Chapter 519: Xiaowen and Xiaoni's reminders, Lin Rou's feelings.
Chapter 519
Xiaowen and Xiaoni's reminders, Lin Rou's feelings.
Lin Rou actually doesn't have any answer to this matter, she is still in the exploration stage by herself, and she actually had a friend in her early years. It's that they have a very good relationship.
That kind of is Ah Lin Rou, in fact, when she was in college, there was a not very happy past, when she first went to college, she actually had a better life, and then that classmate appeared, and then the relationship between the two of them was also very good.
It's just a pity that the two of them have been better for many years, maybe four, five, six, seven, eight years, maybe six or seven years, six or seven years, but sometimes there are still some problems.
Well, for so long, why did it go wrong? Lin Rou also couldn't figure it out, but was there really a way to turn back? There's no turning back, you just have to find a way to apply medicine to her, right? Let her wounds heal as much as possible. The scars are left, and there is no way to do it.
It can't change that, but you can at least say it. It's cut different, isn't it?
At least it can be different, a lot of times it's like this, we really can't do anything more, we can only do our best to save someone, but sometimes what can we do.
Lin Rou is also very helpless, she and her friend used to be really good, but they were still lost in the back, she couldn't figure it out, she actually wanted to redeem it now, but how to redeem it, with her riding ability, with her worth, with her money, then this kind of redemption of feelings, for Lin Rou is still the kind of feelings she expected, she is actually more looking forward to the fact that when Lin Rou is just Lin Rou and not a master of Lin Rou, they can get back together. If not, then you'd rather leave it at that. Seeing that Lin Rou seemed to be in a trance, Xiaowen and Xiaoni did not disturb Lin Rou, but ate seriously.
They are not young people who have just entered the society, they actually know a lot of things, they know that at this time, alas, don't speak, let Lin Rou think about it herself. It's not too late to ask when Lin Rou is willing to speak, or Lin Rou said, when she wants them to ask, it will be better for them to ask again, which is also some of the social experiences summarized by Xiaowen and Xiaoli, you must know that this is indeed the case many times, well, how to say it, very many times you really need to do it, think about some things clearly before doing it, if you don't think about it with your brain, then you are actually very likely to get a result that you don't want, Because you're nothing more than a brain thing, you're not actually a good thing. Right? If you don't want to do anything, you don't want to be clear, you just go and say you do it, then can you do it well? Can you say yes? It's obviously Henan's. Lin Rou also came back to her senses, she looked at Little Goose and Little Ni, bastard, what's wrong? You look like you still have something on your mind.
Xiaowen and Xiaoni smiled and didn't say anything, they told Lin Rou that they felt that she had something on her mind and wanted to know what Lin Rou was thinking.
Lin Rou said that she remembered a friend from the past, who had a good relationship, and then broke up because she did something wrong.
I'm thinking about how to salvage that relationship.
Xiao Ni thought for a while and said. If it's your problem, wait for her to fix it. No, if it's your problem, then you take the initiative to fix it, if it's not your problem. Then you'll wait for her to redeem it, if you both might have some problems.
Then you don't have to put your posture very low. Because she would feel. You don't have a problem at all. She didn't have a problem at all. When your posture is particularly low, she will feel that she has no problem at all.
This is a very dangerous thing for you. After Lin Rou heard Xiaoli's words, she also thought about it seriously. As if this is indeed the case. If you don't think you're okay with it. Or if you really don't have two people who have problems, but you only have one person to remedy, she may feel that all the problems are you, she owes nothing, you will only become more nowhere and she will only become more arrogant, sometimes human nature is like this, right.
I read a good sentence before, that is, the more I care about you, the more you will see my care for you, as a bargaining chip for me to deal with you. This is actually a very sad thing
But sometimes.
What do you mean? What's the use of this thing?
。 A lot of times it's really like this, so you have to learn not to express one thing so bluntly, if you drag yourself out completely, then when she deals with you, it will become extra easy, you have to learn to hide. Lin Rou was also thoughtful after listening to Xiao Ni's words.
Sometimes that's the case. A lot of times, people come across all sorts of problems and then find ways to solve them.
Xiaowen said at this time: "Many times this is indeed the case, what do you say, I think, if you quarrel with someone, if you also apologize, then she did not forgive you, on the one hand, it must be because of the fact that many wounds caused by it can not be healed by saying an apology, it is not an apology, it just says that it begins to heal, but healing takes time to recover, and you also need to apply medicine, if you don't help apply medicine, you don't want to recover time, I don't want to wait for time to recover, then I am destined to be a difficult thing."
After Lin Rou listened, she also fell into deep thought, in fact, what Xiaowen and Xiaoni said was not wrong, sometimes many things take time to heal, it is useless for you to work your own, the harder you work, the more you may have the opposite, the more the reaction may cause the other party's wound to crack, and the more it may lead to the other party's wound not healing. So you must learn to practice and learn to use the time reasonably to heal the wounds between you
Otherwise it would be a very bad result, you tried hard, but she didn't forgive you, you tried, but she still couldn't understand you, you tried to repair the relationship, but she thought you were just making it up to you, just doing what you were supposed to do, you made such a big mistake now, you took it for granted now
Don't let the other person have such an idea, because this will cause a more terrible result, because the harder you try, the more she hates you, really don't do this, but if her heart is very good, she may also understand your distress. But there is no need to pin this kind of thing on someone else
(End of chapter)