1439 The Bond of Marriage

Finished.

That's all she had in her mind at the time.

How do you say what is in your heart......

Grandma, you shouldn't be angry, right?

After all, this is also grandma's private matter, and she shouldn't be inquiring.

But if you say it, you can't take it back......

Xia Jinqi was so annoyed that she really wanted to slap herself firmly!

Nothing more to say!

Besides, it's still at this time......

I was about to open my mouth to apologize to my grandmother, but I didn't admit it, and my grandmother's old voice quickly reached my ears.

"If I could do it all over again, I would still choose to meet him, marry him, and have children for him...... Similarly, I have never regretted my decision to divorce in the first place. As he spoke, Long Qingxin turned around and looked into Xia Jinqi's eyes very seriously, "Fortunately, Ah Sheng has grown up and married and had children, so I don't have to grieve myself for my children, and I don't have any ties." I made a decision that at least pleased myself. ”

Xia Jinqi was slightly stunned, she didn't expect her grandmother to be really willing to say this to herself.

She listened almost to her grandmother with bated breath.

"At that time, my girlfriend persuaded me, my family persuaded me, and almost everyone said, you are over forty years old, you have grandchildren, and you are divorced, isn't this a big joke?" Speaking of this, the smile on Long Qingxin's lips began to become bitter, "But if I don't divorce, let me guard a man who betrayed me every day, I can't do it." Maybe it's also because I'm too strong-tempered, too stubborn, and mentally clean, and it's impossible to accept an unclean person anymore. ”

At that time, the divorce rate was not as high as it is now, and most people would rather stumble over a lifetime than divorce easily.

But Long Qingxin is not such a legalistic person, she is naturally free and easy, and she is also bold in doing things, and she can't rub a little sand in her eyes.

Xia Jinqi listened and nodded.

Yes, grandma is such a character, even if she didn't divorce Yan Youcheng at the beginning, life goes on as usual, she will bury a thorn in her heart, and one day she will completely explode in another situation.

If you can't forgive, then it's good for both parties to leave as soon as possible.

Long Qingxin's face was heavy, and he turned his head to look at the dark night outside the window, and muttered, "After so many years, I have realized a truth. The bond of marriage is not children, not money, but the common growth in the spiritual realm. ”

When Xia Jinqi heard this, her eyebrows frowned slightly, "The common growth of the spirit? ”

"Yes." Long Qingxin nodded first, and then suddenly sneered, "Now that I think about it, in those years, the Yan family's group was going to develop, he became busier and busier, and the time to go home became less and less, even if he went home, he was buried in the study, and he didn't even say a few words to me." I always think that he is busy with his career, and as a wife, I should understand him more and be considerate of him, so I don't bother him much. Who knows, this has caused us to have a rift. There is less communication, more noise, and distraction, after all, it comes to the opposite step. ”

Maybe even Long Qingxin didn't notice it, when she said these words, her voice was already a little choked.

The cold moonlight poured in from the window, just illuminating the sparkle under her eyes.

Xia Jinqi saw the sadness in her heart, took two steps forward, gently hugged Long Qingxin, and gave her warmth.

I used to hear that grandma and grandpa were separated, but I only felt a pity, but I had never heard these words from grandma.

Now that I hear it, I know the pain and pain in my grandmother's heart.