Yan Huang told Zuo Qiu and Zhuo Ya that when they were in the first grade of elementary school, several bad boys in the class always bullied their neighbor girl, Zheng Yaping.

Zheng Yaping is a very poor girl, his father is full of resentment towards his wife because Zheng Yaping's mother gave birth to a girl, and often beats and scolds Zheng Yaping's mother.

Zheng Yaping's mother's cries every now and then planted the seeds of deep sympathy for the unfortunate woman in Yan Huang's young heart.

Zheng Yaping also did not invite his father to see him, and beating and scolding Zheng Yaping became commonplace.

The young Yan Huang often unconsciously clenched his fists, wanting to beat Zheng Yaping's father, of course his father and mother did not allow him to do this, and he could not beat an adult at that time.

However, since then, Yan Huang has a bitter knot of hatred for men who use their physical strength to abuse their own women and children.

This situation continued until Zheng Yaping was seven years old, and after her mother gave birth to a boy, the fate of mother and daughter changed slightly.

Zheng Yaping's family has two dairy sheep, and every day Zheng Yaping has to drink a jar of goat milk to go to school, naturally with the smell of sheep, a few bad boys in the classmates coaxed and said: "Zheng Yaping, the old ewe is your mother." ”

Zheng Yaping has long developed a cowardly character, and every time she hides from their bullying, she doesn't dare to resist.

After a long time, it has become a habit for several bad boys to bully Zheng Yaping, and they often bully her in different ways.

Once, several people insisted that Zheng Yaping crawl on the ground to learn the sheep to bark, Zheng Yaping didn't follow them and pressed her to her knees together, and a bad boy also took the broom that swept the floor in the classroom in his hand and slapped the crawling Zheng Yaping's buttocks from time to time, making a shout of driving the sheep.

There was no expression of humiliation on Zheng Yaping's face, only humble obedience and pitiful tears.

The scene in front of him deeply pierced Yan Huang's nerves, and this scene was deeply imprinted in his mind from then on.

Although they are all children, Yan Huang saw the brutal bestiality in people from these classmates.

Yan Huang usually defends Zheng Yaping very much, but this time Yan Huang was completely enraged, dragged Zheng Yaping up, and then fought with a few bad boys.

Yan Huang has been learning kung fu with his father since he was a child, but those bad boys have also learned martial arts with adults, and the classroom space is small, so he can't use it.

Under the siege of several people, Yan Huang gradually lost the upper hand and was chased from the back of the classroom to the front.

Yan Huang found that the teacher's wooden stick whip was placed on the lower eaves of the blackboard, and when he took it, he picked it up and fought back.

The whip quickly fell on the arms, shoulders, and heads of several bad boys, and one of the bad boys' heads was beaten to the point that they were bulging, and the bad boys cried in pain, and the cry attracted the teacher.

Yan Huang was punished by the teacher for standing for one class. Although he was trying to defend Zheng Yaping, after all, he was also fighting and was willing to be punished.

After school, Yan Huang was beaten up by the bad boy's brother on the road, and Yan Huang was beaten badly and thrown into the woods.

At this time, Yan Huang had lost the ability to walk on his own, and if there were wild boars, wild dogs, and wild wolves, his life might be lost, but fortunately, in the end, Grandpa Agu found him who had fainted.

Because of Zheng Yaping, Yan Huang has seen the difference between men and women since he was a child.

Women were bullied because of their weak strength, so Yan Huang buried the idea that men and women should be equal since he was a child, and also made Yan Huang pay more attention and care to women from then on.

Seeing her son being beaten and his nose and face swollen, the mother was so distressed that she burst into tears.

The father said earnestly, son, if you want not to be bullied, you must practice hard.

Use kung fu to deal with those who bully you, and also use kung fu to protect those weak people who are being bullied.

On the night he was beaten, Yan Huang did not sleep peacefully because of the pain in his body.

After finally falling asleep, I had a strange dream in which I was floating in the void.

Someone in the depths of the void seems to have said something to him: "Be strong yourself".

"Strengthen yourself" is like a spring thunder, making you clearly aware of how to survive.

This sentence is the same as what his father said to him, and it is the spiritual encouragement that Yan Huang needs.

If you are not strong, you can only swallow your anger. When you are strong, you can be a righteous hero.

Since then, "Be strong yourself" has become Yan Huang's inspirational motto in the process of growing up.

Moreover, "feminism" and "strong yourself" are like two seeds planted deeply in Yan Huang's young heart, and he continues to deepen his understanding as he grows.

Yan Huang worked harder to learn the art of martial arts with his father. From elementary school to university, Yan Huang has always demanded himself with both civil and military standards, so that he can become an excellent person.

Over the years, Yan Huang has also been pondering the meaning of "strong yourself", and the connotation of "strong" is constantly enriched by himself.

However, Yan Huang did not tell Zuo Qiu and Zhuoya about this sentence in the dream.

He didn't know if this sentence was really said to him by someone, or if it was a portrayal of his mood at the time, the result of his subconscious.

After listening to Yan Huang's narration, Zuo Qiu and Zhuo Ya had a new understanding of Yan Huang, it turned out that Yan Huang's background was so clear, and they saw Yan Huang's human nature.

Zuo Qiu jokingly said: "Yan Daxia, you are really the gospel of our women." ”

Zoya hurriedly added: "Friends of the women of the world. ”

Yan Huang was embarrassed, "Don't exalt me, I'm not a hero, I'm just an ordinary person, and I just have some feelings to help the world as I want."

Besides, the title of Friend of Women will make men jealous, and it feels a little derogatory, isn't it, two beauties? ”

Zuo Qiu and Zhuo Ya laughed happily.

Yan Huang took the opportunity to say again: "Zhuoya, you understand now, I help you because of my nature, you must not take it to heart, and don't be grateful." ”

Yan Huang really wanted to tell Zhuoya bluntly: I don't like you as much as you think. But he couldn't open his mouth.

Of course, Zhuoya will not understand and does not want to understand the true meaning of Yan Huang's words, and she will not think much about what a person she likes to say, she will not think too much about not liking herself.

Zhuo Ya didn't think about Yan Huang and Zuo Qiu together at all, after all, Zuo Qiu was three years older than Yan Huang.

Zhuoya thinks that she still has a great chance of being with Yan Huang.

For single men and women, no one loves themselves is a blow to confidence, the person they love does not love themselves is an emotional loss, and being loved by someone they don't want is also a love trouble, Yan Huang has this feeling.

After the three of them walked out of the café, they took a walk in the People's Square by the way, and watched some uncles and aunts in the square dancing happily, Zhuo Ya said: "When we are old, will we join this ranks?" ”

Yan Huang smiled: "It's a bit early to think about it. ”

The three of them walked outside the square, but unexpectedly, they met Liu Zhijun head-on, and next to him was his wife, who once disliked his waist thicker than a bucket.

Liu Zhijun's life is now in a gloomy stage, and his wife, who has always looked down on him, has not left him, but comforted him, enlightened him, accompanied him, and took care of his emotions and life.

Seeing Zhuo Ya, Liu Zhijun's face showed an angry look for a moment, and he guessed that he had come to this point today, and there must be Zhuo Ya's "credit" in it.