The end of the matter
First of all, thank you to all of you who helped to relieve me, and now that the matter is over in the consultations.
Let's talk about the results of the negotiation first:
He apologized to me solemnly, stating that he would no longer try to pestering and finding the group friends who had scolded each other and opened the box with him before.
And promised to go to the League.
I'll open a single chapter to explain,
He didn't really have the intention of committing a wrongful act, but I misjudged it.
I apologize to him.
In the meantime, don't try to quarrel with him and threaten him anymore.
And then a little bit of explanation,
First of all, what both sides of the incident said (including hints) were limited to verbal hi, and did not really want to do anything further to hurt each other.
It's just a hint of hi, but for my own reasons, in a private chat with him, I misjudged that the other party was really going to do something wrong.
Here I also need to apologize, misinterpreting the meaning of the other party, misinterpreting the meaning of "technical means" and the cruel words he put out.
(Afterwards, he explained to me the technical means of finding group messages for the trumpet, and then continued to find the person who was previously on the line to match the line.)
Please stop spreading outrageous remarks about the other side, and at the same time put an end to your own bad thoughts. )
In order to prevent the other party from finding my group and using my group as a medium to cause harm to others, (including backtracking message records, finding accounts, and things I misunderstood), I made a decision to disband the group within a short period of time.
There is one more reason why I urgently disbanded the group, and I am worried that the lurking trumpet is already going on like this.
Because after I asked the other side what I would do further, the other side did not answer me directly, and remained silent after releasing cruel words.
Here I apologize, from the beginning to the end, no one wanted to do really bad things, but because of my miscalculation, it brought bad public opinion to both sides of the incident.
It is also forbidden for both sides to attack each other again.
It's hard for me to rate anything on the other side, and while it's really hard to rate, I need to make a promise with the coordinating credibility of an intermediate author and his assurances—
That is, the other party really does not want malicious development.
Guys, don't speculate and try to attack.
Although he did hope to find the group of friends who scolded him at that time to complete the subsequent scolding battle.
But after negotiation he gave up.
Then comes the review:
After the death of the second out, different rumors and real sneak spoilers circulated in various groups.
After our group forwarded one of the widely circulated rumors, he who was originally managed by our group kicked out of the group in the evening (half past ten) and explained that the rumor spreaders were kicked out of the group.
I was coding at the time, and he didn't inform me when he did it.
Since I usually have few Aite members, especially in the evening, the group exploded, and of course a scolding war began.
In the process of scolding each other, due to inappropriate words, he aoe most of the members of our group, which aroused greater repercussions, and the scolding war further escalated, including verbal threats.
When I looked at the group, the scolding war was almost over, and he suddenly quit the group as a manager, and then I started to manage the group with several other group managers.
Then after turning the page, he opened a trumpet that night and entered the group again to provoke and scold people, and had a private chat, during which someone in our group also had a private chat with him.
I kicked his trumpet, and the group turned the page again.
But the next evening, he chatted with me privately again, and made me public in the writers' group, asking me to deal with yesterday's affairs.
He showed the private chat record and thought that I should kick out the person who took the initiative to chat with him at that time.
I'm also preparing to do this to calm things down, because private chats are indeed forbidden in the group.
But he then said that the incident would not pass and that he would come back.
For my own personal reasons, my thinking here has begun to become irrational.
After some of his remarks, I felt the feeling of being stabbed in the back.
So I misinterpreted some of the words and finally decided to break up the group in order to protect both sides.
I'm not an unreasonable person, on the first day, my group and the people he scolded tried to find his book and QQ group, and I directly banned all of them to prevent the topic from continuing.
It was supposed to be a trivial matter, but the misunderstanding between the private chat and me made me choose to disband.
I also apologize to my group friends and book friends for this.
I'm sorry.
Finally, thanks, for the people who comforted me, gave me ideas, and consulted with each other.
And then some of my own words,
I can scold a lot about this, and my swear words can be scolded sentence by sentence in a single chapter, but I finally held back.
Fucking sick, right????
I'm also irrational, I typed a thousand words of emo literature yesterday morning, including my feelings and gratitude to you, as well as denouncing my own weakness.
(Thrown into the previous setting, the title is "A Little Talk")
I also have my own considerations, and after I disbanded the group, I had already made a decision if he used methods I didn't want to see, or further entanglement,
Then I'll open a single chapter to explode with him, and take the initiative to explode his group and book.
I've been deleting messages looking up his books, also to finally avoid the lose-lose step.
Please don't try to find out, but a co-writer friend of ours has sprayed me with a lot of apologies.
But this incident also sounded the alarm bell for me, the book friends group will be rebuilt after the end of this volume, and I will strengthen the group management.
The leave note and this chapter will be deleted after today's update, and the book friend group will only leave a summary of the operation officer.
I also have a lot of inappropriateness in this matter, and I am very sorry for the trouble.
I have all the screenshots of the private chat, and in order to protect both parties, I won't let it go, but if you question me, I can show you the screenshots.
And I would like to say that he has realized his mistake and sincerely apologized to me.