Chapter 197: It's all the perception of life experience

"Oh? There is some truth to this, and in that case, young man, you can find a way to take a shortcut, so, perhaps... Well, in today's terms, it means that you can struggle for decades less, haha. ”

Qin Zhiyuan was looking at the Tai Chi old man in the distance, and he didn't notice that the face of the old man next to him showed a certain taste of mockery.

Hearing this, he turned his head to look at the old man and shook his head.

He said: "Old man, I don't have the backbone of not eating the food that comes from the mouth, but I have the pride of being strong and strong after thousands of blows. ”

"That's a bit of a contradiction."

There was no expression on the old man's face, but

"Old man, no contradictions. I can bear the humiliation, I can bear the humiliation of the crotch, as long as I live, there will be opportunities in the future. However, I can't do anything unscrupulous, the only thing I can do is to be round on the outside and square on the inside, and keep the middle and upright. ”

After Qin Zhiyuan finished speaking, he pursed his lips.

The old man looked at him in surprise and nodded.

"Young man, do you think I'm an old man nagging?"

The last person to nag Qin Zhiyuan was Du Changlong, the current secretary of Yingzi Township, and earlier, the person who chatted with Qin Zhiyuan was his father Qin Yuanzheng.

In fact, he needs a mentor to set up a lighthouse and a beacon for him to help him recognize the way forward and not go in the wrong direction.

"Old man, no, I want to thank you for asking me these few questions, which can be called spurs and alertness."

The old man smiled and nodded.

He stood up and said, "Young man, would you like to take a walk with me?" ”

Qin Zhiyuan nodded, there was nothing to do, it was good to meet such an interesting old man.

After walking around with the old man for about twenty minutes, they had already walked around the small park.

It seems that the old man talked about sex well, so Qin Zhiyuan didn't leave.

"Xiao Qin, what are you doing now?"

"Oh, I work in government."

"Oh? I didn't expect it to be a civil servant. Can you tell me about your thoughts on your current job? ”

Qin Zhiyuan glanced at the old man and felt that what he said was a bit superficial.

However, out of politeness, he said: "I don't think too much, as I said earlier, I am a child without an umbrella, and even my legs are missing, so I have to run harder." ”

"No, you're wrong."

The old man shook his head, and neatly denied his words, in fact, he also denied him.

Qin Zhiyuan didn't refute it, this is not "why not eat minced meat", but because people are different.

Many people say that people are equal.

That's right, it's equality.

All lives are equal.

That feeling of hunger is equal when faced with hunger.

By the way, it's the same with and peeing.

Other than that, is there anything else the same?

Don't listen to some countries shouting that all beings are equal, what is the oil dish to cook.

Can the life of their ruler be the same as the life of a beggar on the roadside?

If someone says, "Commander, if you die, this beggar will live."

Can this archon die for this beggar?

I don't believe it!

So, let's go back to the original, your experience, my experience, his experience, the same?

Don't think that everyone was born in a maternal and child health hospital, that's it.

My dad is rubbish, your dad is the mayor, how can this be the same?

I'm trying to climb up to the starting line, ready to make a pose, and you're already drinking coffee with popcorn at the finish line, can it be the same?

Therefore, the old gentleman, who was very imposing at first glance, denied Qin Zhiyuan's statement, he must not be in a hurry, nor was he angry.

For example, when a person drinks water, he knows whether he is warm or cold.

So, he smiled supportively and didn't speak.

"Do you think that what I said about you is wrong three words, very impersonal, full of high-minded malice?"

Qin Zhiyuan shook his head, disbelieving that it was true, and there were indeed no other emotions.

In his eyes, the light is always peaceful, not sharp, and there is no dissatisfaction, anger and other bad emotions.

This made the old man's perception of Qin Zhiyuan another layer better.

"Child, it is not enough to rely on hard work, and no one has ever succeeded by relying on hard work alone. What you rely on is the brain, the means, the emotional intelligence, and the experience. ”

Qin Zhiyuan was stunned for a moment, he smacked carefully, it was really a little... No, it makes a lot of sense.

Of course, he wouldn't be stupid enough to think that there was no need to work hard.

Effort is necessary, but the above is just as indispensable.

If this was put half a year ago, he really wouldn't agree.

But, right now, he's really feeling it.

That's where experience comes in.

Half a year ago, he was not even qualified to meet with the secretary of the township party committee.

Now, following the secretary of the municipal party committee every day, the Standing Committee members greet him with a smile when they see him, not to mention that he is still a friend he has just made with Su Liying.

That's the experience.

"Old man, thank you, what you said is very reasonable, that's right, only work hard, no brains to think, no way to improve efficiency, no emotional intelligence and experience, there is no way to play with human feelings, let alone understand human nature."

"Well, it's really good that you can have such understanding."

The old man laughed.

Qin Zhiyuan was a little shy.

He was grateful to this strange old man, because in his opinion, the old man was indeed a heart-to-heart, not a rambling nonsense.

"Young man, let me say one more thing to you, that is, you must not have the heart of harming others, and you must not have the heart of guarding against others. The really powerful people are half gentlemen and half villains. Being a good person is easy to be bullied, and being a villain is easy to be isolated. But what if you are benevolent and righteous, but you only have the means to do things and talk about strategy? That's how it works. Where there are people, there is strife, and in the face of strife, go straight, don't know how to be flexible, don't know how to strategize, okay? No, "

Qin Zhiyuan thought so, turned around, and bowed to the old man seriously.

"Sir, may I ask your surname?"

At this time, he really wanted to explain the old gentleman.

"When you meet in Pingshui, you don't have to worry about this. Xiao Qin, it's okay if I know you, haha. ”

After saying that, the old man floated away.

At this time, Qin Zhiyuan noticed that near them, there were a few young men in casual clothes, who seemed to be secretly protecting the old man.

Obviously, this old man is not a simple person.

Qin Zhiyuan thought about all the retired cadres in Gu Cheng, and he didn't think of such a big man.

Back to the new house, the large house of more than 100 square meters gave him a feeling of emptiness and loneliness.

He simply locked the door and went back to his cabin.

Along the way, he was thinking about the words the old man had said to him.

This kind of thing is not something in books, but a person's experience.

That's the perception and experience that has been precipitated for decades.

It's like a master leading through the door, and practicing in an individual.

But when the master leads you into the door, he definitely does not teach you the frame and the handle, but tells you his experience and experience, which will make you not take detours or take fewer detours.

From this point of view, Qin Zhiyuan is very grateful to this old gentleman.

However, he also wondered what the hell was the origin of this mysterious old gentleman.

What was the reason for finding him on purpose?

He didn't think that this old man was talking to him about this because he saw him with a kind face.

In fact, he could see that the old man didn't seem to treat him very well at first.

Thinking about it, Qin Zhiyuan didn't know the essentials, so he simply didn't think about it.

Now all he was thinking about was thinking about the words left by the old man.

He had a feeling that these few words would benefit him for the rest of his life.