After losing a small face, whether you can establish a high posture to face it calmly can often reflect a person's cultivation level. Once a person with poor personal cultivation loses a small face, he may make a lot of noise and make a fuss. In this way, not only will not regain the face he has lost, but it is likely that he will lose a bigger face, and people with good personal cultivation can often face it calmly when they lose their face, and they can bear it silently when they lose face, so that people no longer pay attention to whether he has lost face, but admire his personal cultivation more, and the face lost in one place is found in another place.

George Bernard Shaw is a world-famous playwright, and he is a man of great personal cultivation.

"Arms and Men" is one of George Bernard Shaw's famous plays, and after George Bernard Shaw completed this play, he took it to a theater for the first time, and the result was a great success, and the audience applauded like thunder. The enthusiastic audience asked him to come to the stage for a curtain call.

At this moment, a man stood up and shouted at George Bernard Shaw: "What kind of play is this, it's just terrible!" ”

George Bernard Shaw did not get angry or speak coldly at this unreasonable language, on the contrary, he bowed to the man with a smile and said politely: "My friend, I completely agree with you. ”

Then he shrugged his shoulders and pointed to the enthusiastic audience and said, "But what's the use of the two of us opposing so many spectators?" Suddenly, the audience erupted in even warmer applause. People applauded not only George Bernard Shaw's literary mastery, but also his excellent personal accomplishments.

In this little story, the rude audience at the beginning did make George Bernard Shaw lose some face, because his work received the "terrible" review. But George Bernard Shaw was not annoyed by the spectator's rudeness, and he bowed to the spectator very politely and agreed with his assessment, but at the same time implicitly criticized the spectator for not being aware of the times.

The comments of the impudent audience would have made George Bernard Shaw lose face, but George Bernard Shaw did not see him as an enemy because of this. Instead, he skillfully used the strategy of holding the sheep by the hand, and turned the audience into an embarrassing situation to a situation that was beneficial to himself, which was a wise move. George Bernard Shaw treated the audience as if he were talking to an old friend, and showed his good personal cultivation in front of a large audience. In this way, the audience will not pay attention to the comments of the impudent audience, but will sincerely admire the personal cultivation of George Bernard Shaw. When George Bernard Shaw lost face, he set up a high posture, so as to win the hearts of many audiences and regain the lost face.

In the business field, if you don't believe in getting rich by luck, there is no miracle of "a golden doll with a hoe", you can't do big things without capital, and you can't mix up buying and selling short. Only by relying on mind, courage, strategy, and talent to accumulate capital in a mountain of soil and water, then small enterprises can also cultivate a raptor, and a raptor can cross the river. However, in the process of accumulating funds, it should be natural, that is, the sheep should be held logically, and after being held, it should be raised and raised, and it should not be killed in a hurry.