Chapter 138: I really want to work together
In less than ten minutes, so many questions can appear, how much this audience wants to interact, and they really want to make trouble.
There are many questions that can't be answered at all, such as: Shen Lang, why did you and Liu Tianxian break up.
Also: Shen Lang, you have always asked everyone not to be a licking dog, do you think your behavior towards Liu Tianxian is a licking dog
Also: Shen Lang, do you have a girlfriend now, have you ever been with Ni Ni, it's a mess.
Of course, there are also simple ones, such as what kind of girl you like, this one has a regular answer, just say it.
Of course, many of them are difficult questions, and the program team thinks a lot about it, maybe they want to let themselves talk about this in this show, and there is a topic.
However, there are always normal problems, Shen Lang took a look, and this question is quite good.
"Mentor, I've been with my girlfriend for three years, every time I quarrel, she says to break up, every time I apologize, she is happy after apologizing, I know, I don't want her to leave, but I hate this situation, I often have the idea of breaking up, but after all, I've been together for three years, I'm a little reluctant, mentor, give me an analysis, I'm love or habit."
This question is still relatively in-depth, of course, it is not too difficult to answer, and the routine point answer is that love will slowly become a habit and so on.
"This friend's question is very sharp, then let me answer, you may really be a habit, not love." Shen Lang's answer was unexpected, and his answer became more sharp.
"Why?" baby spoke directly, gossiping.
"You can see in this friend's question, he said twice in three years, what he said.
When two people quarrel, when you choose to apologize for her happiness, you may think that I have been with her for three years, and there are already sunk costs, both emotionally and financially.
My own analysis may be wrong, what you are thinking is that if you don't apologize, your sunk costs in the past three years will be completely wasted, this is not called love, this is called accounting.
Or your idea is that if you don't apologize to her, she will leave you, you don't care about the sunk cost, you just want to keep her.
Then, her departure is the only meaning of your retention, you must keep her, this is no longer love, it is comparison.
What is real love, is that you have to apologize to her, because when you see her pitiful face, you have to apologize, this is love, just to make her happy, there is no reason. Shen Lang said.
Shen Lang's words silenced everyone, is the topic so heavy, but Wu Tong is very happy, Zhou Dongmei is very happy, and the topic is full again, Shen Lang's view of love.
"This is a bit unrealistic, it is difficult to make unconditional concessions, it can only be said to be a good wish." Someone began to question, the audience in the front row, Shen Lang heard it, he could not have answered, but he still said it.
In fact, when filming, someone didn't let the audience speak, otherwise there would be no way to shoot well.
Because my answer is based on this question, it may be a bit idealistic, and it is basically difficult to do, but love is like this.
Using a more cliché example to make a comparison, have you ever thought about it, my future partner must be tall, beautiful or other conditions, there may be three or four standards? I love what is satisfied, I don't love what is not satisfied.
But you may have also discovered that the standards are for people you don't like, and when the person who makes you really desperate appears, even if she doesn't meet any of them, you will still sink incorrigibly.
But for the person you don't love, even if his conditions meet your standards, you can still find a fifth, sixth, or even seventh or eighth reason not to love her.
Even if they are together, the standards are met, in fact, this is just a trade-off, of course, this is my family's words, love is different in everyone's understanding, there is no right answer. Shen Lang said.
This is really heavy, to be honest, nowadays, this situation is common, love is not about love, it is appropriate, and it is more naïve to say love.
Shen Lang actually knew that what he said was too idealistic, but he didn't say it to himself, but to others.
In fact, Shen Lang wanted to say a lot, but the occasion was wrong, and it would be too hypocritical to say too much.
Shen Lang withdrew, there was no politeness with others, as long as he could go, they still had to shoot, the material had to be more, Shen Lang was a semi-cameo mercenary.
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After returning to the hotel to rest for a while, I went straight to the cinema, and the premiere of "Detective Chinatown" came.
"Sister Tiantian, I haven't seen you for a long time, I finally have a chance to meet you, it's not easy." Shen Lang said to Da Tiantian, at this moment, he has arrived at the place where he is waiting to be on the red carpet.
"Come less, it seems like I haven't seen you for a long time, when your movie premiered, I went." Big Sweet Sweet Road.
"Haven't you heard a word, I haven't seen you for a day, like every three autumns, no kidding, how are you doing?" Shen Lang said.
"In general, there are no record-breaking movies at the box office." Da Tiantian joked.
In fact, Da Tiantian spoke very gently, but it doesn't mean that she doesn't joke, Shen Lang and her can still talk about going together, and I don't want to think about it, Shen Lang was in the crew of "The Great Wall" at the time, and if it's okay, just communicate with her, and the relationship is still okay.
Otherwise, the partner who walked the red carpet today would not be Da Tiantian, by the way, it was not Shen Lang who invited her, Shen Lang just knew that she came.
It's normal for her to come, isn't it normal for Wanda to come to the movie that Wanda invested.
"It's okay, it's not easy to break the record, it's not easy to be the highest, it's difficult to be the lowest, but it's certainly not that difficult." Shen Lang said.
"Okay, if any movie is low at the box office, I know who to find." Da Tiantian joked.
"Speaking of which, I just want to tell you, there is a project I want to cooperate with you, are you interested?" Shen Lang remembered his "Zhu Xian".
As for what role Da Tiantian is suitable for, she is actually suitable for everything, although there is no her in the Eight or Five Flowers, but in fact she can replace anyone.
"What project?" Da Tiantian was a little surprised, although she has no shortage of projects, but Shen Lang is not an ordinary person.
Shen Lang himself is now a real sweetheart, a movie that has reached the top of film history, and it has added a lot to him.
And it's not just a movie that is lucky to have a high box office, it's several works one after another, even if it seems that there are external factors for each movie to have a high box office, but the box office is high, and the dividends are stable.
"I'm not in a hurry to send you the script when I go back, I'll have to finish these things at hand." Shen Lang said.
"Okay." Da Tiantian's gentleness is also full of honesty, Da Tiantian's character is really good, I really want to be scum, no, I really want to cooperate with her.
(End of chapter)