No matter how successful a person is, there is one thing that human beings have in common, that is, there are always times of emptiness and low mood.

When your boss has no choice, he pulls you to talk about private matters after work, which is exactly what he has to understand. Remember, he doesn't particularly appreciate or trust you, don't be complacent, take every step is the attitude you should take.

Because if he regrets letting you know too much about private affairs, and is afraid that you will publicize it to the outside world, he may especially avoid taboos against you, and in this way, it will be very bad for your future.

If you go to work the next day and publicize last night's events to your colleagues in order to elevate yourself, the consequences will be worrying.

Also, I thought that last night's gathering was equivalent to establishing a solid friendship with my boss, so I kept patting him on the shoulder when I saw him, which may make you be swept away immediately!

Don't be careless. A smart person should take the opposite attitude, that is, to keep silent about what happened last night, even to his best colleagues, and not to reveal a word, and to pretend that nothing happened.

When you meet your boss, be calm and keep your distance from him, unless the other person brings up the old story first.

If he is still elated, with an attitude of knowing the old thing, you can let go of your heart. For another example, by chance, you discover a secret: your married boss is having an extramarital affair with a female colleague.

In fact, things are not complicated, as long as you pretend to be deaf and dumb, pretend not to know everything, and you will be safe.

For example, if you have a friend for dinner at a restaurant, and when you step into the restaurant and you see them, you can pretend to be calm and look around, and if your friend doesn't arrive, things will be much easier, just leave the place and wait for your friend outside the door as if you can't find anyone.

Even if your friend is already sitting at the table, you can go up to him and leave the place with him as if he was in a hurry, and explain in detail.

If you and your friends arrive first and are having dinner and they come in, you might as well say hello calmly with eye contact, but don't make small talk with your friends for too long, it's better to go before them and remember not to say hello when you leave.

When I returned to the office the next day, I thought I was just working as if nothing had happened. Even if a colleague talks about the two of them privately, it is better not to mention it.

Anyway, talking about the relationship between men and women in the office will not end well, and you will make a wise choice if you are smart.

However, the boss is really in love this time, so much so that he openly doubles in and out, which has become a hot topic in the office.

There are people who are afraid that the world will not be chaotic, and they plan to report him to the higher authorities. You'd love to help him, but slowly!

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The "admonisher" has to take a big risk! If he's in the middle of continuing the romance and the fear of his superiors, it's very likely that he's looking for a target to vent, and you'll be the one who is in the wind!

He will see you as a stumbling block, a jealous, or the author of rumors

"Good intentions are not rewarded". On the other hand, a shrewd executive would never let private affairs get involved in business, so it is likely that your advice will be in vain.

I advise you to be a silent person, and it is most appropriate to show your loyalty to him in this way. Don't express any opinion about his incident, and don't let other colleagues pull you into the water and become someone else's back, it is better to adopt an attitude of ignoring it in order to make yourself

"Golden Cicada" skillful

"Shelling" and putting yourself in an active position. It's not uncommon to get into trouble or trouble in starting a business, but the question is how to get out of it.

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"The golden cicada sheds its shell", when the situation is unfavorable to itself, it still maintains its original momentum on the surface, so that the opponent does not dare to act rashly and he can find a good opportunity to get out of the predicament, so that he can be defeated but not broken, and lose but not defeated.

Quick-witted and unfazed entrepreneurs are often able to use this strategy to move from predicament to glory.