056: Marriage view

Seeing Chen Ji'an, her mood calmed down a lot: "Didn't you ask me about organ donation?" ”

He didn't speak, he was collecting his mood.

Do you want her to donate, or don't want her to donate? In the end, he can only give opinions, but he can't change her choice, and he doesn't want her to mess up because of his words.

"To be honest, I don't want you to donate." He sat down, leaned back on the couch, his eyes looking at the ceiling, "You're still so young, whether the loss of an organ will affect your future life is a time bomb." ”

This is his idea, it is human nature for people to have selfish feelings for their loved ones, he is a layman, and it cannot be avoided.

Since he confirmed his heart, he cherished every day when he could stay by her side, even if she suddenly said one day that she didn't want him anymore, and wanted to devote herself to her hard work and break up with him, he could accept it. Because, he wants her to be happy and safe.

She was silent and didn't speak, and his heart began to panic, and he asked tentatively: "I'm sorry, do you think that I have a generation gap with you, and I don't understand you so well?" ”

Could it be that their contradictions are about to start to erupt?

After a long silence, he breathed a sigh of relief and explained calmly: "I'm already thirty. So my thoughts are that love is to hope that the person you love can have a better life, not having a kidney is not a small thing for you, and while I will respect your ideas, I don't want you to take risks easily. ”

If you regret it after donating, it will be too late.

It's just that Song Jiangtong's physique is different from others, and the result of his matching is not in line, so he can't help her bear this danger. Therefore, he had to persuade her to think clearly.

She finally spoke up, squinting and smiling: "I'm not unhappy, I just feel quite happy, and at the same time I'm reflecting on my own behavior." ”

Reflection?

Chen Ji'an's hand was lifted up by her, and it seemed that a coquettish little rabbit had been drilled into her arms, tickling it. But this itch, warm and dry, makes his heart very warm.

She smiled at him and hugged his waist tightly: "Happiness is because you care about me, introspection is because now I have someone around me who will form a family with me, my body is not only mine, I should also respect my lover's opinion." ”

"Don't you think I'm controlling you and meddling?" He asked cautiously.

Lin Zhaowan didn't expect that after her brother Ji An fell in love, he would be such a sensitive person, so sensitive that he was even too cute.

There were pink bubbles in her eyes, Chen Ji'an wanted to poke these bubbles off, he was serious, not joking.

When he was in his first year in Beijing, he saw many student couples quarreling. Because the girl read a post on the Internet saying that her boyfriend should support herself unconditionally, even if she has to drink and play until midnight every day, he should be on call, so she loves a person's performance, not manipulates what she wants to do. The boy said, "But it's too dangerous", and the girl accused him of why he didn't educate his male compatriots, and the two quarreled in the playground.

In the past, he thought it was outrageous, but he didn't expect him to be a little "outrageous" when he is in love now. will guess if she has done something wrong because of her expression and sentence...... They are still thirty years old, and they are all thirteen years old.

She lowered her head and smiled helplessly: "If two people want to get married and live together, every decision may affect each other's lives." I hope that no matter what happens, we will always be able to trust and trust each other, instead of only taking and blindly liberalism, so is my cheating also called 'freedom'? ”

She is not like this, and every concern of her lover will be regarded as meddling in her life.

If she had answered this question, she would have answered the same question as he did. Maybe the people who will be angry because of this issue have a different view of marriage than her, or they may not look down on people who are married and have children at all. Confrontation is the norm in today's society, and everyone can quarrel with each other if they don't agree with each other.

Some relationships are deformed and distorted, some are constantly quarrelling, and some are just partners. She wants their relationship to be lovely, full of love and peaceful.

Responsibility is the foundation of marriage in a stable and equal relationship, both for the man and the woman. Based on this foundation, the reality that a couple has to face is that you have physical problems and need your partner to feed you, bathe you, and even more small things to do.

If she wasn't ready to step into the relationship and think about the risks, she wouldn't be in it.

True love is not about being selfish, but about putting each other's future first, and thinking about everything about each other.

And in what relationship, only by feeling happiness can we reduce mental internal friction. What others say, what perspective they look at or manage their marriage has nothing to do with her, she only values his future.

Therefore, there are no unspeakable secrets between them, and there is no courage to tolerate each other, no matter what happens, they will face it together. They are one, so she will be responsible for him to the best of her ability. She believed, and so did he.

"Can't cheat." He frowned.

Immediately, he cleared his throat and said embarrassedly, "You can quarrel with me, but you can't go to someone else." ”

"I won't." She pounced on him and rubbed his neck, "I can't bear it." ”

He thought that their view of marriage might be much worse, and as time passed, the sweetness and passion would fade, and perhaps quarrels and contradictions would remain. But now, he seems to have more confidence in this relationship.

"I will also do everything in my power to make you better and better."

She loved him so much, he would definitely protect her.

Even if one day the bullet was aimed at her, he would be the first to rush up and help her stop it. In the ups and downs in the future, he is determined to face it with her.

It's just that he hopes there won't be this day.

Counting down to two hours, the big clock in Sui'an City Square swayed, and the shadow of an elegant and beautiful white swan lady flashed on the LED screen of the square.

A car was parked in the middle of the square, and the man sat in the driver's seat, crossed his legs, and spat out the thick fog in his mouth. He is very much looking forward to today's good show being released as soon as possible, and they will enjoy this last peace.

Zhou Jini took a half-day leave from the hospital to watch the performance, and Mu Yanlian couldn't accompany her today, so he sent a police officer to take care of her.

As soon as she walked out of the ward, Zhou Xini felt an urgency to urinate, but the bathroom in her ward was broken again and could not be flushed, so she could only go to the public bathroom.

She walked up to the police officer embarrassedly: "Officer Su, I'll go to the bathroom first, you just wait for me here." ”