As a person, if you can "make it with literature and use force", it will definitely be of great benefit to your life. If there is no ideological preparation for both grace and power, but if you use grace or power wantonly, you will surely destroy your future. If you use too much grace, it will create a gentle image and give people a feeling of not being heavy, so that you will be unconsciously put in a dispensable position by others, and thus lose your majesty; Excessive use of coercion will create a sense of intimidation and loss of affinity.

□ the king of Chu is desperate and cunning to fight to the death

If you can tolerate others, you will be treated sincerely and respected. After all, people are emotional animals, and if they "throw them into a peach", they will be "repaid with a favor".

After the king of Chuzhuang put down a rebellion, he feasted his ministers, and his favorite concubines also attended the meeting. During the banquet, the sound of silk and bamboo, light singing and dancing, fine wine and delicacies, staggered until dusk. The king of Chu ordered a candle night banquet, and specially asked the two favorite beauties, Xu Ji and Ji, to take turns to toast to the military generals.

Suddenly a gust of wind blew, and all the candles at the feast were extinguished. At this time, an official at the table dared to hold Xu Ji's hand, and during the pull, Xu Ji tore off the sleeve of his shirt to break free, and ripped off the tassel on the man's hat. Xu Ji returned to the king of Chu Zhuang to complain, and asked Chu to light the candles and check everyone's hats in order to find out who was rude just now.

After listening to Xu Ji's words, the king of Chuzhuang ordered not to light the candle first, but shouted: "The widow will hold a banquet today, and you must be happy and disperse." Please take off your hats and drink to your heart's content. ”

Hearing what King Chuzhuang said, everyone took off their hats, and then lit the candles, and the monarchs and ministers dispersed happily.

Xi San returned to the palace, and Xu Ji blamed King Chuzhuang for not giving her anger. King Chuzhuang said: "This banquet is aimed at carnival and harmonious relationship between monarchs and ministers. Drunken gaffes are a common human condition, and if they are held accountable and punished, wouldn't it be a big shame? ”

Only then did Xu Ji understand the intentions of King Chuzhuang. This is the famous "Absolute Silk" in history.

Seven years later, the king of Chuzhuang attacked Zheng. A general took the initiative to lead his subordinates to open the way first. This officer fought desperately everywhere he went, defeated the enemy army, and killed him in front of Zheng Guoguo's capital.

After the war, the king of Chuzhuang talked about meritorious deeds, and only then did he know that this general was called Tang Cunning. Tang Wei said that he would not be rewarded, and frankly admitted that the person who was rude at the banquet 7 years ago was himself, and today's move is all to repay the favor of not being held accountable 7 years ago.

The king of Chu sighed greatly, so he gave Xu Ji to him.

The king of Chu won respect through the method of absoluteness, and he was also rewarded as a matter of course.

□ observe the subtleties and Wu Shihong wisely passed the danger

Sometimes even just noticing a small link can change the fate of a person's life.

After the media hype in the fall of 1999, Wu Shihong has become a celebrity familiar to Chinese. In fact, before this hype, her experience and performance have been constantly seen, but it is not so intensive.

In the process of Wu Shihong's hard work, the interview with IBM for the first time was the most exciting.

Wu Shihong, who was still a young nurse at the time, learned Xu Zhang's English for a year and a half with a semiconductor, and then had the courage to apply for a job at IBM.

It was 1985, standing outside the glass turnstile of the Great Wall Hotel, Wu Shihong spent five minutes observing how others calmly walked through this magical door.

Two rounds of written examination and one oral examination, Wu Shihong successfully passed. The interview went smoothly as well. Finally, the examiner asked her, "Do you know how to type?" ”

"Yes!" Wu Shihong said reflexively.

"So how much can you fight in a minute?"

"What are your requirements?"

The examiner said a number, and Wu Shihong immediately promised that he could. She looked around and saw that there were no typewriters on site. Sure enough, the examiner said that he would take the typing test next time.

In fact, Wu Shihong has never touched a typewriter. After the interview, she ran out like a fly, borrowed 170 yuan from relatives and friends to buy a typewriter, and typed day and night for a week, her hands were so tired that she couldn't even hold chopsticks for dinner, but she miraculously reached the professional level that the examiner said. It took several months for her to pay off the job, but the company never tested her typing skills.

The legend of Wu Tuhong began from here.

Through careful observation, Wu Shihong found that there was no typewriter in the examination room, so he quickly responded: there was no need to take the on-site typing test, so he used a little trick to pass the test smoothly.

□ is aware of Nissa's intelligence

Phili, the commander of the artillery platoon of the French Resistance, was very fond of his newly married wife, Rayla, and wrote a thoughtful letter to her every day. But Philip cautioned him not to tell anyone about his whereabouts, for the enemy's spies were inaccessible.

Rayla has a girlfriend named Nissa. After Philip set off with the troops, Nissa came to accompany Rayla as soon as she could, and the two of them were like sisters, talking about everything. Rayla took Phili's words to heart, and never revealed Phili's whereabouts, even when she talked about her.

Nissa, a philatelic enthusiast, brings her stamps to Rayla's home for review. Rayla had never seen so many beautiful stamps of all kinds, and she couldn't praise them. Nissa is an empathetic person, and when she sees that Rayla likes it, she gives her some tickets. Gradually, Rayla began to enjoy stamp collecting. She retrieved the letters sent by Philip, carefully cut off the stamps on the envelopes, and placed them one by one in the philatelic book. After watching it, Nissa complimented Rayla.

Since then, Rayla has been looking forward to her husband's letters, which not only send warm and sweet greetings, but also add a stamp to her philatelic book. Suddenly, however, Phili's letter was interrupted, and for many days there was not a single letter coming, and to Rayla's dismay, Nissa no longer came to visit her and accompany her, and Rayla was not lonely.

Finally, one day, Philip wrote again. Rayla hurriedly tore open the envelope—it was an unfinished letter, and the paper was stained with blood. The letter reads:

“…… Hell, in the last half a month, wherever we moved, the Germans' shells seemed to be able to find us as if they had eyes. We lost a lot and I was seriously injured and now ......"

Rayla is knocked out by the blow that comes suddenly. I don't know how long later, she woke up from a fainting, and at a glance saw the letters, envelopes, and stamps on the envelopes that had fallen on the ground.

Rayla sat up suddenly, picked up the envelope, and exclaimed, "Oh God! ……”

The envelope stamp clearly bears the postmark of the post office where Philip sent the letter.

Everything is clear to Rayla.

Nissa cleverly obtains the position of the French artillery unit through the observation of the postmark, and transmits this information, thus inflicting heavy damage on the French artillery unit.