Another use of "Li Dai Taozhuang" is not to require A to replace B, but to consider the problem comprehensively and not to be informal. The way to be a man is not to lose the big because of the small.

Fame and status are coveted by many people, and in order to cater to the appetite of their boss or those who are beneficial to themselves, even if there are thousands of reasons for opposition in their hearts, they still pretend to be submissive on the surface.

Although the above-mentioned people who sell their souls against their will are despised, people who are self-respecting like "vampires" can also make people shy away. When the "vampire" type still has a position of power, they may not feel the deep damage of this self-respecting character, but when they are old and weak, their friends will be gone one by one, leaving only emptiness and loneliness.

"Title" is not a convincing thing, only the title is not able to win the admiration and assistance of subordinates, you must have the power to really dominate people, subordinates will sincerely support you, love you, and want to get dominance, the first condition is to understand and be considerate of others.

Although everyone has their own opinions, people are not sages, there are always negligence, we should not be stubborn and self-righteous, we should take our own opinions as the mainstay, supplemented by the opinions of others, and carefully consider to find out the feasible way. In addition, you must always put yourself in the shoes of others, and do not be selfish and do whatever you want, because this will only isolate you and be disgusted by others. Only by being considerate of others and being considerate of others can we achieve good interpersonal relationships.

Someone once painted a watercolor of a pumpkin, cucumber and onion. Although these three vegetables have their own characteristics in terms of color and shape, the picture of this painting is very harmonious, and there is nothing to find unsightly.

What this watercolor conveys is the basic spirit of maintaining a harmonious atmosphere. Pumpkins, cucumbers, onions, etc., although the colors and shapes have their own unique styles, but once they are combined, they must be harmonized with each other, and their own characteristics should not be overemphasized. In addition to our own unique personality, we must also be considerate and respectful of others' personalities, and not do whatever we want.

On holidays, the train station or the street is often crowded with people, and you must have heard someone in the crowd complaining, "Where did so many people come from?" …… Why don't you stay home? …… It's uncomfortable with so many people! ”

People who say this kind of thing can be called authentic "vampire" people. This type of person always does not examine himself before criticizing others, as in the above case, he only complains about the crowds, but never thinks that he is one of these people. This kind of behavior that thinks it is different and only knows how to criticize others is too naïve and ignorant. These people should be considered holistically, not limited to small details, and forbearance should be exchanged for long-term peace.

In the competition, enterprises are sometimes inevitably in a disadvantageous situation. An effective way to get out of trouble is to gain as much as possible in exchange for as few losses as possible; And compensate for the stiff "Li" on behalf of the "peach", so that it can continue to play a good role in the enterprise.