Chapter 617 There are also roots to be found in the recourse
Sheng Shijing watched Su Shuoci dutifully help his daughter-in-law to scald vegetables, and he also did the same, painting gourds according to the scoop.
Seeing Fu Guoguo gobbling up, he couldn't help but smile: "Eat slowly, and no one will rob you!" ”
"Hmph, my second brother has been robbing me!" Fu Guoguo said with a grin.
Her words made everyone laugh, and Second Brother Fu put down his chopsticks and burped contentedly.
"Eat the fruit slowly, the second brother won't rob you, I was already full tonight, I didn't expect me to be able to eat so much."
"Haha... It's all thanks to our husband and wife for making such a delicious hospitality to you. Gu Jiaojiao said with a smug face.
"Haha... Little brother is really honored, why do I feel that today's hot pot is particularly fragrant! Second Brother Fu patted his ass happily.
"Of course, we spent a lot of energy today!"
"There is a good saying, Brother Su and sister-in-law have spent so much effort, they must have a plan!"
"That's a must-drop." Gu Jiaojiao admitted frankly.
"Not really." At the same time, Fu Guoguo retorted with a slight blush, hearing Gu Jiaojiao's words, her expression was very exciting.
Su Shuo couldn't help laughing when he saw this, and Sheng Shijing couldn't help but be happy.
Several people laughed together for a while, Fu Guoguo suddenly stopped smiling and asked seriously: "Big brother, second brother, do you agree with my engagement to Brother Sheng?" ”
"You girl, how can there be any reason for our woman to say first."
Fu Junyuan has been hesitant in his heart, while he admires Sheng Shijing, he is also worried that his own sister will embarrass his own sister.
Even if you don't live together, you have to go between relatives!
If Sheng Yue doesn't let go of her eldest brother, they will suffer wherever they go.
He originally wanted to wait for Sheng Shijing to raise the things he was worried about when he spoke, but at this time, it was his sister who brought it up first.
"Brother Fu, second brother, I am very close to Guoguo, and I want to spend my life with her.
Don't worry about my sister, after I retired, I bought a house in the imperial capital to marry Guoguo, and I will never associate with my sister. ”
"The only thing I'm worried about is this issue, since you've thought about it, then I don't have anything to say, and the rest of my Fu family doesn't interact."
Fu Junyuan looked at Sheng Shijing and said seriously, in fact, his father and stepmother are more difficult.
His father's salary, none of the three brothers and sisters were spent, and the two of them were not enough.
He can't get used to his father and stepmother, but he won't embarrass them, because the biggest taboo in being a man is to be the enemy of others at every turn.
Whoever doesn't like it, he goes against whom, without considering the future situation and gains and losses, which is what he used to like to do.
Now that he has a second brother and sister to protect, and a group of subordinates to support, he is no longer alone.
He has to think about a problem now, although his father and stepmother hate it, they don't offend him either.
So how does he do it?
In the past, he would be rash, thinking that the other party should die if he was a bad person, and always let emotions prevail, and he was irrational.
As a result, there are fewer and fewer friends around you and more and more enemies.
Gu Jiaojiao saw that Fu Junyuan and Sheng Shijing were not affected by both families, but they still had knots in their hearts.
So she patiently enlightened everyone: "Actually, we don't need to be rash, and we don't need to be cynical.
The other party is a villain, that's the other party's business, as long as they don't hurt us, then we don't need to have any emotions towards them.
You don't need to worry too much about Sheng Yue, there can't be no wonders in the world, as long as we stay away from her.
Or Xunzi said it well, respect the villain and stay away, you are a gentleman and don't deal with the villain.
Then you'd better keep your distance from the villain, he doesn't invade you, you don't invade him, and the well water doesn't interfere with the river water.
This world is not black and white, and there is a delicate gray in the middle.
Everyone has a good side and a bad side, and if we always see the bad side, then there will be no good people in this world.
When looking at anyone, you might as well stick to a principle, don't care about your deeds, and weigh what others have done to see if it has an impact on you.
If it doesn't matter, keep your distance from others and don't interfere with each other.
There is no one-size-fits-all approach to getting along with people, and you and I need to do it all the time and be adaptable.
How the situation develops, then we will adjust our personal strategy according to the situation.
If others have any goals and actions, then we will adjust our own response methods according to the goals and actions of others. ”
"Listening to my sister-in-law's words, it's better than reading for ten years, yes, since the other party has no intention of being our enemy, then we don't take the initiative to stir up trouble.
Sometimes, more is better than less, and it makes sense.
On the other hand, if the other party insists on being our enemy and going against us everywhere, then we don't need to be too tolerant.
Sometimes, one punch is necessary to avoid a hundred punches, and learning to adapt is the most important wisdom in dealing with people.
Sticking to the old ways will not be able to keep up with the development of the situation, and only by improvising can we be invincible and invincible. ”
Second Brother Fu heard it in a fog, but he knew that he was going to make a statement as Guoguo's second brother, so he said.
"Haha...... There's nothing that can't be solved with a meal, and as long as I eat a good meal, I don't have any opinions. ”
Sheng Shijing and Fu Guoguo's engagement, Gu Jiaojiao used a hot pot to help them finalize it.
Fu Junyuan resolutely did not invite anyone from the Fu family, he didn't want his sister's engagement banquet to be unpleasant.
And Fu Junyuan did make concessions this time, inviting his friends and Fu Guoguo's friends to participate in his villa.
Sheng Shijing only invited the Gu family here, and they held a simple but grand engagement banquet at Fu Junyuan's house.
Grandpa Gu and Dad Gu had organized Second Brother Gu's engagement banquet and wedding banquet, so they had experience.
They are even more afraid of being tired of their precious granddaughters and daughters, so they don't need Gu Jiaojiao to contribute, she just watches from the sidelines.
The money that needs to be spent is naturally all paid by Fu Junyuan, and all the previous salary of Sheng Shijing was given to the previous Gu Jiaojiao.
Later, all of them were given to Sheng Yue, so he only had three months' salary, which was not enough to buy a set of clothes.
Gu Jiaojiao asked him to keep the money on his body and invite Guoguo to go to Qingcheng for the New Year together, and he listened.
"Big brother, the cost of this engagement banquet will be billed first, and I will pay you back slowly in the future."
"Besides, just be nice to my sister in the future." Fu Junyuan said generously.
He has no shortage of money since he resigned with Su Shuo, and there are dividends at the end of this year, and they Brother Su will really come to something.
After the engagement banquet, there were only three days left before the New Year, and Gu Jiaojiao and the others were also ready to go home for the New Year.
Gu Jiaojiao and Su Shuoci picked out some good things from the space to give gifts, and several of her eldest brothers were all bigwig-level people.
These good things are acceptable to them, and they have roots to be found, even if they are big guys, they are difficult to get.