Looking at Li Xianyun, who was eating steak, Shen Xueyi was still a little unwilling: "So, because you are a big boss, you can ignore the dignity of others?" We, who defend our dignity, have become a joke? ”

Although the content is questioning, the tone has softened a lot.

Li Xianyun pointed to the seat opposite, but Shen Xueyi didn't sit down.

She's still sticking to her bottom line.

Li Xianyun said: "So you think that if you stand and look at me, you are a step above me?" ”

Shen Xue was stunned, and finally sat down indignantly.

At this time, the store manager came to deliver the food again, and Li Xianyun said: "The same dish, another one." ”

Shen Xueyi said: "I don't eat." ”

"I didn't ask you if you ate it, I used it to feed the dogs, do you like to eat it." Li Xianyun said.

The store manager smiled and left.

Li Xianyun said: "Dignity is a good thing, do you know why it's good?" ”

Shen Xueyi was stunned for a while, not knowing how to answer for a while.

Li Xianyun said with a smile: "I have seen many people talk to me about dignity, and I have also seen many people not talk about this. Do you know what the biggest difference between these two types of people is? ”

Shen Xueyi shook her head.

Li Xianyun said: "The vast majority of people who talk about dignity are poor. ”

Shen Xueyi looked at him in surprise.

Li Xianyun said: "Maybe you don't believe it, but this is the truth." The poorer a person is, the more he wants to save face and pay more attention to dignity. ”

As he spoke, he pointed at Shen Xueyi: "The luxury goods you wore today, many ordinary people also want to have." Why? Because of face! To have them is to have face, and to have so-called dignity. Ever heard those jokes? The real top luxury items are disposable, not for washing and then reusing. It's not a joke, it's a fact. How many rich people would grab a luxury item and wear it repeatedly? Anyway, Li Xiaoxiao has a bunch of luxury goods in her hands, some of which she has not worn, but there will never be more than three times. ”

Li Xianyun said and sneered: "Do you know why poor people love to save face? Because that's the easiest to get. As long as you puff up your chest and shout a few words loudly not to bully the poor young man, you can get endless satisfaction. It's like stepping on the soles of the rich people's feet...... That's the easiest and most convenient way for them to satisfy their hearts. Simple! Yes, that's why it's easy for the poor to talk about dignity, because it's the easiest way to get it. Isn't it just a few cruel words? Isn't it just that you are neither humble nor arrogant in the face of the boss? Treat the boss as a fart, it's a big deal, what can the boss do to me? The way to obtain dignity is so simple and convenient, of course, everyone is willing to save face and want dignity. ”

Shen Xueyi opened her mouth wide in surprise.

She didn't expect Li Xianyun to be so disdainful.

Li Xianyun continued: "But I'm sorry, the dignity of the poor is really not valuable. As I said, I have seen two types of people, and there is another type of people, who are shameless and rich. Do you know Shen Weifeng of Shengda? ”

Shen Xueyi nodded.

Li Xianyun said: "On his first day in office, he ran from the capital and bowed his head to me like a pug to make peace, hoping that I would raise my noble hand and stop beating them. Shengda Media, the former leading boss, the new boss came to me and whispered. But what about him? I've seen too much, too much. They succeed because they never talk about dignity. ”

Saying that, Li Xianyun sneered: "The dignity of the poor is worthless, but the rich are used to shamelessness." Because they know that with money, there is face! ”

Saying that, Li Xianyun sighed: "People who don't have money, don't say that money is not good, and don't talk about me at every turn, although I am poor, my bones are hard." There is no point in working hard, being motivated, doing things that are not so easy to do, doing things that you don't want to do but have to do, just because it is good for you, is really motivated. ”

"Are you hinting at me?" Shen Xueyi asked.

Li Xianyun shook his head: "Are you still naïve to think that I am seducing you?" ”

As he spoke, he opened the phone and threw it to Shen Xueyi: "See for yourself how many women I have rejected, I want to have a face, I want to be famous." Don't think too much of yourself, it's the first step for you to recognize reality, and I'll tell you this because you still have a little potential. ”

Shen Xueyi didn't get her phone after all.

She lowered her head and muttered, "I don't understand. ”

"Huh?"

Shen Xueyi said: "Why, employees and bosses can't communicate on an equal footing? Is it bad to have some corporal Lixian? If you understand it so well, why do you have to make your employees bow down to you? Do you think that kind of person is capable? That's just a bunch of sycophants! ”

Hearing this, Li Xianyun smiled.

He thought for a moment and said, "Here are several questions, and I can answer them." But I don't like to answer other people's questions casually. If I answer you, you have to promise me two things. ”

"What?" Shen Xueyi will no longer be naïve to think that the condition is to go to bed.

Li Xianyun said: "First, face what I say with a clear head, instead of being rash and wishful not to accept it. Some people have shit stuffed in their heads, and if you reason with them, they won't listen to them at all. I don't care about people like that. ”

Shen Xueyi nodded: "I will be fair...... Uh, listen objectively. ”

"Second, if you agree with me, show me a dance."

Shen Xueyi was surprised: "Here? ”

"It's too small here, in the hall. Wait until you have eaten well. ”

"Do you want me to agree with you?"

"Yes."

Shen Xueyi thought about it, and finally nodded: "Okay!" ”

Li Xianyun said: "First of all, let me answer you, why can't you communicate on an equal footing. Let me tell you a real-life example, that was the first time I made a movie, the ghost battle in the secret room......"

Li Xianyun gave a general account of Hitchcock's zoom.

Shen Xueyi was stunned after hearing this: "They actually fooled you? ”

Li Xianyun smiled: "Yes, fool me." You know why? Because I was so weak. I was a first-time director, and I wasn't confident enough, so I wanted to be as humble as possible and listen to other people's opinions. But when you are humble, it also invisibly shows your weak side. Oh yes, and another time, before that, there was a time when I was trying to be a director myself, and I wanted to make some short videos. I found a few students, the students who didn't graduate, and sent them the script and asked them to buy props. The props of the short video are very simple, and according to the needs of the script, they can be done for dozens of dollars. Do you know how much they bought? ”

"How much?"

"Nine hundred!" Li Xianyun replied.

This is not Li Xianyun's experience here, but his experience in the original world.

College students may not have enough life experience, but they can be greedy for money without a teacher.

Shen Xueyi looked at Li Xianyun in disbelief: "It's so dark?" ”

Li Xianyun smiled: "That's right, it's so dark!" A college student!! A college student dares to be so dark! But this is still small, I know that there are even darker ones in college, and one event can hack tens of thousands!! Can you believe it? These are all real things. I admit that there must be some good people in this world, but you can't deny that there is also a type of person, if you are weak, he will be hard, and if you are soft, he will bully, right? ”

Of course, Shen Xueyi believes that the world is generally beautiful, but at least she is not naïve enough to think that everyone is a good person, so she can only nod.

Li Xianyun said: "It doesn't matter whether the boss is right or not, the important thing to be a boss is to be dignified." How to maintain majesty? You come and tell me. "Fun Cabinet

Shen Xueyi bowed her head: "At the very least, be polite to the boss." ”

"Yes, but not only that, but even keep your distance, scold what you should scold, and even scold what you shouldn't." Li Xianyun looked at the black truffle crystal crab meat pomegranate fruit in his hand, tasted it slowly, and said, "So most of the time, I won't say this to my own employees." There are some truths that you should not even teach them, they must understand for themselves. If you say that, they will know what you think, they will understand you, they will master you, and they will even look down on you...... Society is a horse racing model, and those who can't figure it out will be eliminated directly. ”

He looked at Shen Xueyi and said, "Not every employee has the opportunity to be taught a lesson like this by the boss." ”

Shen Xueyi bowed her head: "Thank you." ”

Li Xianyun smiled: "Very good, you will at least say thank you." ”

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