Yu Xin: ......?

Yu Xin was frozen by this sentence and couldn't move anymore.

Although Yu Chengming was taken aback by this sudden question, thinking of Lu Zhi's identity, he probably needed him to cooperate, plus the understanding of her just now, he inexplicably trusted her ability.

Lu Zhi is just a little girl in her early twenties, and it is normal to forget politeness sometimes, but her educational ability is beyond doubt.

In line with his trust in her, and because he was confused for a long time, he opened an opening and then continued.

"When my son was born, my wife and I were just starting out in our careers, and I was just a small employee of our company, and my life was not as rich as it is now. At that time......"

Yu Chengming's thoughts drifted far away, his tone was gentle, and the communication ability of the superior was vividly reflected at this time.

Yu Xin had never heard about them in his father's ears, and he followed his father's voice back in the past, as if he saw him and his young parents when he was a child.

Yu Chengming was telling, Lu Zhi in the study listened quietly, nodding his head from time to time in response, Yu Xin outside the study listened silently, and the more he got back, the more sour his heart became.

It turned out that it was not easy for his parents before, but what did he know at that time?

"Mr. Lu, I am doing publishing work, and I understand that the current society is different from ours, and the children's ideas are different from ours at that time."

"I work hard and hope that my children and parents can have a good life, and I think my children will suffer less in the future and work harder now, but it always seems to backfire." Yu Chengming's mood was a little depressed, "After so many quarrels, my wife and I are also reflecting on whether our way is wrong and pushing him too hard, let him go, it's a big deal that we work harder to make money to support him." ”

"So we became busier and busier, but the conflict with our children became deeper and deeper." He rubbed his face with both hands, as if he wanted to make himself look more energetic, "Teacher Lu, are we—really wrong?" ”

Yu Xin's nose outside the door was sour, and he heard his father say his true thoughts for the first time.

Although his parents love him, he actually feels very empty, only glamorous on the surface, but there is a big gap in spirit.

They don't understand each other, they are only tied together because of blood.

Yu Xin thought almost ruthlessly, no one in this world understood them, only some of his friends felt the same way as him, what did those adults understand?

"It's not the time when you didn't have enough to eat when you were a child, everyone can have food and clothing, and the pursuit of nature is different."

Lu Zhi did not answer whether Yu Chengming was wrong: "The spiritual needs have increased, not only your generation and your mother's generation, but the spiritual needs of children are greater." ”

"They may not think about whether they will have food tomorrow, but they may think about whether their parents will be disappointed if they don't do well on the exam."

As soon as the words fell, Yu Chengming looked shocked and opened his mouth to refute.

She smiled: "I know what you want to say, do you think that your child is having fun outside and being naughty at school, how can you think about whether you will be disappointed?" In psychology, there is a situation where they want to attract the attention of their parents or teachers, whether it is good grades or poor grades, after all, only these two types of people can more easily get the attention of others, and people with no characteristics are not easy to remember, which is the same in your company. ”

This time it was Yu Chengming's turn to be silent, and Yu Xin's eyes outside the door were already red at this time, and he was broken by a word, and no one knew his thoughts so clearly.

And Lu Zhi also found out his deeper reason, yes, he just, he just wanted to be noticed.

He just wanted others to remember him a little more.

Is his way wrong?

Mom and Dad's way has hurt him, so is he hurting them too?

"Your child is much better than you think, you can try to trust him, listen to him, and exchange ideas with each other. As a parent, you need to give more time and affection than your child, not just money. ”

Lu Zhi said slowly: "We educators are the same, we should teach them how to cultivate an independent personality, let them learn to distinguish right from wrong and judge independently, instead of directly drawing conclusions and telling them to study hard." They won't understand. The children's ideas are so simple, they just think that their parents think I should do it, so I will go. ”

She looked at Yu Chengming, who didn't say a word, and didn't say more, picked up the document in her hand and signed her name.

In fact, if it is an ordinary parent, she may not say these words that make them trust their children, many parents actually don't understand, their thoughts are the same as their children, they can't understand, and they don't want to understand.

In this regard, those so-called adult adults are no different from children, but children who are eager to learn are more able to listen, and they are the ones who change and guide.

Yu Chengming seems to be the one who can be guided, so she chooses to try to start like this, it seems that the other party can still listen to a sentence or two, but what to do in the future is not within her consideration.

She believes in doing her best and knowing her destiny.

Lu Zhi handed the signed note to the other party, and after seeing Yu Chengming silent for a while, he suddenly raised his head and asked her: "Then Mr. Lu, what kind of father do you think I will be in the eyes of my son?" ”

Yu Xin's throat was a little choked, and he pursed his lips and didn't know what he was thinking.

Hearing the question inside, he silently thought in his mind.

His eyes looked through the crack in the door and saw that solid back, what kind of father?

"Mr. Yu, instead of asking me, you should ask your child yourself."

Yu Chengming's mind was blank for a moment, and he saw Lu Zhi smiling and looking behind him, his heart was beating like a drum, and he turned around stiffly, and he was caught off guard and staggered his eyes with Yu Xin outside the crack in the door.

Yu Xin outside didn't know if it had been occupied for a long time, so he accidentally leaned towards the door, and when he held on to the door again, the door suddenly opened.

The figure of his father was completely exposed to his sight.

On the other hand, his embarrassment was also seen by his father.

"Asin ......"