In the new semester, my brother Li Anyi chose to live in the school, but my sister Li Manya insisted on going home to live, in her original words, "Is the school for people to live, the room is so small, and several people live together, how can I sleep, I don't live anyway." Later, Yun Feifei wanted their brother and sister to go home to live, but in the end, Li Anyi still chose to live in the school and Li Manya still chose to go home to live. Since Li Zhixiong spends most of his time managing affairs in the company, everything at home is taken care of by Yun Feifei. Yun Feifei assigned Li Manya a luxury RV to take her to and from school, and rested in the RV at noon, accompanied by a nanny. Li Manya is still relatively restrained at school, and she is also hot and cold with her classmates, with a sense of arrogance, not so domineering, after all, she still understands these things with her classmates for six years.

On the first day of school, the students exchanged interesting stories that happened during the Chinese New Year.

Xia Ruyi said:

"I went to the 'Wenchang Pavilion' for the New Year, which enshrines the Emperor Wenchang, and will also be Wenqu Xing, according to legend, he manages all the articles in the world, where I went to worship, to be honest, there are really a lot of people, are parents with their children to worship, and some college students, I heard that it is quite spiritual"

"Really, really, then I'll go when I'm on summer vacation" Geng Lifei immediately took over the conversation and said with some excitement. Because his grades in all subjects were very good, but his Chinese scores were up and down, up and down, so when he heard these words, he immediately expressed the idea of going to worship.

"Ruyi, you are serious, we will go together again when the time comes" Huang Zifei also said excitedly.

"Okay, wait until the summer vacation and let my parents take us again," Xia Ruyi agreed.

"Hey, Wang Chuhan, aren't you going back to your hometown? Is there anything unusual, tell us about it" Geng Lifei said with a big grin.

Everyone echoed for a while, they all spent the New Year in the city this year, basically they didn't go back to their hometowns, they all settled in the city, and some of them also brought the old people in their families to live in the city center, so they were all excited to hear about their hometowns.

"Seriously, there is really a rare thing, that is, it is ......" Wang Chuhan deliberately did not say it, arousing everyone's interest, causing everyone to be anxious and urged.

"Say it"

"That's it, tell me quickly, why did you stop?"

After everyone finished speaking, Wang Chuhan said to Murong Han:

"Little Hanzi, I'm a little thirsty, get me a glass of water."

Seeing that Murong Han didn't have the slightest preparation to go, he said:

"Let's go"

Everyone also began to urge, but in the end, they couldn't suppress the crowd, so they went to fetch a glass of water for Wang Chuhan.

耿立飞 says:

"The water is coming, let's talk about it"

"Okay, then I'll talk to you about it, it's a cold and windy day, my dad and I went to the market to buy meat, and we happened to see a beef stall preparing to slaughter a cow, guess what happened next?" Wang Chuhan asked the classmates present in a guiding tone.

Where would the other students know, so Geng Lifei couldn't help but ask:

"What's going on, you say, it's always whetting our appetite, and the teacher won't talk about it for a while...... Here it is"; Before the last two words could be fully landed, he saw Chinese teacher Liu walking into the classroom with the textbook, and he had to say softly. Then the bell rang in class, the first section is Chinese, Mr. Liu just checked the basic knowledge learned in the last volume, including words, ancient poems and the most important Chinese pinyin (initials, finals, overall recognition of syllables), the second period is a mathematics class, still reviewed the knowledge of the first volume, including the recognition of position, addition and subtraction within ten and the relevant knowledge in the understanding of graphics (1).

All that's left is ethics and the rule of law and a physical education class, and the morning has passed. Some classmates are happy, such as Xia Ruyi, Wang Chuhan, Murong Han, Zhou Chengde and others, of course, there are some people who are miserable, such as Geng Lifei, Lin Dabao, etc., who learn to forget, those who learn to forget, those who learn to forget, and those who forget the front, who belong to the bottom of the class.

After school in the morning, I saw other students talking and laughing and went to the cafeteria to eat. Li Manya went to Class 8 to find her brother Li Anyi to eat and rest in the RV, and when Li Manya saw Li Anyi, he was about to go to the cafeteria with his classmates, so he said to Li Anyi:

"Brother, let's go out to eat in the car together, Mom has prepared something delicious, let's go together"

Seeing this, the other students were about to leave, only to see Li Anyi say to those classmates:

"You wait for me, I'll leave as soon as I say a word," he turned around and said to his sister Li Manya:

"I'm still going to eat in the cafeteria, sister, you'll be isolated by other classmates, you don't want to live in school, you can, but you don't need to eat out for lunch, you can't eat if other classmates can eat, this is not good, you think about it" After speaking, he walked to the cafeteria with a group of his classmates.

Then I saw Li Manya go to the RV at the school gate alone to eat and rest, it may be a problem of the original family, she has been pampering this baby daughter since she was a child, and the influence of indoctrination or parents' words and deeds on children, Li Manya has not been able to understand her brother's words for a while, the so-called parents are the first teachers of children, and parents should play a good role model.

After eating, Wang Chuhan and his gang gathered in the classroom again, and then chatted about the topic before class, only to see Wang Chuhan say to Geng Lifei:

"I said Geng Lifei, have you opened your mouth, just said that the teacher was coming, and the teacher came before he finished speaking, it was really a crow's mouth" After Wang Chuhan finished speaking, the other students laughed, and Geng Lifei said helplessly.

"How can you blame me, it's that you said it too slowly, if you take it slowly for a while, the teacher will have to come"

"you, how can it be so magical...... Before he finished speaking, he saw the head teacher, Mr. Liu Junyu, walk in from the outside, and when he saw us, he said:

"It's just right, a few of you go with me to move the textbooks, and each person can take less if there are more people."

Teacher Liu walked in front, and the little guys in the back all glared at this Geng Lifei, Geng Lifei was also surprised and helpless, no way, today is a solid name of 'crow's mouth';

So we chatted on the playground, and just as Geng Lifei was about to speak, Wang Chuhan said:

"Geng Lifei, don't say it, I'll say it directly"

Everyone chuckled for a while, and then looked at Wang Chuhan waiting for her to talk about the sequel in the morning.

"I tell you, this is true, this year's New Year is going back to my hometown for the New Year, after returning home, I went to the market with my dad to buy New Year's goods, came to a stall selling beef, the boss was just about to take a knife to slaughter the cow, the cow suddenly knelt down, eyes left tears, and finally the boss pulled the cow home, you say rare" When Wang Chuhan finished speaking, Wang Chuhan looked proud, and then Geng Lifei said again:

"Is this true, how is it the same as what is said on TV, if it is true, it is amazing"

"Of course it's true, I can still lie to you, really" Facing Geng Lifei's suspicions, Wang Chuhan was a little angry, and ignored them with a bulging mouth, and at this time, Murong Han said to Wang Chuhan gently:

"We believe what you say, but we didn't react for a while, right, what do you say?"

"Yes, yes, we didn't react"

"Like, who didn't let us know as much as you?"

"Wang Chuhan, I didn't disbelieve you, I just didn't react" At this time, Geng Lifei also found that what he just said was a little inappropriate, so he quickly changed it.

In this way, every day is studying, eating and sleeping, and in a blink of an eye it came to the third grade, it is worth saying that Wang Chuhan returned to his hometown for the New Year in the first grade and met the kneeling cow, the boss came again in the second year, and after those old customers met him, he told everyone about the cow giving birth to a calf, and everyone sighed again.

Someone said:

"Look, it's right not to slaughter it, and you have to take good care of it when I brought you two calves."

"Of course, last year's blessing to you, this year's meat is cheaper by five yuan per catty, welcome to buy it," the boss said happily.

No, the first Friday of the third grade ushered in a new parent-teacher conference; The theme of this year's parent-teacher conference is 'The 3rd Grade Phenomenon'.

Teacher Liu said:

Many parents have reported that their children have excellent grades in the first and second grades of primary school, but "somehow", in the third grade, the children seem to have become "stupid", they can't understand class, they can't do homework, their grades have regressed, and even some children have given up on themselves because of the regression too much, and their studies are becoming more and more unable to keep up...... This phenomenon is known as the "third-grade phenomenon", also known as the "third-grade effect".

So, what exactly is the cause of the "third-grade phenomenon"? What should we do?

01. Insufficient self-control and initiative in learning:

After entering the third grade, we will obviously find that the child's exercise has become larger, coupled with the increase in learning pressure, the increase in difficulty, the child's time for entertainment has become less, and the student will feel tired in the long time of studying.

At this time, the child will try his best to vent his emotions, the student is easy to become impetuous, the learning is not steady, the grades are good and bad, the ups and downs are large, it is not easy to calm down and study, and there are many mistakes that should not be made in homework, which all indicate the child's lack of self-control.

At the same time, the lack of initiative of the students also caught our attention. For example, after the homework assigned by the teacher is completed, the teacher is unwilling to do additional improvement homework or homework assigned by parents; The excerpt of good words and sentences, the teacher does not impose hard rules, and he is too lazy to do it, and there is "inertia".

Countermeasure:

Set clear and specific goals for your child. The goal here is twofold:

The first is the long-term goal, that is, the ideal. Let students clarify the meaning of learning, and link learning with their own ideals and social causes, which is not necessarily the career that children will engage in in the future, but children have a goal to strive for, which will produce lasting and active learning motivation.

The second is the short-term goal, which is best achieved within a week or two through the child's efforts. In this process, we should pay attention to always caring and asking them about their learning, congratulating them on every progress they have made, and giving them appropriate criticism when they do not perform well.

Once a goal has been achieved, a new goal is set. Give your child moderate pressure. Children are young, they don't know the benefits and disadvantages of many things, they don't know the meaning of learning, and they don't want to put more effort into textbook knowledge.

Therefore, we need to exert appropriate pressure on students, and we cannot allow students to act completely freely. We should explain the meaning of learning clearly through various means, and try to stimulate their initiative in learning from a positive perspective.

02. It is difficult to explore

After the third grade, we found that the test is not only about the knowledge in the classroom, but also requires our children to absorb a lot of knowledge outside of class to supplement what they have learned in the classroom.

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Countermeasure:

Master scientific learning methods

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03. The quality of reading is not high

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Countermeasure:

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In a word: in the face of the widespread "third-grade phenomenon", parents should not ignore it, but should help their children "break through" smoothly through good guidance. ”。

"Okay, parents, that's all for today, I hope you parents think about what we talked about today, parents can take their children home, I wish you all a happy weekend, goodbye.".