Chapter 203: Let's have room again
In the evening, Mama Zhao, who was beside Mrs. Wang, came to Gu Yunji's courtyard with four maids: "Is the third young master free at this time?" ”
Gu Yunji walked out of the door in response: "Mother Zhao who is free, but what does my mother command?" ”
Gu Yunji's status in the Gu family has risen since he explored flowers in high school, and even Gu Kaizhen spoke to him with a little politeness, not to mention the other subordinates in the house. Mother Zhao smiled wrinkled with a wrinkled face, and her posture was very humble:
"The third young master is not young now, he should have reached the age of knowing the personnel, these four maids were carefully selected by the lady, they are all innocent and supple, and they are the most suitable for making a room."
As she spoke, Mother Zhao pulled the four maids forward and introduced their names one by one, and said with a smile: "Third young master, which one do you like, just stay." Generally speaking, one or two rooms are sufficient, but if you want to keep all four, you can do that. ”
Gu Yunji glanced at the four low-eyed maids, and said with a headache: "Didn't I refuse the room offered by my mother a few years ago?" Why is it coming again? ”
Mother Zhao said: "A few years ago, you were young and devoted to the imperial examination, so your wife didn't say anything. Now it's different, you're already in high school, and you can't talk about being afraid of being distracted and affecting the imperial examination, not to mention that you're going to get married in two days, if you don't teach you to know these things, it's too late. ”
Gu Yunji was speechless for a while: "You also know that I am going to get married in two days, and the bride has not passed the door yet, how can I rush to stuff people into the groom's official room at this time?" ”
Zhao's mother disagreed: "This is a maid in the room and not a concubine, to put it bluntly, it is just a person who warms the master's bed, what can't be stuffed into the room?" They will serve you at night, and they will do whatever they need to do during the day without affecting you. ”
Gu Yunji heard his temples beating suddenly, and he didn't know what to say for a while.
Mother Zhao thought he was embarrassed, and said with relief: "I know that the third young master is thin-skinned, but you are not shy, which family does not have a maid in the house?" Even the eldest young master also received a room before he got married, and you may not get used to it at first, but it will be fine slowly. ”
Having said that, Gu Yunji still found it difficult to accept. Now it is only three days before getting married, at this moment Xu Shuhua is embroidering his wedding dress at home, waiting for him to marry with peace of mind, how can he use the room at this time and make love to other women on the eve of marriage?
This is a betrayal of Xu Shuhua, and it is an insult to the relationship between them, and he can't accept it no matter what.
Thinking of this, Gu Yunji took a deep breath: "Mother Zhao, I'm about to get married, if I accept Tongfang at this juncture, how will Shuhua feel if he knows it?" I don't care what other people do, but I still do it myself, I don't need to have sex, please ask Mother Zhao to thank my mother for her kindness on my behalf. ”
Mother Zhao still refused to give up, and persuaded again: "If the third young master is worried about Miss Xu's heart, then it is too much to worry about." The family is like this, how can Miss Xu, as a noble lady, not be mentally prepared for this matter? What's more, Miss Xu is dignified and generous, has excellent self-cultivation, and has the bearing of a wife, so she will not blame the third young master for this. ”
"Besides, even if you are dedicated to Miss Xu and do not allow others to interfere, Miss Xu will always get pregnant one day in the future. Pregnancy in October, plus confinement, will take nearly a year, and you can't be forced to endure it and suffocate your body, right? ”
"Instead of letting the third young lady choose a good woman for you with a big belly in the future, it is better to accept two of them in the house now, so as not to worry about her then, right?"
Hearing this, Gu Yunji's heart swelled with anger, and his voice sank: "Mother Zhao, I am a human being, not a beast who can only vent his desires. A woman's pregnancy is extremely hard, and she often can't eat or sleep well, so it can be said that she is tormented day and night. As a husband, it's okay not to accompany and care, if you can't even control this desire, what is the difference between it and a beast? ”
Mother Zhao laughed dryly, although she didn't refute, she didn't think so.
That being said, how many men can really do this? It wasn't them who were pregnant and gave birth, and it wasn't they who walked back and forth outside the ghost gate, so it was naturally difficult to empathize. Not to mention how caring and considerate he is, if he can not go out to his wife during her pregnancy, he can already be regarded as having a conscience.
I'm afraid that the third young master will say not at this time, and after his wife is pregnant, he will be more active in finding a concubine than anyone else.
The two have different concepts, Gu Yunji didn't expect Zhao's mother to accept her thoughts, so she simply stopped arguing with her: "I'll talk about it later, but at the moment, I really don't want and don't need to have sex, so Zhao's mother should take them back." ”
Mother Zhao hesitated: "But your wedding night ......"
Gu Yunji only wanted to persuade herself, and she couldn't help but feel a little angry when she spoke: "The wedding night is the wedding night of me and the bride, what do you have to do with others?" I still have something to do, Mother Zhao, please come back. ”
Gu Yunji's identity is different from the past, Zhao's mother didn't dare to fight him, and after sighing helplessly, she had to turn around and leave.
failed to become Gu Yunji's roommate, and several maids were lost, but they couldn't help but be a little envious: "The third young master is really good to Miss Xu's family, if I have such a considerate and dedicated husband, I'm afraid I will have to wake up laughing from my dreams." ”
Mother Zhao snorted lightly and said disapprenously: "What's the good?" Miss Xu is afraid that she will be guilty of marrying in the future. ”
The maid was puzzled: "Why do you say that?" The third young master treats Miss Xu family wholeheartedly, refuses to accept the connecting room, and there is no messy concubine to block it, Miss Xu's life should be very comfortable, right? How can you be sinned? ”
"You don't understand that, do you?" Zhao's mother showed the expression of a person who came over, "Tongfang seems to be for men, but in fact, it is women who benefit." ”
"A couple for a lifetime sounds good, but it also means that the wife will fall into a huge fertility pain, often just after the confinement, and then conceive another child, and the cycle repeats itself, with no end. When a woman gives birth, she is passing through the ghost gate, and the more times she gets pregnant, the more likely she is to die due to childbirth. ”
"And the damage caused to a woman's body by multiple births is irreparable, even if she does not die in childbirth, it is very likely to leave various root causes, leading to premature aging and early death. Look at the women in the country, their husbands don't have three wives and four concubines, right? But almost all of them had seven or eight children, and most of them did not even live to be forty years old. ”
The maid was frightened when she heard this, swallowed her saliva involuntarily, and asked again, "What...... You can also use contraception, there are so many kinds of child-avoiding soups and child-avoiding pills, and it's not all out of the question. ”
Mother Zhao sighed: "Hey, although the child avoidance decoction is effective, isn't it also harmful to the body?" One carelessness is the inability to have children for life. What's more, a big family like our Gu family has always regarded the inheritance of heirs as a major event, and if a wife can't give birth, someone will force her husband to take a concubine to give birth to a wife. ”
"Instead of having a lot of concubines and concubines at that time, it is better to accept two rooms at the beginning, which can not only alleviate the pain of childbirth, but also not shake your status."
"The third young master thinks he is loving Miss Xu, but in fact he is harming her, even if he can resist the pressure and restrain childbirth in the future, Miss Xu may not be able to resist, and in the end she will either take the initiative to take a concubine for her husband to collect the house, or bear the pain of childbirth herself, anyway, there is no way to have it both ways."
Saying that, Mother Zhao couldn't help but glance back at the direction of Gu Yunji's yard and shook her head: "It's still too young......"