The ghost pregnant woman walked into the room and sat down on a chair.

Jiang Linxian saw that her face was very pale, and her state seemed very bad.

He Xuelian straightened the delicate gold-wire glasses on the bridge of her nose with her hand and asked, "Hello, may I ask if you have any psychological problems that need to be consulted." ”

"I found out that when I was pregnant, my husband did something sorry for me behind my back."

The ghost pregnant woman spoke, her tone of voice with a bit of anxiety and anger.

"Can you tell us more about what you've done behind your back?"

He Xuelian asked.

The ghost pregnant woman began to complain: "I find that he is not good to me at all now, and he always feels strange when he looks at me. ”

"When he calls, he always deliberately avoids me."

"Also, when he uses his phone to send messages, he laughs from time to time."

"Every time I ask him who he's messaging with, he says it's work."

"As soon as I asked him for a mobile phone to check, he refused to show it to me on the grounds of the company's trade secrets."

"I feel like he's looking for a junior behind my back."

He Xuelian thought for a moment and asked, "Do you have conclusive evidence?" ”

The ghost pregnant woman shook her head and said, "Although I have no evidence, I think he must have a junior!" ”

"I always can't sleep well because of these things, and I feel very anxious."

"I've had a few fights with him, and he always runs away and doesn't argue with me."

"I feel like I'm going to get depressed."

He Xuelian nodded and explained, "Actually, you don't have to be so anxious. ”

"Maybe your husband is really just at work."

"Also, you're pregnant, so you should be in a good mood."

"You can try to talk to him about how you feel in your heart."

The ghost pregnant woman sighed: "As soon as I see her, I will be cranky, and it will be difficult to calm down at all. ”

"When I said a few words to him, I felt panicked. It's really hard to be calm. ”

He Xuelian continued: "I can understand your feelings. ”

"Not really."

"Husbands and wives should understand each other, not think about suspicion."

"You can try not to think about these things, and the more you think about them, the more upset you become."

He Xuelian talked with the ghost pregnant woman for a long time, trying to enlighten her.

But the ghost pregnant woman has been in distress.

Jiang Linxian stopped the note in his hand and interjected: "Madam, I want to ask you a question, if you now confirm that your husband is cheating and find a mistress, what are you going to do?" ”

When He Xuelian heard Jiang Linxian's words, she immediately frowned.

As a psychiatrist, you should enlighten the patient at this moment, rather than directly plunging her into pain.

When the ghost pregnant woman heard Jiang Linxian's question, she fell into deep thought for a while.

Now she has no conclusive evidence that her husband cheated.

If it was confirmed, she didn't know what to do.

Jiang Linxian said seriously: "Suppose, now that your husband is cheating, are you going to quarrel with him and then divorce?" ”

"And then I will give you half of the property."

"Did you knock out the baby in your womb or give birth?"

"Or do you want to go on with your life without knowing what to do?"

After listening to Jiang Linxian's words, the ghost pregnant woman suddenly fell into despair, and her face became very painful.

He Xuelian looked at the patient's painful expression, and immediately enlightened: "What he just said is just a hypothesis, you don't have to take it to heart, your best way at present is to relax and welcome the birth of the baby in your belly." ”

The ghost pregnant woman fell into confusion and quickly shook her head: "I don't know how to do it." ”

She looked up at Jiang Linxian in front of her, and didn't listen to any of He Xuelian's words: "What do you say I should do?" Can you help me? ”

"Of course you can!" Jiang Linxian said.

"I'm very experienced with this kind of marital cheating."

"If your husband already has a mistress at the moment, and you are thinking about divorce, then you should be ready for divorce and collect more evidence to ensure that you get enough compensation after the divorce."

"And you can't tear your face with him right now."

"As for the child, I think this is a gift from God, as for what to do, you can make a choice according to your own ideas."

"And one more thing, it's to keep a good mood."

"Since everything has happened, no matter how painful you are, it won't help."

"It's never too late to wait until your child is born."

Jiang Linxian launched a demagogic speech, and the pregnant woman in front of him was stunned.

"However, I feel that it is difficult to maintain a good mood at the moment."

"Stay away from your husband." Jiang Linxian said: "You can change to an environment without him and wait for the baby to be born with peace of mind." ”

"It might be a good idea to go back to your own parents' house."

"As long as you don't see him, I'm sure you won't be cranky."

"When the baby comes out, and then you really have enough evidence, you can start your next series of measures."

"Of course, maybe all this could also be a misunderstanding."

The painful eyes of the ghost pregnant woman regained a hint of brightness: "Doctor, what you said is very reasonable. ”

"As long as I don't see him, I'll be able to stay in a good mood."

"Now when I see him talking and laughing on my phone, and he doesn't pay much attention to me with my big belly, I get upset and cranky."

Jiang Linxian smiled: "It's normal. ”

"This is a psychological gap, especially if you are still pregnant, and your emotions are much more sensitive than ordinary people."

"When you give birth to a baby, your mood may disappear."

"So for now you'd better just stay away from him."

"Thank you, doctor!" The ghost pregnant woman suddenly felt enlightened: "Now I just don't want to see him, if he really cheats, wait until I give birth to the child, and then confront him." ”

"If you understand." Jiang Linxian nodded and said.

The ghost pregnant woman got up and left.

He Xuelian looked at Jiang Linxian with cold eyes: "How can you assume that?" ”

"Do you know that your assumption may put her on the verge of collapse, or even make her more depressed."

"I'm measured." Jiang Linxian said that with the skills of a psychological counselor, he can control the psychology of patients very well.

"When it comes to mental illness, we don't necessarily need to emphasize positive and optimistic enlightenment all the time, after all, every ghost's life is already in dire straits."

"We should help them to touch hope in the midst of desperate situations."

"Sometimes it's better to be blocked."

"In the worst situation, being able to guide them to move forward is the best psychological enlightenment."

Jiang Linxian's words shocked He Xuelian beside her a little.

It seemed to give her a new revelation.

She has always emphasized enlightening patients to be positive and optimistic, but she has never thought about how to let them out of a desperate situation and touch hope.

The cold heart in the bottom of my heart seemed to be beginning to melt at this moment.

[He Xuelian was inspired by your concept of practicing medicine, and her favor for you was +20! ] 】