631: That's tacit understanding
The steaming army hot pot is quite lively.
Tian Yulan originally wanted to book a private room outside to invite the two teachers of Xia Ziyou, which could be regarded as a good connection, but Lu Ze took into account the personalities of Zhong Yi and Zhang Xueer, so he decided to visit the door, and everyone just had a simple meal.
After Zhong Yi transferred to a private school, he had to serve as a tutor in a small class on weekends and holidays, so now he looks like he has lost a lot of weight, but he is in good spirits, compared to when he was sailing, he was like two people.
Zhang Xueer is still the innocent and pure homeroom teacher.
Lu Ze respects this teacher Zhang's educational philosophy very much, because there is nothing wrong with this concept in essence, but it is just a little inconsistent with the soil in today's exam-oriented education environment.
"Thank you to the two teachers for taking care of Ziyou over the years."
Tian Yulan raised the glass, the orange juice in the cup shook slightly, and there was a sincere smile on her face.
Zhang Xueer looked at Ziyou and praised: "It's not just the credit of our teachers, in the final analysis, it is the result of Ziyou's diligent and serious study. ”
Nowadays, most of the students in Ziyou's class are picked up by their parents during self-study classes.
Even Xia Huanhuan's parents, who used to pay attention to happy learning methods, are now deeply affected.
Zhong Yi expected that there would be such a result, but Zhang Xueer, as the head teacher, was still a little difficult to accept, Zhong Yi said frankly: "The current learning environment is very different from our learning environment at that time. ”
The atmosphere of today's dinner was very good.
The two teachers and the two parents are good talkers, and in a sense, everyone eats by mouth.
So after Lu Ze's family entered the door, there was constant laughter and talk.
"In this age exam, the overall results of our class are very good."
"Ziyou's results have broken through before, and it should be the best exam in these years."
Naturally, the topic of conversation is inseparable from children and test scores.
Zhang Xueer carefully analyzed the subjects in which Yan Ziyou performed well in this exam, and the homeroom teacher thought that the first place this time should be Mi Tao, a student who joined the class halfway, but she didn't expect Ziyou to win the first place in Mi Tao's hands.
Zhang Xueer can vaguely see... Ziyou's current learning state seems to be like two people as before.
This fact made Zhang Xueer feel very incredible.
This is also the reason why she readily agreed to get together with Lu Ze's family.
She wants to know what the source of these changes is in Ziyou, which has a high auxiliary significance for the head teacher to carry out the future education work - that is, how to let the students get a good score in a happy state?
In short, earn money standing up.
Today's Zhang Xueer gradually understands that the key to the problem is still the parents of the students.
Ziyou's father showed a conversation insight that amazed both her and Zhong Yi.
Zhang Xueer had a conversation with Lu Ze when she was in the office before, and the core of the topic was about Zhong Yi, at that time, Zhang Xueer felt that her boyfriend gradually deviated from the original intention of becoming a people's teacher, and it was only now that Zhang Xueer turned her heart a little and was able to think about the problem from Zhong Yi's standpoint.
"Ziyou's father, I heard Ziyou say that your family and Huanhuan's family are related."
"Huanhuan's results this time are not ideal, her parents are both high-achieving students, graduated from prestigious universities."
"Now it's not all rumored on the Internet, and the children of the top students are all scumbags."
Zhang Xueer asked a question in her heart.
Zhong Yi raised his eyebrows, senior brother Xia Junshan also contacted him some time ago, learning from the scriptures to teach children their wonderful tricks, but Zhong Yi really didn't have any shortcuts to introduce to this senior brother.
"Happy education, there is no mistake in nature."
"But isn't it too much to be happy, and isn't it falling into the other extreme?"
"When students are in school, especially in elementary school, they are at the most energetic time in their lives, and the foundation of opening up children's nature is to keep them on the right track."
"As for Huanhuan... The conditions in her family are good, and I suggested that they take the art test. ”
As the saying goes, persuade people to study medicine, and the sky thunders.
And if you persuade people to learn art, the result will naturally not be much better.
Zhang Xue'er's brows furrowed.
Zhong Yi somewhat agreed with Lu Ze's suggestion.
The most fundamental reason is that Xia Huanhuan's child's enthusiasm for learning and endeavor are limited, she has shown extraordinary personal charm in many aspects other than personal talent and learning, and it is not bad to take the road of art, and Zhong Yi faintly knows that Xia Huanhuan's grandfather is a leader who retired from the provincial design institute, and her father is engaged in architectural design.
It will undoubtedly be more convenient for children to take this artistic path in the future.
Zhong Yi looked at Lu Ze, looking at the man who helped him really make up his mind to resign from his job as a teacher, he felt a lot of emotion in his heart... No wonder the latter has been able to achieve what it is now.
Hearing Lu Ze's words, Ziyou, the little guy, nodded very casually.
"Huanhuan told me before that she doesn't like to study at all, she just likes to sing and dance as a little host."
"If she knew what her father said today, she would be very happy."
When Zhang Xue'er heard this, she asked, "Didn't you tell Huanhuan's parents about this..."
At this time, Tian Yulan's face was slightly embarrassed.
Because the relationship between their family and Huanhuan's family is that unusual 'relative' relationship, coupled with the relationship between the older generation above, the relationship between the two families is maintained in Lu Ze and Xia Junshan, Nan Li and Xia Junshan are both graduates of famous universities, and the question of children's cultivation is at best an Olympiad test question borrowed from ideas.
Lu Ze opened his mouth to respond: "After all, this matter still depends on the arrangement of Huanhuan's parents. ”
Tian Yulan picked up the fat sheep roll that had just been put in the pot for a short time in the bowl of her husband and children, remembered Ziyou's words just now, and whispered in the child's ear: "What about you?" Do you like to learn? ”
Unsurprisingly, the answer was no.
Yan Ziyou ate the meat in a big gulp, and said without raising his head: "Although I still hate studying, I don't hate it as much as before, this feeling is not the same as before, and I can't say it." ”
After a long time, a waterfall of night enveloped the land.
Lu Ze's family waved goodbye to Zhong Yi and Zhang Xueer through the lowered car window.
At night, Jiangzhou City is full of lights and wine, and the river is endless.
Tian Yulan in the co-pilot's seat looked at her son in the back seat through the rearview mirror, her eyes were complicated, Ziyou's size this year surged away, and now half of the child standing in front of her can faintly catch up with her height, what makes Tian Yulan feel so emotional is Ziyou's growth, no longer the child who needs his mother to clean up behind his ass for everything.
Every time you don't need to be urged, you will take the initiative to complete the homework.
Even after coming home from football every week, he would take the initiative to throw his dirty clothes into the washing machine and learn how to do the laundry.
will also take the initiative to make video calls with grandparents.
Tian Yulan felt that the qi that had been entangled in her heart over the years was gradually showing signs of relaxation.
This is the anger she wants to be strong.
This is the breath she painstakingly wants to watch the child grow.
This is the qi that the original family has accumulated in their hearts since childhood.
This gas... It seems to be gradually dissipating.
In life, there is no hurdle that you can't pass, only the hurdle in your heart that you can't pass.
"Such a life... Isn't it the best life? ”
The lights outside are bright and green, and the car is warm and surrounding.
......
Nan Li has never been to the old mansion since that quarrel with Nan Jianlong in the old mansion, and their family has never been to the old mansion since that time, according to Nan Li, it is a meal over there in their family.
The smooth progress of the home hall project made Nan Li feel the spring breeze in the office.
Now everywhere she goes, Director Nan is shouting one after another, obviously treating her as the real director of Wei Nuan.
But the joy in my heart quickly vanished.
Because her daughter Xia Huanhuan's grade exam was extremely bad.
Nan Li and Xia Junshan at home because of this kind of thing is inseparable, this time I quarreled more than once, I just hated not to pay attention to her daughter's learning early, at this time the eldest princess Zhao Na stood up, Zhao Na stood in the perspective of a third person, and helped the husband and wife analyze the question about Huanhuan's education: "Lili, do you remember the Deya Middle School where you used to study?" ”
Under the old lady's suggestion, Nan Li suddenly became enlightened.
Xia Junshan began to collect all kinds of news about Yade Middle School, and after the investigation, he was pleasantly surprised to find that the admission rate of this middle school was very high, and he did not look at the children's rankings and Olympiad scores.
"It's really a treasure."
"We always want Huanhuan to reach the unreachable threshold of Hanlin Middle School, but we ignore that there are good enough schools down there, Lili, why have you even forgotten your own alma mater?"
Xia Junshan was overjoyed.
It's just that Yade Middle School needs to be divided into hukou areas to enter, which makes it a little difficult for him.
The couple couldn't make up their minds, so they simply went to Deya Middle School to visit the site again, Nanli has been almost 20 years younger from graduating from middle school, and when she first entered the school, she didn't recognize that this was her former middle school, and the principal of Yade was still her political teacher back then.
After this on-site visit, the husband and wife were surprised to find that the quality education and long-term development advocated by Principal Yade were perfectly in line with their educational philosophy, but the admission rules of the household registration area made the two of them very anxious.
"Isn't that easy?"
"Doesn't the old man's house correspond to the Deya School District? Li Li, you just move your household registration in, and the names of the two juniors are hung on the house certificate, isn't this okay? ”
Zhao Namei put on a mask and gave Nan Li an idea.
It's just that Nan Li was hindered by the previous conflict with her father Nan Jianlong in the old house, and she couldn't let go of her inner estrangement.
Xia Junshan did ideological work for Nan Li at home for several days, and finally finalized the plan to buy 1% of the old mansion at a price lower than the market average, and at the same time move Xia Huanhuan and Xia Chaochao's household registration in.
After thinking about it repeatedly at home for a long time, Nan Li still chose to bow her head for the sake of her children, and made the most difficult decision since she became an adult.
"Dad."
"I'm sorry about what happened last time."
On the sofa in the old house, Nan Li looked at the steaming tea on the table, and was a little distracted.
Cai Juying knew that there was something to say between the father and daughter, and after preparing the tea, she took the initiative to go back to the bedroom and close the door, which made Nan Li feel very uncomfortable in her heart, because Cai Juying, who snatched her father in her consciousness, was a bad person, but over the years, the latter had indeed taken care of her father so well.
Just like when people watch TV movies, they find that the bad guys on the screen are not pure.
That's where the real pain comes in, and it seems that there really isn't such a thing as a pure bad guy in the world.
"Well, that's a rush."
Nan Jianlong smiled and waved his hand, seeing that his daughter took the initiative to come to the door, the old man endured the physical discomfort and ate several pastries one after another, Nan Li, the daughter, did not know that Daddy lactose was intolerant, and his favorite pastry was a food that he could not touch too much.
The father and daughter talked happily with each other, but they were never able to get to the point.
And Cai Juying, who was in the bedroom, also remembered the pastries that Nan Li brought when she came, and finally didn't hold back, went out to the living room, and quietly began to remind Nan Jianlong.
Nan Li was about to speak, but when she looked at Cai Juying, she could only get up and say goodbye.
Nan Jianlong saw his daughter's appearance and knew that she must have something, so he immediately put on his shoes and went out to stop Nan Li, and asked about the intention.
Nan Li sighed: "It's still for the sake of the child." ”
After listening to Nan Li's words, Nan Jianlong nodded: "After all, it involves the issue of the house, I have to go back and discuss it with your Aunt Cai, so you go home first and wait for my news, soon." ”
"Thank you... Thank you Dad. ”
......
Regarding the matter of moving the household registration, Nan Jianlong can fully understand his daughter, so he has already made a decision in his heart, but he still has to go through the motions, that is, he will discuss it with Cai Juying a little first.
Naturally, in order to prevent this side from making trouble again in the future.
Especially when it comes to the key issue of old homes.
The two have been together for decades, Nan Jianlong knows Cai Juying's temperament best, the former vice president of the design institute, whether in terms of knowledge, IQ or sophistication, completely crushed Cai Juying, so when he really used his tricks, the latter was naturally difficult to parry, and after a few words, he was said to be excited.
Cai Juying readily agreed.
But to be on the safe side, I still talked to my daughter and son-in-law on the phone.
......
"It's okay to add a name."
"Add my mother-in-law's name too."
Lu Ze and his family reached a consensus directly.
Full of tacit understanding.