"This is the end of this family meeting."

"If there's anything else, you can come to me directly."

Lu Changsheng looked at his wife and concubines and children, and said loudly.

He also realized that in this kind of scene, it was difficult for wives and concubines and children to speak freely.

If the problem said by the concubine involves the family system and children, it seems that he, the head of the family, the person who is the father, and they are not disciplined well as the aunt.

If a child talks about some problems, it may affect the relationship between siblings and family harmony.

"Yes!"

When the others heard this, they all stood up and answered.

Then Lu Changsheng, Ling Zixiao, Lu Miaoge and others walked out of the meeting hall.

"Sister Miaoge, Zixiao, what problems do you think needs to be improved in terms of the family system?"

After returning to the Hall of Eternal Life, Lu Changsheng looked at Lu Miaoge and Ling Zixiao and asked.

He feels that in addition to the profit aspect of his family, the family atmosphere and system must be paid attention to.

At present, in terms of family rules, it is roughly similar to Qingzhushan.

But Lu Changsheng has a very clear understanding that his own family is completely different from the Lu family in Qingzhu Mountain.

The Lu family in Qingzhushan has a history of hundreds of years, and the family relationship is relatively much weaker, so it pays more attention to rules and family rules.

And his family is currently a family.

It's better to say it's a family, but it's still a big family.

As the head of the family, he doesn't take care of things much on weekdays, and he is more casual about most affairs.

Lu Miaoyun, Qu Zhenzhen and others also watched their children grow up.

In this case, the children will not be too strict and will behave in a completely regular manner.

"Lang Jun, in terms of the family system, the concubine thinks that there are a few points that need to be paid attention to."

After Ling Zixiao glanced at Lu Miaoge, he said with a light smile.

"Zixiao can just say it."

Lu Changsheng said loudly.

He knew that he was mediocre in family management, so he was very willing to follow advice.

"Lang Jun, I think that if you want to Lingtian, fishery, medicine garden, and family shop, cooperation, etc., you should hand it over to the children to do."

"In this way, not only can all the children have something to do, but they can also be sharpened and improve the family culture."

"Otherwise, if you keep letting Miaoyun and them take care of it, it's really not good for the family."

Ling Zixiao opened his mouth and said.

"Why?"

Lu Changsheng raised his eyebrows and asked out loud.

"Lang Jun, if Miaoyun and the others make mistakes in some family affairs, will you punish them?"

Ling Zixiao asked with a smile.

"Hmm"

Lu Changsheng was stunned when he heard this, and immediately realized that there was a problem.

He shook his head and said honestly, "Probably not, at most two sentences." ”

"That's it, Miao Yun and they are already in charge of many things at home, and now they have to be responsible for these, they are very busy, maybe they have made a small mistake, or they can't handle the affairs at home properly."

"In this case, Lang Jun, you won't say anything, and others will naturally not say it, if it is like this for a long time, it will seem that the family rewards and punishments are unknown."

Ling Zixiao came to the table and sat down, with a dignified and elegant demeanor, poured a cup of tea, and continued: "Now there are many children in the family, and when they are fourteen or fifteen years old, they can arrange to do things. ”

"Don't be afraid to make mistakes at the beginning, the family gives them enough trial and error costs."

"Besides, the child is doing something wrong and not doing it well, we as elders can teach it, say a few words, and the children in the family will not be resentful."

"If the child feels biased about what the elders are doing and does not do well, you don't say it, where dare they say it."

Ling Zixiao drank tea and said with a smile.

"Changsheng, Sister Ling's words make sense."

When Lu Miaoge heard this, he also sat aside and said loudly.

"That's true."

Lu Changsheng nodded.

Being like this by Ling Zixiao, he clearly realized the problem.

"Sooner or later, these things will have to be handed over to the children, so it's better to let them do it now."

"During this period, if someone does a good job, they will be rewarded more, which will also encourage other children in the family to do more."

"For example, a child with a good spiritual root talent, or a talent for skills, will concentrate on cultivation, focus on skills, or do some light things, and don't have to spend too much time on affairs."

"As for the fact that I really don't have talent and talent, let Miaoyun arrange to start a family as soon as possible, and it's not a problem to raise some idlers at home."

"Besides, having a few more children can also be regarded as a contribution to the family."

Ling Zixiao smiled lightly and continued.

"Changsheng, in fact, like Xianzhi, Ruyi, Quanzhen does it very well, so you can let the children try to do all these things."

"If you do it well, it can also play an encouraging and driving role."

"And Miaoyun, Huanhuan and they can also focus on internal affairs and cultivation."

Lu Miaoge nodded slightly, agreeing with Ling Zixiao's opinion.

"Okay, I'll talk to Yun'er and Huanhuan about this later."

When Lu Changsheng heard this, he nodded and said.

As Ling Zixiao said, the family can afford it now, and there is enough cost of trial and error.

In this way, it is also convenient for oneself to teach and arrange according to the aptitude of one's children through their talents.

Otherwise, like now, if you give a simple arrangement, you won't pay much attention to it in the future, which will not only affect Lu Miaoyun's arrangement, but also not be thorough enough to tap your children's talents.

In addition, he himself is aware of a problem.

Many of the things that children do are designated by him and Lu Miaoyun.

In this way, some concubines and children may have some opinions in their hearts.

According to what Ling Zixiao said, all affairs are subdivided and done according to ability.

There are rewards for doing well, and if you don't do well, you will be replaced.

If you can't do anything, then take the basic benefits at home.

Let the family arrange marriage, get married early, and have more children.

After the three chatted for a while, Lu Changsheng directly called Lu Miaoyun, Lu Miaohuan, and Qu Zhenzhen.

Whether it was him, Ling Zixiao, or Lu Miaoge, they didn't actually interfere and paid too much attention to the affairs of the family.

So the three of them chatted and chatted, and they still called Lu Miaoyun, Lu Miaohuan and others to understand the actual situation of the family.

After Lu Changsheng expressed his thoughts, Lu Miaoyun and Lu Miaohuan naturally had no opinions on this aspect.

As Ling Zixiao said, as the housewife of the housekeeper, they were originally a lot of miscellaneous things.

Now he is in charge of a bunch of family affairs, and he is indeed very busy, and he has no time to cultivate on weekdays.

Fortunately, like Lu Miaohuan, through the high-level Breaking Pill, he broke through the seventh layer of Qi refining.

Lu Miaoyun has not broken through the seventh layer of qi refining until now.

"Okay, Yun'er, Huanhuan, Zhenzhen, family affairs, personnel affairs, I still want you to pay more attention."

"As for the spiritual field, fishery, medicine garden, shops, cooperative business, etc., don't worry, you roughly divide it, and then we will see how to arrange it."

Lu Changsheng spoke up and said.

"Yes, husband."

The women replied.

After discussing the situation, everyone talked about the personality of the children at home.

Lu Miaoyun said that people like Lu Ping'an and Lu Xianzhi at home are still relatively real.

But some young children nowadays are indeed relatively stubborn.

On the one hand, there are too many children in the family, and there is no way to discipline everything.

On the other hand, it is also related to the family growth environment.

When Lu Changsheng was the son-in-law of Qingzhu Mountain, the life of the children in the family was a little restrictive.

Now, with Lu Changsheng's status, the status of these wives and concubines and children has also risen, resulting in a somewhat impactful personality of the children.

After chatting with his wife, Lu Changsheng walked out of the Hall of Eternal Life and went to talk to his children.

In his opinion, his old father's main job in the family is to do coordination.

He first found his eldest son Lu Ping'an.

Ask the son what he thinks of the current situation in the family.

Although Lu Ping'an's personality is a little boring and upright, he still sees many things very clearly.

In his opinion, the biggest problem in the family is the problem of brotherly harmony.

There are so many brothers in the family, and it is not much close and friendly.

"Ugh."

When Lu Changsheng heard this, he sighed slightly.

He didn't know what to say.

Not to mention closeness and friendliness and brotherly harmony, in his opinion, it is estimated that some children will be jealous because of their partiality, selfishness, and unfairness.

It's just that in front of the family, the big right and wrong, it will not be revealed.

After chatting with Lu Ping'an for a while, he chatted with his son Lu Xianzhi and daughter Lu Ruyi for a while.

Lu Xianzhi's opinion is a bit similar to Lu Ping'an.

There are a few responsibilities of the eldest brother in the family.

also shows that his talent and talent are average, but he is so favored by Lu Changsheng, he is really ashamed.

If her daughter Lu Ruyi is concerned, she doesn't feel much about it, she feels that this is not bad now, and she is very happy.

When he found Lu Quanzhen, the other party was taking Lu Miaozhen to Hushan Town, looking for two other younger brothers and sisters to play.

"Father, the child has seen his father!"

"Daddy, Daddy, why are you here?"

Seeing Lu Changsheng, the four of them immediately shouted.

Lu Quanzhen and his son Lu Huaizhen saluted respectfully to the mature point.

Lu Miaozhen and Lu Yuzhen's two daughters were much closer, and they stepped forward with a smile.

"Hehe, at today's family meeting, my father thinks that there are indeed many aspects of the family that have no scruples in place, so I came to talk to you and listen to your thoughts."

"And I think Quan Zhen should have something to say when he is in the conference today."

Lu Changsheng looked at his children and said with a smile.

As he spoke, he looked at Lu Quanzhen and said gently: "Quanzhen, if you have something to say in the future, you can say it in private, or pass on the voice to your father, there is no need to say it in public, such words will affect the harmony between your brothers." ”

"Daddy, brother, he also has good intentions, he has no other meaning."

Lu Miaozhen thought that her father was coming to teach, so she grabbed Lu Changsheng's arm and said coquettishly.

"Father, I think this kind of thing has to be said on this occasion to have an effect."

When Lu Quanzhen heard this, his face turned straight and said in a deep voice.

"Aren't you worried that your words will dislike others?"

Lu Changsheng smiled.

He knew that his son was precocious and assertive.

A few years ago, he sent Lu Quanzhen to Ruyi County, where Hong Yi worked under him, and Hong Yi also praised Lu Quanzhen.

said that Lu Quanzhen was calm and decisive.

But in fact, as this son gets older, he really doesn't know much about this son.

"Don't worry, if they are displeased and resentful because I mentioned this matter, it means that these people and the family are not on the same mind, and they don't regard me as a younger brother or brother, so why should I care about them?"

Lu Quanzhen's eyes were deep, and he said calmly.

When Lu Changsheng heard his son's words, he raised his eyebrows, probably understanding his concept and thoughts.

He continued, "And what else do you think about this?" ”

"Father, in the eyes of a child."

Lu Quanzhen's eyebrows rose slightly, and he slowly said his thoughts.

Lu Changsheng listened quietly.

His son Lu Quanzhen's thoughts about the family are different from his concepts and concepts.

It's basically about emphasizing rules and ignoring family affection.

As Lu Quanzhen said, as a member of the family, he should share the hardships with the family and contribute to the family.

If there is a lack of this idea, it means that there is a lack of a sense of belonging to the family and that they do not regard themselves as a member of the family.

This set of words even forms a closed loop, you contribute to the family, and everyone is a family.

If you don't contribute to the family, you are not considered your own person, and you are not polite to this kind of person.

"Brother, it's all a family, so you don't need to be so strict."

"Besides, everyone has different aspirations, and Daddy has always said that it's good to be happy."

Lu Yuzhen, who was next to him, stuck out his tongue and said so.

"There's nothing to ask for, just be happy."

When Lu Changsheng heard this, he looked at his daughter thoughtfully.

If you think about it carefully, it seems that you have never asked for anything from your children, just be happy.

Even if you go through the system, you can see the talents of your children, and many things will still follow your children's own wishes.

He thought that before, his son Lu Wuyu told him about the Lu family in Ruyi County.

It means that the children of the Lu family will definitely be a domineering generation, and they need to be strictly controlled.

In fact, his current Lu family in Bihu Mountain also has a certain trend in this regard.

"I'm a father, and I'm really too casual about this."

"If it's a big family, it naturally doesn't matter, but now that the Immortal Cultivation Family is established, it still has to have a bit of a family appearance."

"After all, my original intention in establishing the family was to give my children a better environment for them to grow up, so that they can continue to grow through the family."

"Instead of relying on me alone, I will hold up the family and everyone."

Lu Changsheng thought in his heart.

He looked at Lu Quanzhen and said, "Your thoughts are roughly understood by my father, but this kind of thing can't be done all at once." ”

"My father also discussed this matter with your mother and several aunts today."

Lu Changsheng slowly said to Lu Quanzhen.

Since his son has ideas, he is also willing to talk more to the other party.

However, his thoughts are still as Ling Zixiao said, and he will change through guidance.

After all, the current situation of the family has not reached the point where Lu Quanzhen said, and it needs to rely entirely on the clan rules.

After chatting with his son Lu Quanzhen, the sky gradually darkened, and Lu Changsheng took his children to the Lu family's mansion for dinner.

He naturally doesn't need to eat or drink in this cultivation, but he occasionally fills his appetite.

Moreover, the monk's consumption of spiritual rice and spiritual food is also helpful for spiritual practice.

In the next few days, Lu Changsheng chatted with the children in the family, cared about the situation, and prepared in advance for the change of the family system.

Half a month later, Lu Changsheng issued a new family rule, and all family children can take the initiative to apply for family affairs when they reach the age of 14.

If you haven't broken through the fourth layer of qi refining at the age of sixteen, it will be arranged by the family.

Every year, the family calculates the benefits of the next year according to the progress of the repair, the family's contribution, and the moral outlook.

(End of chapter)