Chapter 193: Talking about experience

I called Yue Jinming's office, but no one answered. In the past, Ma Xiaole's first reaction was that he was not there, but now he doesn't think so, unfortunately Yue Jinming is messing around with Xiao Liu of the cadre department, and he doesn't have time to answer the phone.

Go directly to the county party committee compound.

The doorman saw that it was Ma Xiaole, so he naturally let him go. Ma Xiaole asked if Minister Yue was there, and the doorman said yes, and Minister Yue was usually in the office.

Ma Xiaole couldn't help grinning and went straight up to knock on the door.

This knock was very gentle, accompanied by a gentle call of "Minister Yue, I am Ma Xiaole".

After coming over for a while, the door opened, Yue Jinming poked his head out and looked, there was no one in the corridor, so he turned around and said hello.

Xiao Liu walked out indifferently, "Minister Yue, I'll go first, and I'll go back and sort out the materials." ”

"Well, okay, go get busy, hurry up." Yue Jin played the bomber, and Xiao Liu left.

Ma Xiaole looked at Xiao Liu's back, smiled, and was about to speak, Yue Jinming pulled him in, "Talk about it in the house." ”

"Minister Yue, you spent a lot of money on her, right?" Ma Xiaole was not polite, and sat on the sofa as soon as he entered the room.

"Oh, little brother, you don't understand this." Yue Jinming poured a glass of water for Ma Xiaole, "Do you need to spend money?" ”

"Then can she still take up her time for nothing?" Ma Xiaole took the water cup, put it on the coffee table, took out a cigarette and handed it to Yue Jinming, "Minister Yue, don't be angry if you say something, how to say it, if you are younger, you can understand, you are in your fifties, then Xiao Liu and you are in vain, what is the picture?" ”

"You don't understand, I call her Xiao Liu, in fact, she is not young, thirty-five or sixteen." Yue Jinming smiled and said, "There is some content in this regard, do you want to listen to it?" ”

"Minister Yue, you said that experience should be good at learning and learning, I listened carefully!" Ma Xiaole lifted Erlang's legs and leaned back on the sofa, "Maybe I can use it in the future." ”

"Hey, hey." Yue Jinming flicked the cigarette ash into the ashtray and said, "Little brother, you remember, women, to be precise, should be married older women, what else do they have to ask for capital?" Speaking of this, he picked up the purple clay pot, took a small sip of water with a "hiss", and continued: "No! All they have is a need! ”

"Oh." Ma Xiaole nodded and looked at Yue Jinming, indicating that he was listening very seriously.

Yue Jinming continued to say proudly: "Their needs are very strong, especially the men in the family, so it's even worse!" Roughly divided into an age group, thirty to fifty years old, women in this age group, as long as there is a slight possibility, will not lose time, understand? ”

"Yes, of course I do." Ma Xiaole smiled, "Minister Yue, it seems that you are old and strong!" can also submit Ms. Xiao Liu! ”

"Well, you can't say that." Minister Yue said, "I don't hide it from you, like the one in my family, how can I be interested in working hard with her?" I can cope with it, I can't hold it back, so although I am in my fifties, I still have so much energy. But at Xiao Liu's age, her energy is strong, although my sword is not old, but I am still a little powerless, fortunately, soft skills can make up for hard power, and in general, it can still satisfy her. ”

"Sure enough, he deserves to be a minister!" Ma Xiaole said with a smile, "The analysis of problems is always so in-depth, which makes me infinitely useful!" ”

"It's not over yet." Yue Jinming laughed and said, "Of course, it doesn't mean that a man can do whatever he wants if he has that ability, that's not good, there has to be a premise!" ”

"What's the premise?"

"Let women feel safe!" Yue Jinming said, "Take me and Xiao Liu as an example, she feels safe to do that kind of thing with me, and it won't cause her any trouble." Little brother, do you know that women cheat and cheat, and they pay the most attention to safety! What does this security come from? ”

"The power is so high that they feel dependent?" Ma Xiaole said.

"There's a reason for that, but it's not entirely true." Yue Jinming leaned forward, "The key is to make them feel psychologically safe, that is, you have to convince them that you are a good person!" ”

"Good guys?" Ma Xiaole said, "What standards do good people have, it's not easy to grasp, and if you don't get it right, it will be considered hypocrisy." ”

"It's not complicated, just show the three basic principles." Yue Jinming stood up and twisted his waist, "First, we must show that we are sincere and do not deceive others, second, we must show that our attitude is not sticky, and third, we must show that our strength is not lost." ”

"Minister Yue, to explain specifically, it is difficult to understand highly generalized things." Ma Xiaole smiled, he never thought that Yue Jinming, who used to look serious and serious, would have such a side.

"Understandable!" Yue Jinming raised his head and smiled, "To show sincerity and not to deceive others, you must be honest and make them feel that you are real and not a liar; shows that the attitude is not sticky, that is, it is good to gather and disperse, and you can't be wrapped around it with a dead face; Show that the strength is not lost, hehe, that is, to show that you have a good capital, if you don't have a good capital, you have a good ability, and if you don't have a good ability, you have a good skill! ”

"Good tricks?"

"That's right." Yue Jinming said, "That kind of thing is not about the length of the matter, but about the skills!" ”

……

For more than an hour, Ma Xiaole listened to Yue Jinming talk endlessly, which was really delicious. But looking back, he knew all this, but he didn't summarize it carefully.

This is experience, what the subconscious grasps may not be considered a little ability, but once it is summarized, it is a valuable experience, so Ma Xiaole sighed in his heart, it seems that this experience should not only be good at learning and learning, but also be better at summarizing.

"Little brother, take a good look at it." Yue Jinming looked at Ma Xiaole with a smile, "As long as you hold the essence, it doesn't matter if they are officials or businessmen, and no matter how big an official or businessman they are, they can still win it!" ”

"Minister Yue, I have written down your teaching, hehe, I'm afraid I'm useless."

"That's the best, it's better not to use it, this kind of thing is disgraceful after all." Yue Jinming said, "By the way, what did you come to me for, it was all far away just now, and it hasn't gotten to the point yet." ”

Ma Xiaole realized that he hadn't talked about the business yet, so he said that he was not taken seriously in the chemical plant.

After hearing this, Yue Jinming said with a solemn expression, "Alas, it's really hard to say now, since the Hongqi Chemical Plant was restructured, everything has become uncontrollable. ”

"Minister Yue, anyway, it's a transition wherever I go, so it's better for me to do something by myself, and it can be regarded as a real suspension of pay." Ma Xiaole said, "Staying in the Hongqi Chemical Plant is probably also an ornament, and it is purely torturous." ”

"Want to do something?" When Yue Jinming heard this, he was a little surprised.

"I haven't thought about it yet, I'm thinking about it." Ma Xiaole replied.

"Oh." Yue Jinming thought for a while and nodded slightly, "No matter what you do, you have to be careful not to make a mess, or there will still be trouble." ”

"Well, Minister Yue, not necessarily." Ma Xiaole said, "It's not easy to do things on my own, maybe I still have to lie down in the chemical plant honestly." ”

"Okay, you can do it." Yue Jinming said, "Anyway, I will do my best to help you, you don't have to doubt this, because you also know that helping you is actually helping myself indirectly." ”

Ma Xiaole did not doubt this, and left Yue Jinming's office very comfortably. However, at the gate of the compound, he met Ji Yuanhua, and his mood suddenly plummeted. Thinking that he started from the unhappiness in Shagang Township, until now, almost all of them were Ji Yuanhua's ghosts, how can I feel comfortable?

"Yo, Director Ma!" Ji Yuanhua held his bag and asked Ma Xiaole with a wicked smile, "The new position is okay." ”

Although Ma Xiaole was so angry that the roots of his teeth itched, he couldn't show it. "Well, not really." He smiled bitterly and said, "Director Ji, I don't have that fate, what is wrong with it, I also admit it, I can have a bowl to eat, but now, even the bowl is gone, it really can't be done, I still have to go back to our township, and then I can't go back to the village to contract the orchard and farm, I can't go hungry." ”

"Go home and farm? How could that be! Ji Yuanhua seemed to be very unhappy, "We are all from Shagang Township, so we have to take care of each other, but now my ability is limited, and I can't show my strength in the county, and I can't help you anything, but if you really want to go back to the Shagang Township Government, I can still arrange it." ”

As soon as he heard this, Ma Xiaole really wanted to scold Ji Yuanhua: Help arrange Shagang Township? It's exactly what you want, right, there's no door! Don't think about it, it's not so easy to squeeze Lao Tzu away!

"Oh, that's good!" Ma Xiaole still had to pretend to be smiling, and he was relaxed and free in reality, "Director Ji, I'm really embarrassed, I really made you worry a lot!" ”

When Ji Yuanhua heard this, his face was a little wrong, and he felt that Ma Xiaole's words had something to say, but he wouldn't ask anything more, "You're welcome, who told us to have fate, even if you don't let me worry about it, then I have to take the initiative!" ”

Ji Yuanhua's words also have another meaning, of course Ma Xiaole can hear it, "Hehe, then thank you Director Ji, I will slowly return your affection in the future, the courtesy is still exchanged, nothing less is missing, and it has to be doubled!" ”

"Oh, that's good, that's good!" Ji Yuanhua said, stepped forward and patted Ma Xiaole's shoulder, and continued: "Then you have to work hard, you have to fight, you can't make any more trouble, what else?" You won't go back to your Xiaonanzhuang Village to plant apples or something, and supply me with apples for many years in return, right? ”

Being patted on the shoulder and talking, what is that? It can only be regarded as humiliation for Ma Xiaole!

Using up the last bit of endurance, Ma Xiaole squeezed out a smile and said no. Before Ji Yuanhua could answer, he continued to say that he would talk after leaving in advance, and turned his head and left.

"Ji Yuanhua, my day your mother!" Ma Xiaole scolded in his heart when he walked away, "What! Sooner or later, I'll make you suffer a good sin! ”

After scolding for a long time, he still didn't understand his hatred, Ma Xiaole quenched his mouth and spit, turned around and changed the direction, he was going back to his residence, but now he decided to go to the Environmental Protection Bureau to find Ge Rongrong and make a green hat for Ji Yuanhua!