CHAPTER XXXI
Xiao Wang is enthusiastic and unrestrained, Xiao Li is half-lukewarm, and the relationship between the two is barely maintained. Xiaoli thought that as long as she survived like this, Xiao Wang would always leave her.
How the two ended up in the end, Xiaoli didn't think about it, just live one day at a time, as for what the result will be, only God knows.
Xiaoli clearly told Xiao Wang; "We can talk to someone, but there is a condition, you can call me, but you can't come to the unit to find me."
Xiao Wang agreed very well on the surface, and still showed her face to Xiaoli's unit from time to time, which attracted the attention of her colleagues, and several people with good relationships asked Xiaoli; "Who is this lad? Is that your object? ”
Xiaoli replied ambiguously; "He is the son of my father's old comrade-in-arms, we have known each other for a long time, he is idle, wandering around."
Colleagues joked about Xiaoli from time to time, which made Xiaoli very annoyed and difficult to say. But Xiao Wang is serious about her, he doesn't know Xiao Li's mind at all, he follows her wherever she goes, looking like she is stalking.
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Fang Wei's blind date in his hometown caused Xiaoli to be unhappy, it has been a few months, except for business matters, through a few phone calls, he rarely contacted Fang Wei, and the two have only met once or twice.
Fang Wei knew in his heart that Xiaoli was dealing with the object, and in order not to let Xiao Wang misunderstand, he rarely looked for Xiaoli, except for business matters.
Once, Fang Wei came to find Xiaoli, and it happened that Xiao Wang was also there, as soon as he saw Fang Wei, he spoke in a weird way, which made Xiaoli very embarrassed.
Fang Wei is a wise person, he took the initiative to stay away from Xiaoli, try not to disturb her, avoid affecting the relationship between her and Xiao Wang, and if he needs Xiaoli's help in business, he only talks about it on the phone.
Fang Wei's intentions, Xiaoli knew in her heart that things had come to this point, almost to the point of letting her accept her fate, of course, the persuasion of the unit leaders, the blowing of relatives and friends, and the encirclement in all aspects had a great relationship with her parents.
Xiaoli was unwilling, but helpless, the pressure from all sides, her artificial crush, can only be buried deep in her heart.
She also figured it out, the destiny of heaven cannot be violated, since the matter has come to this, she can only be forced to face the reality and prepare to have a love trip with Xiao Wang.
Xiaoli changed her original idea, when she gets along with Xiao Wang, she can endure it, and she can make peace with this, about Fang Wei, she must make it clear to him face to face, so as to avoid estrangement between the two in the future, she has explained many times; "Fang Wei is her childhood playmate, and he saved her life, it is not easy to go out alone, and it is also appropriate to help him."
No matter how Xiaoli explained, Xiao Wang agreed well in person, and after that, he still went his own way, seeing Fang Wei's foul language as usual, hurting people.
Xiao Wang is suspicious, his heart is small, and the difference between his inner darkness and his handsome appearance is 108,000 miles. Xiaoli often thinks that if she is forced to live with this kind of person for the rest of her life, she will not have a good life, and even if she is not angry, she will regret her death.
In real life, there are always some people who are glamorous in appearance and speak like a humble gentleman, which is very tempting. But when it comes to doing things, it is completely different, and the heart is extremely dirty, which is vividly displayed behind the scenes.
Xiaoli and Xiao Wang are not so much in love, but rather as a last resort, or in other words, just to complete a task given by their parents.
Xiaoli wanted to think for a while, hoping that Xiao Wang would change, but after getting along for a few months, Xiao Wang not only did not do as she expected, but intensified, the key is that his contempt for Fang Wei made Xiaoli really unbearable.
Xiaoli made a decisive decision, even if she offended everyone, she couldn't have the slightest hesitation, she had given Xiao Wang enough opportunities, but he was always unreasonable. If Xiao Wang is allowed to be so unreasonable entanglement, it will not be good for both parties, and sooner or later he will turn his face, so it is better to cut through the mess quickly and end the matter as soon as possible.
Thinking of this, Xiaoli decided to discuss it with her eldest sister immediately to see if she could find a way that would not hurt her feelings and would not affect the relationship between the two families.
After Xiaoli got off work, she drove directly to her eldest sister's house. When the eldest brother-in-law saw Xiaoli coming, he said with a smile; "You're really a rare guest, you haven't been to our house for a long time, which gust of wind blew you here?"
Xiaoli didn't answer positively and asked; "Is the eldest sister off work? Not at home? I'll talk to her about something. ”
The eldest brother-in-law immediately called the eldest sister out of the bedroom and said; "You accompany Xiaoli to talk, he will go and fry two more dishes, and treat the little sister well."
The eldest sister beckoned Xiaoli to sit down, she saw the clue from Xiaoli's anxious eyes, and said; "Seeing that you are in a hurry, you came to me to discuss something important, right?"
Xiaoli said; "It's still the eldest sister who is smart, and she guessed it as soon as she guessed."
Xiaoli picked up the phone next to her and asked the nanny to tell her mother that she was at the eldest sister's house and would not go back to eat at night, so there was no need to wait for her.
The eldest sister is so smart, she knows Xiaoli's intention, looks at the little sister and says with a smile; "It seems that you and Xiao Wang can't talk anymore, come to me to discuss, how to explain to your parents, right?"
Xiaoli said sadly; "Eldest sister, it's really hard to say. Xiao Wang has a lot of unacceptable problems, I have deliberately reminded many times, he didn't realize it at all, and he also used strong words, which really people can't bear. I wanted him to change something, which would be good for both parties, but it was far from being as easy as I thought, and if I continued like this, I would go crazy. ”
The eldest sister pondered for a moment and said; "Now that you have made up your mind not to talk to Xiao Wang anymore, how to explain it to your parents, there is no way to get the best of both worlds. Give me a moment and let me think about it, okay? ”
Xiaoli said; "Yes. No matter what the solution, as long as the parents can accept it, as for others, they can't control so much. However, you still have to hurry up and not delay it too long. ”
The eldest sister said; "A few days ago, I went home and mentioned you and Xiao Wang in front of my mother intentionally or unintentionally, wanting my parents to be mentally prepared in advance, so that everyone was caught off guard. I asked my mother; In case the two of you can't negotiate, will it affect the relationship between the two families? The mother didn't react much, as if she had a premonition, and only said one word; If you really get to that point, Xiao Wang's parents will understand. ”
Xiaoli said; "It's still the eldest sister who is thoughtful, it's right to greet her parents in advance, I can't say these words, and the words that come out of the eldest sister's mouth will definitely have a better effect."
The eldest brother-in-law came over and asked; "Is it said that you sisters are done? Aren't you hungry yet? Is it ready to be served? ”
Xiaoli looked at the eldest sister and said; "My matter is so decided, the next step is to ask the eldest sister to do the work of the parents, as long as they don't object, as for the matter between me and Xiao Wang Jin, I will have a way to solve it."
The brother-in-law has brought the meal to the table, the eldest sister beckoned Xiaoli to wash her hands, and during the meal, the eldest sister said; "It's easy for the two of you to break up at a moment's notice, but the point is that it's a little hard for both parents to accept it."
The eldest brother-in-law listened to the two sisters talking about how to solve the matter between him and Xiao Wang, and it was inconvenient for him to interject.
Xiaoli kept talking, and the eldest brother-in-law couldn't help laughing and said; "Xiaoli, it's really yours, let your eldest sister face so many relatives and friends alone, this is to put her on the fire and roast, it must be baked."
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About ten days later, Xiaoli came home from work, and after dinner, she was ready to watch TV. Hearing someone knocking on the door, the nanny quickly went over and opened the door, and it was the eldest sister's family who came in.
Xiaoli understood the eldest sister's intention, she was both happy and a little flustered, she didn't even say hello to the eldest sister, so she hurried upstairs and returned to her room.
Xiaoli closed the door and sat alone in front of the window, her heart pounding, she didn't even dare to make a sound, anxiously waiting for the result.
Xiaoli fidgeted, sat down for a while, stood up for a while, walked back and forth in the room, her mind was messy, and she felt very depressed.
She opened the window, looked out with a messy eye, glanced at the pedestrians on the road for a moment, and then looked off into the distance.
Xiaoli muttered silently; God willing, I hope that the eldest sister can negotiate a good result with her parents. After thinking about it, since I have made up my mind, I should be prepared to be scolded.
When she thought of this, her mood calmed down a lot and she was less anxious. She sat at her desk, took a book in her hand, flipped it indiscriminately, and didn't read a word.
Xiaoli lay on the bed and waited for a long time, but she didn't wait for the eldest sister's reply, and fell asleep unconsciously.
The next day, her parents didn't say anything, what kind of attitude was there, Xiaoli didn't know at all, but she was glad that last night passed without a shock.
A day passed, two days, and a week passed, and the parents were not in front of Xiaoli, and they didn't get angry when they mentioned Xiao Wang's matter, and the peaceful days were the same as before.
Xiaoli felt a little surprised, but her heart became uneasy, and finally she couldn't help but speak, saying; "Dad, Mom, Xiao Wang and I really can't get along, and we have very different views on many things, which makes you disappointed."
The mother was reasonable, and said; "Whatever decision you make, your dad and I can understand, it's mostly up to you. Since you can't get together, then handle the relationship with Xiao Wang well, don't meet like enemies, this is not good. ”
Mother glanced at the old man and continued. "Xiao Wang's parents, I and your father have met, they are very reasonable, and they didn't say anything. Your Uncle Wang said, the twisted melon is not sweet, the children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and the children's affairs are up to them, we are old and can't manage so much. He also said that you should go to their house often, don't have any worries, the marriage will not work, and the love between the two families is still there. ”
Father said; "You used to think that your mother and I were both old antiques and didn't understand what you young people think, that would be a big mistake. Your mother and I have already seen the little Jiujiu in your heart, but we didn't stab it in person. If there is anything you can't tell us directly, you have to ask your eldest sister to pass the word in the middle, you are still a child after all, and you don't understand your parents' minds. What parent in the world would push their children into the fire pit? Who doesn't want their children to have a good life. As a parent's greatest wish, you are healthy, happy, and happy. No matter what I say now, you can't understand it, what you say is very good, and it's far from really understanding. Only when you get married and have children can you truly understand that parents have been worrying about their children all their lives. ”
Her father's words made Xiaoli feel very ashamed, and she didn't understand her parents' good intentions, and it was too undeserved. In her own marriage, her parents saw it better than herself, and they didn't blame her for a word, which was unexpected.
The open-mindedness of the parents, who are not bound by the noble and lowly backgrounds, has been reflected in the eldest sister in the past. The eldest sister's marriage, the parents were a little worried before, not because of the disparity in the status of the two families, but because one is in the countryside and the other is in the city, I am afraid that they will not be able to take care of each other in life in the future, and they will be prone to emotional problems, that's all.
Later, the eldest sister graduated from graduate school, and the eldest brother-in-law went from the countryside to the city, and the relationship between the two has always been very good, and the family lives very happily.
The parents saw it in their eyes and were happy in their hearts, and they were very satisfied with this son-in-law and treated him like their own son.
By the way, Xiaoli's second brother-in-law, although he is from the city, his family conditions are average, his parents are both working-class, and he is not a good match, but the two old people have a very close relationship, and the relationship between the in-laws is quite good.
The parents of the second brother-in-law often praise their in-laws in front of people, and they don't know which life has been blessed and climbed into relatives with high status.
Although Xiaoli's father is a senior cadre, he did not trade his children's marriages and married powerful and rich people. In the eyes of his father's colleagues, he was an alternative, and he was notoriously 'indulgent' of his children, and most of his colleagues found it difficult to understand and had some criticism of his father.
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Anyway, the relationship between her and Xiao Wang is finally over, emotionally liberated, and she can be free to fly herself in the future.
Xiaoli's hanging heart finally fell to the ground and began to imagine her new life. With her parents' understanding, the depression in her heart was gone, and she swept away the gloom that shrouded her heart in the past, and returned to her carefree state, humming a few pop songs when she was driving.
At that time, Lingnan was at the forefront of reform and opening up, and the government encouraged working staff to use their spare time to do some business.
There are a considerable number of office workers, who have both work and business. Xiaoli's work is relatively leisurely, and her colleagues in the unit have their own things, and they are busy with their own things, and no one cares about anyone.
Xiaoli can use her spare time to take care of their business with her partners.
Let's talk about how Xiaoli's business started, which started a few years ago; One of Xiaoli's best friends took a fancy to a business, mainly engaged in clothing and footwear wholesale, and her girlfriend researched and said that the prospects were very good, and she wanted Xiaoli to work with her.
The girlfriend said; "You don't have to worry about the day-to-day business, and you don't have to worry about it. I keep a clear record of the flow account, at the end of each month you can come to check the account, the profit is five or five points, you should go to work, if you have time, come and go around a circle, you can not come, the general small things, by me to deal with. When it comes to big things, we discuss them together. ”
Xiaoli thought that the business could make money so easily, so she agreed on the spot and asked some questions about how much money to invest, purchase channels and wholesale profits.
The girlfriend took out a clear and detailed list that had been prepared for a long time, let Xiaoli look at it, and then add some deficiencies.
Xiaoli looked at it carefully, felt that her best friend was very thoughtful, looked at her and said with a smile; "I've thought of everything I should have thought of, it seems that you have already 'premeditated'."
Xiaoli and her girlfriend negotiated the investment ratio, in principle, each accounted for 50%, how to operate specifically, the two of them set a few rules in detail.
Xiaoli has her thoughts, her best friend is not very rich in money, but the business depends on others, after all, she has a job, and it is impossible to have too much time, so she decided to invest 60% to make up for the shortcomings of less energy in business.
Don't think that Xiaoli has a hot head, and she will casually take out money to do business. She is not like this at all, no matter what she does, she is very cautious and will not invest blindly.
The reason why she was able to settle the business in less than two hours was based on the fact that the two were best friends. Xiaoli trusts her very much, she is in the same city, she knows her roots, and the two of them are like wearing a pair of pants together, regardless of each other.
At the end of the first time, Xiaoli only took 40% of the profit, and 60% went to her girlfriends. The girlfriend adheres to the original agreement and divides fifty-fifty. Xiaoli spent a lot of words and explained the stakes before convincing her.
Xiaoli thinks that her approach is wise, and she knows very well that although she invests 60% of her funds, if she does not have her best friend's hard work, the business will not be good, and she will not make much money, so how can she get a real profit of 40%.
Xiaoli's atmosphere moved her best friend very much, and she worked harder to do business, all aspects were well organized, and her business was smooth.
In the second year, my girlfriend was too busy to be alone, so I hired two errands and miscellaneous workers, and the stall became bigger and bigger, with more people and more customers, and when the general ledger was calculated at the end of the year, the business volume was several times higher than that of the first year.
Xiaoli thinks that the rich have more money, the powerful more force, and do not suspect each other, which is the basis of the partnership business.
Xiaoli thinks that as long as the profits are properly distributed, it can not only improve the enthusiasm of the partners, but also protect their respective interests, which can be described as killing two birds with one stone.
Doing business is not a difficult task, as long as you can find a partner who understands, the business will definitely get better and better, and it will last longer and longer, and wealth will naturally roll in.