same time, frontal resistance is avoided. To a certain extent, it can also speed up the process of achieving the goal.

□ tried to lie that Chrissy was in danger

Who hasn't lied in a person's life? White lies sometimes lead to good results. In times of crisis, lies can also help people get out of trouble.

The lively birthday dinner doesn't end until 2 a.m. "It's late at night, you rush home alone, we don't worry. Otherwise, let's send you back. ”

Friends and his wife warmly hailed the car to take Agatha Chrissy home together.

"Thank you, you're tired too, so you don't have to send it. Besides, I'm a detective, am I still afraid of thieves? Agatha Chrissy laughed and stopped her friend's wife and hurried on her way. The British female writer has indeed written dozens of full-length detective novels, such as "Murder on the Orient Express" and "Murder on the Nile", creating the image of a detective hero as famous as the famous detective Sherlock Holmes. However, who would have expected that this night, she herself would really encounter a robbery.

She walked alone down the long, deserted street, when suddenly, from the shadow of a building, came a tall man, armed with a cold, sharp knife, and pounced on Agatha Chris. Agatha Chriss, knowing that there was no escape, simply stood still and waited for the man to rush up.

"You, what do you want?" Agatha Chris asked, looking terrified.

"Take your earrings off." The robbers are also very simple.

Hearing the robber's words for earrings, Agatha Chris's brow furrowed. She tried to cover her neck with the collar of her coat, and at the same time she took off her earrings with her other hand, threw them to the ground at once, and said, "Take them!" So, can I go now? ”

The robber saw that she didn't care about the earrings, but only tried to cover her neck with her collar. Apparently, she had a valuable necklace around her neck. Instead of bending down to pick up the earrings on the ground, he re-ordered: "Give me your necklace!" ”

"Oh, sir, it's just that it's worthless, leave it for me."

"Less nonsense, move faster!"

With trembling hands, Agatha Chrissy reluctantly removed her chain. The robber snatched the necklace and ran away. Agatha Chris breathed a deep sigh of relief and happily picked up the earrings that had just been thrown on the ground.

It turned out that Agatha Cris's protective necklace was fake, and the protective earrings were real, and her performance was just to draw the robber's attention away from the earrings. Her diamond earrings were worth £480, and the necklace stolen by the robbers was made of glass and was worth only £6 and 10 shillings.

Chrissy skillfully uses lies and successfully escapes the predicament, which can be described as "thrilling but not dangerous".

□ skillfully attack the heart and treat people in a good way

A person, if he has touched the hearts of others, has the possibility of accomplishing anything smoothly.

Mao's special identity makes some people always a little nervous when they contact him.

Mao ** saw people's psychological activities, and always used some good methods to make others eliminate tension. For example, he often uses the other party's name as an introduction to break the other party's psychological barrier and enliven the atmosphere all of a sudden.

It is said that when Cheng Siyuan first saw Mao **, he was also a little unnatural, and Mao Ze opened his mouth first: "Mr. Cheng is a very knowledgeable reader, and he must have a name." This question opened Cheng Siyuan's box, and he said: "**, yes, I will retreat." ”

"Retreat, retreat, it's better to advance, we are all entering." **'s words made Cheng Siyuan's sense of restraint disappear, and they talked happily with each other.

Mao ** suffered from severe cataracts in his later years, and ophthalmologist Tang Youzhi was arranged for surgery. Performing surgery on the leader, Dr. Tang felt a heavy burden and was a little nervous. Mao ** saw through Tang Youzhi's inner world, so he started by asking his name first. When Dr. Tang said his name, Mao ** smiled and said: "Mr. Tang, your name is good, it seems that your father must be a scholar, this is a famous sentence taken from Mr. Lu's poem, and he is very knowledgeable." ”

Then, Mao ** recited Mr. Lu Xun's poem: "How can there be pride like the old times, and the flowers bloom and fall for two reasons." When did he shed tears in the rain in the south of the Yangtze River, and cried for the athletes. ”

In Mao's kind and peaceful words, Dr. Tang's nervousness was swept away, and he calmly performed this cataract operation for Mao**.

When Mao first came into contact with people from all sides, he paid attention to trying to calm the other party's feelings. On April 21, 1949, the People's Liberation Army's million-strong division crossed the Yangtze River, and the Chiang dynasty collapsed. Liu Fei, Huang Xiong, and others, members of the Kuomintang government's delegation to the peace talks in Beiping at that time, were nervous and in a dilemma. Mao ** met with them after he found out. As soon as Liu Fei opened, he was a little nervous, and Mao ** spoke first: "You are from Hunan, right?" Liu replied:

"I'm from Liling, Hunan." Mao ** took advantage of the situation and said happily: "Ah! When the fellow sees the fellow, two tears are in his eyes! One sentence eliminated most of the tension between the deputies and Liu Fei.

Liu Fei is a Kuomintang general and has fought with the Communist Party, and he still has concerns in his heart, and some things are not easy to say directly. During the meal, Liu Fei took the opportunity to talk to Mao ** about playing mahjong, and Liu asked: "Do you know how to play mahjong?" Mao ** replied: "I know something, I know something." ”

Liu asked again: "Do you like to play all the same, or do you like to play peacefully?" ”

Mao ** was very shrewd, and immediately understood that Liu Fei was testing whether the Communist Party could accommodate him. Mao ** said: "Peaceful, peaceful, as long as it is peaceful." ”

Mao's use of cards to imply the party's policies dispelled the scruples of the delegates of the Kuomintang government and strengthened their determination to choose a new path. Later, Liu Fei also became a member of the National Committee of the Chinese People's Political Consultative Conference.

Mao** warms people's hearts in the small things of life with the method of attacking the heart, which is worth emulating.