In real life, we are likely to be bullied and humiliated by some strong people from time to time, so how should we deal with such a very unacceptable fact?

I can't help but think of something. Here, simply confronting it, but it is really suffering from no strength, and blindly enduring it is just an expedient measure, which is likely to increase the appetite of the other party and feel that it is easy to bully, so as to gain an inch and get Longwangshu.

It should be said that in a weak and helpless position, resisting with a little bit of one's own flesh is likely to hit a stone with an egg, and there is no return.

However, forbearance must also have a method. Through this kind of forbearance, we can get rid of the oppression and humiliation we have been subjected to, and we can protect ourselves appropriately.

There is a story like this, but it can give people some inspiration. It is talking about a scoundrel in a county market in Shandong, who has practiced kung fu for a few days and can play a few fists and feet, and do whatever he wants in the town's farmers' market.

The most infuriating thing is that he always carries the chicken from this stall and the meat from the other case, but always refuses to pay.

Whoever asks him for it, he says that he will give it on credit first, and then he will give it later. But whoever really asks for it, he's either going to fight or think so hard that you can't stay here.

People dare to be angry with him, but they dare not speak. One day, this scoundrel came to the market again. He went to a pork stall, ordered a piece of meat and asked the stall owner to cut it off for him, and the stall owner, who was also a young man, listened to him, but without saying a word, he picked up his knife and sharpened it on the stone beside the case.

Seeing this, the scoundrel had no choice but to stand there and wait. At this time, the people on the side of the stall began to gather, half to watch the excitement, and half to witness the rampant behavior of this scoundrel.

Unbeknownst to him, the stall owner grinded for several minutes and did not stop. At this time, the scoundrel was in a hurry, and he scolded when he opened his mouth, asking the stall owner to hurry up.

I saw that the stall owner answered unhurriedly, and swung his polished knife into the sun, and a cold light shone directly into the scoundrel's eyes.

This scoundrel was shocked in his heart and couldn't help but fight a cold war. urged the stall owner to cut the meat quickly, but his tone was obviously softened.

The stall owner took a knife and cut down the piece of meat that the scoundrel wanted, and listened

With a "brush", a large piece of neat meat was cut. What's even more amazing is that with this knife, the bones attached to the meat were cut off at all.

Seeing this, this scoundrel couldn't help but be stunned again. The matter is not over, and after the stall owner has chopped the meat, he does not just put the knife on the case as ordinary people do.

Instead, he unexpectedly threw it at a plank a few feet away from him. With a sound, the chopper was inserted into the plank, side by side with several others.

Oh! It turned out that this was his blade. What is also strange is that this time the scoundrel did not pick up the meat and walk away, as usual, but asked the stall owner to weigh it and pay the money before going back.

What is the force that makes the stall owner conquer the scoundrel in the midst of forbearance? Reading this little story, people naturally think of the knife, and the stall owner's skillful techniques and skills.

However, this story tells us more of a skill: that is, it can give the other party a hint through a certain form, a certain object, and a certain action: although you endure it, you are not easy to bully.

Here, although there is no confrontation between open flames and fists and feet, it is also a contest and a display of strength, will, and personality.

This implication is very important. Although it does not have a superficial confrontation, it is indeed forbearance in form, but it makes the other party understand that this kind of forbearance is not obedience to orders, nor is it a servile obedience, it is just an active concession.

In fact, it is also telling the other party that once it is pressed, the lamb will also become a tiger. In short, in this case, forbearance is due, but the power of one's existence should be manifested at the right time.

Use you to soften his rigidity and weaken his strength, which is also a good way to protect yourself with the method of drawing wages from the bottom of the kettle.

Salary is a common means of competition in the business field. It is much less gunpowder and swords than fighting a collision war of funds, equipment, and technology.

The method of "drawing salary" can be long-term or tortuous; The salary drawn, which can be:

"Hardware", such as the commanding heights or control of machines and raw materials; It can also be

"Software", such as management methods, technical capabilities, and design results, are used for their own use. This plan is used properly, and strong hands can

"Soldiers are bloodless" so that the weak can be captured, and the weak can also subdue the strong with softness and rigidity.