Chapter 641: He Doesn't Love Me
She raised her hand and gently hooked Lin Han'er's arm, staring at Lin Han'er with a pair of affectionate water, "I'm sorry, I've ignored your feelings for so long, I should have made it clear to you in advance." ”
She thought that if she didn't mention this matter, both parties could act as if nothing happened, but she didn't expect that it was because of her evasion, which made her feel even more uncomfortable.
"It's okay, Sister Wen, I don't blame you, I'm just curious." She was curious about how Ruan Weiqin loved Wen Shu in the past, but whenever she wanted to ask, she felt a little hypocritical.
Maybe I was a little scared, afraid to hear a completely strange Ruan Weiqin from Wen Shu's mouth, and how he used to love others.
Wen Shu thought about it and briefly explained the relationship between the two, but she felt that some things still had to be made clear.
"I think he may not love me at all, he loves me who likes Qin Mingyue, the one who gives me wholeheartedly, if he really has much affection for me, I don't think it's possible."
In fact, Wen Shu had also considered how much Ruan Weiqin liked her, and she thought about it later, and felt that he might not have much affection for her.
Because although he has always been liked, he has never had a firm relationship, so when he saw that she loved Qin Mingyue without scruples and without restraint, he had a strong feeling in his heart, feeling that the lover he wanted was like her.
But in fact, the person he really loves is only known to him.
"But if he really loves me, then he and Qin Mingyue can't be friends."
When Wen Shu said this, she kept staring at Lin Han'er's eyes, "I'm very grateful to him for helping me when Qin Mingyue didn't believe me, and I don't want to deny his feelings, I just think that what he loves is not the original me, but the me he imagined." ”
She used to be very familiar with Ruan Weiqin, he was Qin Mingyue's friend, and she was Qin Mingyue's wife, and the two of them didn't have much chance to get to know each other.
So Ruan Weiqin really wants to say that he loves her more, Wen Shu thinks it's unlikely, he loves her as he imagined.
Human imagination is a beautiful thing, and it can always beautify the person in one's memory.
But when you really face it, you will find that that person only becomes beautiful because of what he imagined, but it is not that important at all.
When Lin Han'er heard this, she just smiled, and didn't answer her words, but asked rhetorically, "Then he must have been very good to Sister Wen at the beginning, careful and caring, gentle and gentle, in short, it is different from now." ”
"But don't you think that if you really love someone, you won't disguise yourself? When he is really very relaxed in front of a person, that is love, and the self that he disguises in front of others is not his true self. ”
"If you really love someone, you should want him to fall in love with you for what you are, not the person you pretend to be, which is why I think Ruan Weiqin may just regard me as an object of admiration, not because he loves me."
After listening to Wen Shu's words, Lin Han'er frowned, and she didn't understand it very well.
"To put it simply, whoever a person loves the most, he will be the most relaxed in front of whom, although he argues with you every time, but he is the most relaxed in front of you."
After Lin Han'er heard this, she pursed her lips, "Is there one?" Why didn't I feel it? ”
"Because he is not a careful and gentle person himself, but only disguises himself as such a person in front of others."
After listening to Wen Shu's words, Lin Han'er couldn't help but laugh out loud, "It's true that when you think about it this way, it's harder than anything else to ask him to be careful and gentle, and only I will do his part." ”
Seeing that she was finally no longer depressed, Wen Shu knew that her words had an effect, and she breathed a sigh of relief, "So what happened to you and Ruan Weiqin?" Are you still going to be with him? ”
The two quarreled and quarreled, but she hoped that they would not have any barriers, and she hoped that she could reacquaint herself with her feelings, and it would be a pity if the two missed it.
"Actually, I don't know myself, I think I love him, but I'm very hypocritical, I hate all the women around him who want to get close to him, but every time I tell him, he doesn't look like he cares, I don't know if he really doesn't care, or pretends not to care, or he just doesn't want to care about my thoughts?"
How can anyone like someone and not take the initiative to keep their distance from other women?
Isn't he afraid that she will be jealous and angry?
After Wen Shu listened to her words, she thought about it and said, "Have you ever thought about it, in fact, he doesn't care, it's just that he has long been used to this kind of life, he has been like this since he was a child, and he is pursued and liked by many girls, so he doesn't know how to keep a distance from women, which requires you to teach him yourself." ”
When Lin Han'er heard this, she thought silently for a while, and found that what Wen Shu said made sense, but she still didn't want to accept it.
"The predecessors planted trees and the later people enjoyed the shade, I'm afraid that I have taught him now, and it is for other girls."
Wen Shu saw from their relationship how unconfident Lin Han'er was, and the girl who has always been smug outside actually has a girlish heart.
The relationship between the two still needs to be run-in in the end, which is really realistic.
"Actually, it's quite normal, haven't we been running in with Qin Mingyue for a long time? You see that we stumbled all the way, and in the end the people who should be together still have to be together, so you do your best to obey the destiny of God, if I don't even help you, it can only be said that your fate has arrived. ”
She didn't want to force Lin Han'er to think about those messy things, as long as she worked hard and didn't leave any regrets, at least she wouldn't regret that she hadn't worked hard enough when she talked about this relationship when she got old in the future.
Lin Han'er nodded silently, her mind was confused, did she want to give Ruan Weiqin another chance?
"Mom!" An excited voice came, and as soon as Wen Shu looked up, she saw Qin Shuyi rushing towards her, she was carrying a small schoolbag and a sweet smile on her fair and beautiful little face.
It's been a long time since she saw her, and she hasn't seen Qin Shuyi since she was hospitalized, for fear that they would worry about Qin Mingyue, so she kept letting Lin Su watch them at home and not let them come to the hospital.
Now Qin Mingyue's condition is much better, and the two children are really worried about him, they haven't gone back for so long, and the two children are suspicious.
So Wen Shu thought about it, and asked Lin Su to bring the two children over, so that they could take a look at Qin Mingyue and rest assured.
Catching Qin Shuyi running towards her, Wen Shu raised her hand and rubbed her head, "Have you listened to your grandmother at home recently?" ”
Qin Shuyi nodded, looking up at her little face, her big watery eyes followed her, "Mommy, I miss you so much!" ”